05/17/2024
**Not written by me…
BUT this ALL THE WAY!…as a matter fact, when I read it I was certain someone had taken the words right out of my mouth… 
EDUCATION TIME!
No preamble this time. We’re getting right into it.
Breeding dogs is traumatic. Read that again. Breeding. Dogs. Is. Traumatic.
At some point when you breed you will experience trauma. It might be your first litter, it might be your fifteenth. If you breed with any sort of longevity…you will undoubtedly experience trauma.
I have had to go through things that have scarred me for life, things that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemies.
You will lose puppies.
You will lose one of your girls.
You will lose both at the same time.
You will lose dogs.
People will be cruel to your dogs and not all buyers will keep in contact no matter how much you try. Some other breeders will become your worst enemy, gossiping and making up horrible stories about you. Animal activists will harass and bash you, some will post falsities about you online, some people will believe them. The above will do this out of ignorance, jealousy, pettiness, insecurity, or many, for no particular reason at all.
You will deal with human beings who won’t like you because you won’t sell them a dog, or simply because you breed animals. Any number of reasons, really.
You will deal with the stress of vet bills when an unexpected whelping complication occurs. You will deal with overzealous mamas who get urine burns on their lips. You will have YEARS, that no matter what you try, your girls won't take or they reabsorb litters.
You will deal with animals you bred getting sick, despite how hard you tried to avoid it because just like ALL people, animals get sick too. You will deal with upset clients who were expecting perfection because unrealistic standards are ascribed to breeders who health test and title.
I make no apologies for the dogs I’ve bred over the years. I have regrets and sadness over certain occurrences, but I am not sorry for the dogs I’ve created who bring their owners more joy then they can possibly imagine and give me a sense of purpose. You can’t control what everyone says about you, all you can do is prove the naysayers wrong. Let the quality of your dogs and integrity of your program speak for itself, anyone who would much rather rely on malicious gossip isn’t worthy of your expertise, time or the quality of one of your pups!
I have experienced trauma, I have had many sleepless nights and many tears, but I also find great joy in what I do.
If you choose to breed, you will experience the above too. To do this you have to have thick skin, and at some point, if this is not truly an "IN YOUR BLOOD" kind of passion, you will have to decide how much you can take.