10/26/2025
I cannot stress this enough, and when I saw this graphic, I had to share it.
Your dog is not a programable, updatable or replaceable. And, neither are YOU. You are both two halves of one team and you will each have to meet each other where you're at on any particular day. The same goes for any relationship or partnership.
The last year and a half, as I've navigated grief and the world as a new context without my mother, training has looked different for me. I'm not as intense, I'm not as persistent, I truly don't hang my perception of myself anymore on how my dogs "perform" - but rather in how I feel around them, how they feel around me, and having more fun than finished product. They have met me in where I'm at, because a lot of the time "my best" is barely hanging on, and I have been so grateful to that.
I do the same for them. Some days they won't be on top of their game, they may be navigating something themselves - even if it's as simple as ALL THE LEAVES ARE BLOWING AND OMG - and I just have to lower my goals for that day and let it be. Life is too short to be mad at my DOGS. I mean, really.
In a world of technology and everything being taken over for us, try to relish in the unpredictability of nature and organic relationships. Remind yourself that even though you are surrounded by machines that do everything for you at the touch of a button, YOU are a human - an animal - and so is your dog. And it's one of the oldest and most sacred partnerships in the animal world, so enjoy it, don't try to control it or rush it. Our dogs don't, so we shouldn't either.
Helen St. Pierre