Of Pigs, Dogs, Ducks & Chickens

Of Pigs, Dogs, Ducks & Chickens Providing Pet, house, plant or apt sitting, personal companion for elders and disabled. God has given me the gift of love and compassion for all animals.

I have been a dog owner for many years and know how to read a dogs body language. I enjoy caretaking. I can administer medicine, give baths, trim nails and fur, clean teeth. My mission is to make animal caretaking a full time career. I am also hoping to expand to caring for farm animals and exotic animals such as hedgehogs, reptiles, and exotic birds. I also own two ducks, three chickens, two Geese, a finch and a backyard pond with Turtles.

10/27/2024

October 19 at 6:34 AM ·
THE TOXINS OF THE HOUSE ARE:
1. Objects You No Longer Use.
2. Clothes You Don't Like Or Haven't Used In A While. Damaged underwear.
3. Broken Things.
4. Old cards and notes.
5. Plants that are dead or sick.
6. Receipts and Old Magazines.
9. Shoes Broke.
7. Stuff of all kinds calling the past.
8. If you have children, toys that are not used, that do not work or broken.
WITH CLEANING THEM OUT:
1. Health gets better.
2. Creativity grows.
3. Relationships get better.
4. There is greater reasoning capacity.
5? Improved mood.
QUESTIONS THAT MIGHT HELP CLEANSING:
- Why am I saving that?
- Is it about me today?
- How will I feel if I release that?
Separate and classify:
1. To donate.
2. To throw.
3. To sell.
INSIDE CLEANING REFLECTED OUTSIDE.
1. Avoid extreme noises.
2. Less strong lights.
3. Less saturated colors.
4. Less chemical odors.
5. Less sad memories.
6. Finish unfinished projects.
7. Cultivate positive energy in your home.
Do a general cleaning and use boxes for organization. Start with drawers and cabinets and conclude each piece, do everything at your pace...
a) Trash.
b) Arrangements.
c) Recycling.
d) In doubt.
e) Gifts.
(f) Donation.
g) Sell.
As you CLEANSE, watch what changes in you.
As we clean our physical house, we also place order to our mind and heart.
Practice detachment with material things that just fill your space and you'll see how you'll slowly be able to do the same with more challenging situations.

10/24/2024

Can someone tell me why I am seeing jobs on job boards that used to pay 17 to 20 an hour now paying 12-14 an hour? its not making any sense now that the cost of food has doubled as well as other living expenses?

09/24/2024

From a fantastic mystic and wise teacher:

If I have this divine life in me, what do the accidents of pain and pleasure, hope and fear, joy and sorrow matter to me? They are not my life and they have little to do with it. Why should I fear anything that cannot rob me of God, and why should I desire anything that cannot give me possession of Him? Exterior things come and go, but why should they disturb me? Why should joy excite me or sorrow cast me down, achievement delight me or failure depress me, life attract or death repel me if I live only in the Life that is within me by God’s gift?

Why should I worry about losing a bodily life that I must inevitably lose anyway, as long as I possess a spiritual life and identity that cannot be lost against my desire? Why should I fear to cease to be what I am not when I have already become something of what I am? Why should I go to great labor to possess satisfactions that cannot last an hour, and which bring misery after them, when I already own God in His eternity of joy?

a little excerpt from Thomas Merton and New Seeds of Contemplation

09/20/2024

Last year, in Davos, Professor Nita Farahany told an audience at the World Economic Forum (WEF) that,

We can’t decode speech and we may never decode full thoughts from the brain, using simple wearable devices.
This year, in California, a team at UCSF (University of California, San Francisco) is using artificial intelligence to decode words that are consciously thought and turn them into speech, using,
.. a device that translates brain activity into intended words.
Next step: Wireless technology that interprets brain signals representing thought and transmits them... to where?

According to Farahany, that next step has already been taken. But has it? Little proof has been offered to back Farahany's claims and no database has been revealed that matches specific brain signals to specific words, raising the possibility the WEF is fearmongering, making law abiding citizens worry whether the government knows their thoughts.

Here we present more details about Farahany's claims, leaving the reader to determine their reliability:



Big Brother is reading your mind
Farahany is a professor of law and philosophy at Duke University, whose focus is on the ethical, legal, and social implications of emerging technologies. The title of her book, “The battle for your brain: defending the right to think freely in the age of neurotechnology,” foresees challenges to freedom of thought in the very near future.

In her speech at Davos, she freely admits the pluses and minuses of mind-reading technology but insists that she doesn’t want it banned as she sees in it great potential. Her speech was introduced by Nicholas Thompson, CEO of The Atlantic, who described the technology in glowing terms:

It’s going to make you see and understand a wonderful future where we can use brainwaves to fight crime, be more productive, and find love...

Farahany's video opens with an animation of a futuristic office where employees wear brainwave earbuds which transmit their brainwave information to the office computer system. The information is fully accessible to the boss who rewards one employee for her “brain metrics” with a performance bonus.

