09/15/2025
Remembering My Dad and Caring for his Companion, Daisy.
Many of my siblings have shared this sad news, and many of you have already reached out with kind words and condolences — my family and I are truly touched.
With both sadness and gratitude, I share that my dad, Francis “Fran” A. Rapp — a devoted husband, loving father, and pillar of his community, passed away peacefully on September 2, 2025, at the age of 93, in the home he cherished for more than 60 years, surrounded by his children.He is now reunited with my remarkable mom, Martha Jane Rapp, his beloved wife of 65 years, who we lost in August 2020.
For those who follow my work, you know that my dad was Daisy’s person. The perfect dog, I adopted Daisy from a shelter for my Dad’s 90th Birthday. I want to reassure you that Daisy is in good hands. She has been deeply loved by my sister Sheri since the very first day she met her on adoption day three years ago.
Daisy’s transition to life with Sheri and Tom actually began months ago. They would bring their 2 year old Golden Retriever, Luke, over for games of chase and wrestling in the yard. Sheri also brought Daisy to her home, leading her around the house, yard, and neighborhood so it would feel familiar. Daisy, always a confident dog, enjoyed her visits and loved spending time with Luke. But she was happiest when she could return to her person — my dad.
This all changed, when the time came for Dad to be wheeled away, Daisy stepped forward and followed his cart with a tucked tail, lowered head and stillness. Afterwards, she walked through his home with her head hung low, no longer trotting about with her usual open-mouthed smile. Her grief was heavy and visible.
To ease her adjustment, all her toys, beds, bowls and even one of Dad’s shirts were moved with her that day. And now, in the comfort of Sheri and Tom’s loving home, Daisy and Luke have truly become best friends. She’s adjusting beautifully, seeking out connection from Sheri, enjoying plenty of attention and long sniffer walks. With goofy (and a bit pesky) Luke around, they engage in play a lot, but she can easily lie on him whenever she needs a break.
Together with my seven siblings, our extended family and dear friends, we came together to celebrate my dad’s life on September 11th 2025. A man whose life was defined by his unconditional love for God, family and country. He will be deeply missed by many… including his faithful companion, Daisy.
Daisy's Story: https://caninebehaviorcounseling.com/how-to-find-a-dog-for-my-dad-in-3-days/