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Being ‘Solution-Oriented’
10/29/2025

Being ‘Solution-Oriented’

The Cost of Anthropomorphism:We all do it and often without realizing, we talk about our horses as if they were people:“...
10/18/2025

The Cost of Anthropomorphism:

We all do it and often without realizing, we talk about our horses as if they were people:

“She’s in a bad mood today.”
“He’s being grumpy because he doesn’t want to work”
“She’s being a diva.”

This tendency to humanize our horses is called anthropomorphism and can be quite harmful to our horses. Anthropomorphism simply means attributing human characteristics, emotions, intentions, or reasoning to non-human animals. It’s when we say our horse is “being stubborn” instead of “struggling with discomfort,” or assume he’s “being cheeky” when he resists the bridle.

It’s not that horses don’t feel, they absolutely do!

They experience stress, fear, relief, contentment, and social attachment.

But they don’t think like we do, they don’t plot revenge or wake up “in a mood.” Their behaviour is rooted in instinct, learning, environment, and physical state, not human emotion or moral reasoning.

The problem is that when we interpret a horse’s behaviour through a human lens, we risk misreading pain, anxiety, or confusion as attitude.

That mare who “doesn’t feel like working today” may actually have a sore back.
The gelding who’s “being lazy” may be protecting himself from a poorly fitted saddle.
The horse who “is being a brat” under saddle may actually be showing a pain response, not a personality flaw.

Anthropomorphism makes us less curious and less compassionate. Once we label a horse as “naughty” or “moody,” we stop asking why. And that “why” is where the truth lives, in the body, the training history, the environment, and the horse’s lived experience.

We need to shift our mindset from judgment to investigation, from “he’s being difficult” to “what is he trying to tell me?”

By letting go of anthropomorphism, we start to respect them as horses, with their own ways of perceiving the world. When we interpret behaviour through their lens rather than ours, we open the door to:
- More effective communication
- More ethical training practices
- Better welfare outcomes
- And a deeper, truer horse-human partnership

The next time your horse shows a certain behaviour, whether you perceive it as positive or negative, ask yourself: What are they feeling? What are they showing me? What might they need?

*Post copied from another source, but a worthwhile read. Photo of the inseparable Rohan and Ziggy because we just love their cute faces!

Consistency, hours of practice, and correct fundamentals are the determining factors for buulding advanced riders and be...
10/18/2025

Consistency, hours of practice, and correct fundamentals are the determining factors for buulding advanced riders and becoming the winners in a competition/horse show - so keep practicing! Try again and again until it is smooth.

When a round goes poorly, it’s tempting for riders to shrug and say, “I’m just not talented enough.” The idea that natural ability separates the great riders from everyone else has been around forever. But Geoff Teall argues that this belief is not only false—it’s dangerous.

Most riders have fallen back on the excuse of lacking talent at one point or another. It’s an easy way to relieve pressure when things aren’t going well. As Teall puts it, “Lack of talent is a great stress reliever. It allows you to say things like, ‘I didn’t do that right. It’s not because I’m not trying hard, it’s because I’m not talented.’”

The problem with this mindset is that it creates a false barrier to improvement. If talent is all that matters, then there’s no point in trying harder or practicing longer. You either have it, or you don’t. Teall dismisses this as a “ridiculous excuse.”

In Teall’s philosophy, “talent is so unimportant when compared to interest, when compared to desire, and when compared to hard work.” A disciplined rider with modest natural ability will almost always surpass a gifted rider who lacks focus and consistency.

This is because riding, at its core, is about repetition, discipline, and refinement. Correct position, independent hands, balance, and feel aren’t bestowed at birth. They are developed through hours of practice. Riders who commit themselves to mastering the basics methodically are the ones who end up achieving the most.

Discipline, in Teall’s view, is the great equalizer. It’s not glamorous, and it doesn’t make for dramatic breakthroughs overnight. But it’s what keeps riders drilling the fundamentals, fixing bad habits, and returning to the saddle day after day, even when progress feels slow.

Discipline also shows up in the rider’s mindset. A disciplined rider doesn’t let frustration boil over in the schooling ring. They don’t look for shortcuts or gimmicks. They know that equitation isn’t about doing flashy things, but about doing the simple things, like keeping a steady pace or following softly with the hands, better than anyone else.

Teall emphasizes that “drive and determination are enormously leveling factors.” This is particularly encouraging for the average rider who may not fit the ideal body type, have limitless financial backing, or possess the innate “feel” that others seem to show.

