07/09/2023
Sometimes the biggest struggles bring the most life changing events. What feels like many steps backwards, endless questions, lots of tears and sleepless nights, heart ache and heart break, sometimes bring you answers you always wanted but never thought you’d get, sometimes it feels like it’s at a huge cost. And yet sometimes, these struggles lead you to the light again..
One very special red horse whose connection with me was so strong before even meeting in person, had bigger plans than I could have ever imagined. He was so kind, tried so hard, he was perfect day in and day out, and I had huge plans for us. Unfortunately after so much good, came so much decline. My gut knew he wasn’t just “acting out”.. we tried countless remedies, tests, exams, programs and rehabs. I was out of options and completely defeated until an amazing woman put me in contact with another amazing woman who said she could help. Through her Balance Through Movement Method, he began to heal, grow stronger and healthier, and traveled down a road towards recovery. I saw the light again, and his improvements forever changed how I looked at all of my horses from then on.
A year and a half later in June 2023, I finally got to meet these incredible women in person. The Elements of Connection Clinic in California was life changing. All five of these women are beautiful role models of horse advocates, proper development, emotional balance of horse and human, and so much more. They took each one of us participants further down a road of self reflection, discovery and grounding, which continues to pour out into our connections with our horses and each other. Each clinician was so unique and passionate in their line of expertise. I feel so blessed to have been able to learn from them, and be able to take the experience home to utilize in my own training.
Maya Angelou said, “Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.”
Life is a journey, bringing lessons with the passing years, and some
of mine seem to be getting louder with age. I believe we should be the biggest advocates for our equine partners, we should ask more questions, we should find better ways we can help them, we should listen to them. They are talking after all, and they keep showing up for us day after day. We need to show up for them just as much, if not more.
I’ve learned lately doing things differently than industry standards is scary, frowned upon, and often made fun of or sold as you’re not good enough. It can be tough to be different. But, when you wholeheartedly believe in something and the path that you’re on, you should fight your way through it and continue the journey ahead. Those in your circle will be supporting and cheering you on, all the way through.
Unfortunately my story with my sweet red horse was cut much too short. He came to do what he was intended to do… lead me to the start of an incredible journey, changing the way I forever look at and work with horses, and he brought me to an amazing tribe of women. So many things I’ll forever be grateful for beyond words. So, be brave and dare to be different, especially if it helps the horses. 💙
PC Kaser Equine Photography
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