12/27/2023
Horses have a confidence just as we do. When we get nitpicked and it seems like every move we make is wrong, we lose confidence. Right? It’s the exact same as a horse. Yes, go ahead and correct your horse when something goes wrong and show him the right way, then reward him when he does the right thing. Don’t nitpick your horse for every tiny thing they do wrong, instead praise them for everything they do right. Your mindset when you are on their backs 100% determines how confident they are. Don’t be a negative Nancy and focus on the bad, focus on the good that they are doing. Show them what is right. They have bad days just as we do, they make mistakes, it’s part of learning just like it’s part of our learning as well. If something isn’t going right and you can’t fix it, make a change or get another opinion on it. I often compare horses to kids, they don’t know that they are doing something wrong most of the time. Instead of yelling or disciplining them, SHOW them what they are doing wrong, how they can fix it, and the right thing to do. If you are constantly yelling and disciplining them, all it’s teaching them is to hate whatever it is because they only get yelled at in the end. Who enjoys getting yelled at? NOT ONE PERSON. It’s the same with horses. Let them enjoy the sport, because if they don’t enjoy it, why would they go in that arena and work their butt off for you? They aren’t running for the money, buckles, saddles, etc. like we are. They are running for us because we are asking them to. Would you work your butt off for someone you hate? Absolutely not. So don’t make them hate you or the sport.
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Taylor Dunlap
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📸- Gary Cox