I know I owe you all two blog posts on the FEI Youth Pathway. They are definitely coming, but in the meantime I have something to say.
The future of dressage is YOUR responsibility.
Let me say it again.
The future of dressage is YOUR responsibility.
I was cruising through Facebook over breakfast looking for some content to wake me up, and I didn't have to go far. A lovely young rider who is an acquaintance of mine posted some photos from a recent schooling show. The first comment I saw I will not even bother to repeat here. Suffice it to say it was so nasty and condescending it actually took my breath away for a moment. Mind you, this is directed towards a kid, towards a child.
Why? Why must we insist on eating our young in dressage?
Tell me, have you really ever taken the advice of someone who ridiculed, discouraged and shamed you? By contrast, how often have you listened to someone who inspired, guided and lifted you up?
I was just reading a post the other day (and I wish I could find it — if someone knows the author, please tell me) about going to a local dressage show versus a western event. The author described how unwelcome and demoralized she felt after the dressage show. Then by contrast how she showed up to the western event with the wrong equipment and not a clue about anything that was going on, and the organizer welcomed her right away: "I see you are new to this. We are so glad you are here."
It takes a concerted effort at all levels of the sport to adopt that "We are so glad you are here" mindset. Because it only takes one person and one bad interaction to leave someone so discouraged that they stop trying and quit the sport for good. I'm certainly not perfect — I often have to remind myself. The next time you are frustrated by someone's lack of experience, instead get curious:
"Can I help you with that?"
"Do you have any questions?"
"Do you know which way to go?"
"We are so glad you are here."
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