A rider who truly wants to improve—is willing to put in the work—will often outpace a peer who relies only on raw ability. The sport rewards persistence. Every hour spent practicing correct position, every lesson spent refining basics, builds toward the rider’s long-term success.

📎 Continue reading this article at https://www.theplaidhorse.com/2025/10/15/talent-vs-hard-work-what-really-creates-great-riders/
📸 © Heather N. Photography

We’re all beginners at some point - it’s messy, and we’re going to make mistakes that we’ll cringe at later. Take a deep...
09/09/2025

We’re all beginners at some point - it’s messy, and we’re going to make mistakes that we’ll cringe at later. Take a deep breath and keep going, it gets better!

09/04/2025

Whether you’re in an intense jumping lesson with your trainer or casually hacking on your own, we teach our horse every time we sit on it. What’s important is that we use this super power for good! It’s just as easy to train your horse bad habits as it is good ones, and these often happen when we flat on our own.

Proper flatwork is key to success in any discipline, and it all starts with the basics. That’s why we asked trainer, Margaret Clayton, for her insight. A skilled trainer for top riders on the A circuit, she knows how to develop the winning mindset—for every ride.

Here are Margaret’s top 4 tenets for every ride.

The Goal is To Train Horses to Respond to Lighter Aids, Not Stronger Aids

Have you ridden a horse that’s dead in the mouth or takes an act of god to get to trot? It’s not fun. While it’s important to be fit enough to achieve your goals, you shouldn’t have to go to the gym until you have the strength of a bodybuilder just to halt or get your horse in front of your leg. If your horse isn’t listening, focus on your technique, not your strength. Learn to use lighter aids, and teach your horse to respond to them correctly.

Horses learn from the release of pressure

Fundamentally, our aids work by the application and release of pressure on different parts of the horse’s body. It’s important that riders learn to release this pressure as soon as the horse starts to respond to it. The release is the horse’s reward. Look for opportunities to release pressure faster and more often throughout your ride. As you increase your awareness of this process, you will improve the communication between you and your horse

Reward More Than You Correct

Whether it’s an animal or a human, positive reinforcement has been scientifically proven to be the most effective teaching method. Horses are more sensitive than we often give them credit for, and they typically want to do a good job. Each time your horse gives a bit more, acknowledge and praise their try. Repeat the process until you’re where you want to be. Results don’t happen overnight. Even if it’s not your best ride, don’t let yourself get hung up on what’s going wrong. Handing out more praise than discipline will let your horse know when she’s performing correctly, and help build a better lasting relationship with your partner.

Focus on the process, not just the end result

Want to lengthen your trot? Leg yield? Counter canter all the way around the ring? Those aren’t things that you’re going to get right the first time you ask. Instead, make it about the journey. Are you riding better? Is your horse performing better? Are you getting closer to your goals? If the answer is yes, you’re on the right track. Keep up the good work!

🔗 Save and share this article at https://www.theplaidhorse.com/2020/12/07/4-things-to-remember-every-time-you-flat-your-horse/
📸 © Heather N. Photography

Noticing the small signs of how your horse is feeling, or where the attention is directed, allows you to step up as a le...
09/03/2025

Noticing the small signs of how your horse is feeling, or where the attention is directed, allows you to step up as a leader and protector on-time to influence their behavior in gentle ways (as opposed to us responding ‘late’, or after a behavior has erupted into a larger problem). We can apply the same concept of asking a horse to do something ‘early’ with less energy/strength as opposed to asking ‘late’ with excess energy and strength! Be mindful with you horse. ❤️

Aaallllllll the time - my students know this journey through the fields quite well! 😂
07/31/2025

Aaallllllll the time - my students know this journey through the fields quite well! 😂

Just a neat little reminder for anyone asking about what lesson content may look like when it’s hot out - this is usuall...
07/28/2025

Just a neat little reminder for anyone asking about what lesson content may look like when it’s hot out - this is usually the system we base our horses’ workloads on!

(For anyone who wasn’t at the barn yesterday, our Horse Heat Index number was 170! We did LOTS of baths and In-Barn activities in front of the cooling fans)

The weather forecast for most of Maryland this week, is HOT and HUMID!!! If you must ride or work your horses, here are some tips to help them. We are already seeing that some lesson barns are cancelling lessons due to the predicted heat, so double check that planned activities are still happening. Stay hydrated.

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