
09/21/2025
We push boundaries with dogs when we rush to build a relationship with them by:
1) petting them without asking for the owner + the dog's permission
2) sticking your hand/fist in their face so they can sniff you
3) snap your fingers + point for them to come over
4) saying "it's okay" when dogs are clearly showing signs of anxiety by backing up, barking, growling, yawning, licking their lips, etc
5) believing that because "all dogs love you" they are going to love you asap
6) talking - stop it!
7) not giving the dog time to observe you from a distance + not letting them approach in their own time + even then you understand that dogs who finally approach don't always want to be petted
8) not staring at dogs (intimidating)
9) you finally pet them but you don't recognize when the time is UP + they are done due to the body language signals