This is follow-up to a sub thread conversation that I think is a valuable discussion. We were talking about the importance of teaching babies manners.
It drives me crazy when horse owners make excuses for their horse's bad behavior.
"She doesn't tie but it's ok, I just hold her while I groom and tack"
"He's pushy so we just use a chain (pain) over his nose to control him".
"She dances around when I'm on the ground but is fine once I'm in the saddle."
..... and don't get me started on loading issues. If you own your own trailer, work on it when you don't have to go somewhere. If you or your horse are nervous about loading, keep practicing until you're both bored.
Any time you handle your horse is a training opportunity. TRAIN YOUR HORSE! Take the time to work through these issues. If you have an issue and are not sure how to handle it, ask a trainer.
It's critical to teach your foals manners and constantly reinforce that training. Young horses, like kittens and puppies, are very playful. Unlike kittens and puppies, though, is that they will fast outweigh you. They learn to play with their friends by kicking, biting, mounting, wrestling, etc. each other. Horses don't realize that we are not as big and strong as they are. It's important for us to teach them what is allowed and what is not, as early as possible. Babies, with no manners, are very dangerous. A playful kick can mean permanent lights out.
With Brownie, every day we do mini manners lessons while we walk from 1 barn to the other. He walks, whoas, backs, moves over, all on a loose line. We practice everyday and each day he's lighter and easier to work with. It doesn't take much, just 10 minutes a day.
Part of being a responsible horse owner is to make sure your horses have manners. At the very least they should stand patiently, lead on a loose line, tie without fussing. You should be able to send them (like out on a lunge line). You should be able to blanket them and wrap their legs. You
We're experiencing a bit of a backslide with Fiora. Since her experience with the bush halter she's been much more nervous. I gave her a day off then she had her field trip to the arena. Yesterday, when we got back to work she was resistant to go into the barn, once I brought the rope out.
I'm able to approach and touch her, in and out of the barn, as I have been, without the rope. But bringing the rope out increases her anxiety.
This makes sense. The last time I used it she panicked. And though we worked through it and I didn't remove it after she was well calm and had yielded her head, both directions, with just a light bump. Panic is a strong emotion. And it'll take a lot of light, positive touches to reverse the damage done by the panic.
Horses remember things emotionally. For example, a horse who is in a trailer accident and is later difficult to load. It's not that they remember the accident itself. Rather, they associate the trailer with the panic and fear they felt during the accident.
So this is where we find ourselves again. I took a step back to her new comfort zone border and will slowly retrace my steps. You'll notice I pause a lot, I'm taking the time for her to relax, I'm looking for her eye to soften, head to drop, and/or her to lick and chew. That's a sign to me that she's on board with what I'm doing. When I see a harder gaze, worry in her eyes, a tense neck, or really any tension or fear, I stop. I back up until I see her relax then reapproach, ad nauseum.
She's moving at a speed she's comfortable with. It's my job to read the signs and not push too hard.
Miss Fiora goes on a field trip!
After doing a couple weeks of rope work, I'm relatively sure she'll respect single lines I set up to direct her to the arena.
I wanted to give her a chance to stretch her legs, roll, and have some fun. She needs to relax, we've been doing the same things for weeks and she's fried. So I'm changing things up for her. We'll get back to rope work but her whole world can't be about me constantly expanding her comfort zone .
I had a friend lead Brownie and I followed, in case I needed to push.
I'll post a video, later, of the returns. Cross your fingers.
Brownie is a lesson horse! We had a young lady visit, today, and she got to practice her lunging skills. Brownie was patient and willing. What a good boy!