Things swiftly take a turn, however, when those brain metrics are utilized by law enforcement:

A somber cloud has fallen over the office. Along with emails, text messages, and GPS location data, the government has subpoenaed employees’ brain data from the past year. They have compelling evidence that one of your coworkers has committed massive wire fraud, and now they are looking for synchronized brain activity between your coworker and the people he has been working with.
While you know you’re innocent of any crime, secretly you’ve been working with him on a new start-up venture. Shaking, you remove your earbuds.


How can we swipe "escape"?
The animation ends there and Farahany begins her talk by stressing that this technology not only already exists but is already being used. She adds that many people are already primed to accept it as part of life, given that so many of us use Apple watches and other wearable devices that monitor certain of our internal processes.

During the Trump-Harris debate, some suspected that the earrings worn by Harris were in fact transmitters, helping her out with her responses. Earring transmitters already exist. So do other wearables such as headbands, hats, earbuds, and even what appear like tattoos behind the ears, all of which can not only transmit but also decode brain signals.

"Swiping" with your mind to create a seamless interaction of technology is, Farahany says, part of,
.. an exciting and promising future. But also a potentially scary one.
We can’t literally decode complex thought yet, but there’s already a lot we can decode...


It's for your own safety...
Her first example of the “promise” inherent in the new technologies is “a safer workplace.” Monitoring brain metrics of truckers, for instance, could potentially avert accidents such as those that occur due to driver fatigue (which would apply to pilots and train drivers too).

Using a simple hat with embedded electro-sensors that score 1 to 5 on alertness, the employer gains important information in real-time.
It’s noteworthy that Farahany states that it’s the employer gaining access to the brain metrics, not the employee. Society must be protected from reckless truck drivers who keep going for hours on end and cause fatal accidents, is the unstated case for use of such technology.

It doesn’t seem to have occurred to her that drivers don’t usually keep going for hours and hours for the fun of it, but rather, because their salary depends on getting the goods to their destination on time, and that driving for x-amount of hours straight may be the only way to achieve that, if their bosses impose unrealistic targets.



It will help employers to be even more considerate of their staff...
Farahany also describes another scenario in which open access to staff brain metrics could create a safer environment for all — in a warehouse, where workers’ brain sensors reveal that they’re getting over-exhausted and robots deployed by their sympathetic employers adjust conditions to give them enough time and rest to keep going.

Again, it doesn’t seem to have occurred to her that employers could use the same brain metric information to w**d out exhausted employees and replace them with more robust workers.

That said, she admits to the “dystopian” potential in brain monitoring, pointing out that train drivers in China are already required to wear special hats that transmit their brain signals to their employers, who can monitor their fatigue levels.

This may be something we want to embrace as a society.
Done well, neurotechnology has extraordinary promise. Done poorly, it could become the most oppressive technology we’ve ever introduced.


It will reduce workplace stress...
Farahany also cites examples of brainwave-monitoring technology in use in the United States. Amazon has already been experimenting with such devices, testing them on warehouse employees. So have Tesco and Walmart, resulting in employee protests and undermining their morale, given that the aim is to detect time-wasting on the job and employees taking unscheduled breaks.

During the “pandemic,” she adds, many companies that switched to virtual offices used some form of monitoring to keep tabs on their employees. She singles out Microsoft for its study of employees using Zoom for meetings, which revealed that virtual meetings are more stressful than those conducted in-person, partly because of the different backgrounds on people’s screens.

Streamlining the backgrounds was an easy and cost-free measure to reduce stress levels. One imagines that it wasn’t the only measure that Microsoft implemented as a result of brainwave monitoring.



And it will make you more productive
Next, as she beams up an image of futuristic-looking earbuds on the screen, Farahany describes how,
.. the newest way to monitor attention is through a device like this: earbuds launching later this year [i.e., late 2023] which can pick up brainwave activity and tell whether person is paying attention or their mind is wandering...
It turns out you can not only tell whether someone is paying attention — you can also discriminate between the kinds of things they’re paying attention to. When you combine this with other types of surveillance, the power becomes quite precise.
She also describes a new technology developed by a laboratory at MIT which “gives a person a buzz, literally, when their mind starts to wander.”



Brain implants that grant the power of speech
All these developments support Farahany’s assertion that “more and more of what’s in the brain will become transparent.” Things are moving so fast, she added, that related legislation “can’t keep up.” Last year, she stated that “we can’t decode speech,” and yet by now, that is already happening, as reported in an article on JAMA Network (the Journal of the American Medication Association).

The article is based on an interview with Edward Chang MD, codirector of the Center for Neural Engineering and Prostheses at UCSF. He and his team claim to have succeeded in developing technology that enables people with aphasia (who have lost their power of speech, usually due to stroke) to “speak.”

Where we began was really about trying to understand the basic principles by which electrical activity in neurons controls the muscles in the vocal tract to give rise to all of the different sounds that we make when we speak. What I’m referring to is how the lips, the jaw, and the tongue shape the breath in order to create sounds like consonants, vowels, and even the intonation of the voice when we’re speaking... it became very, very clear that this would have potential medical applications for people who have lost the ability to communicate because of paralysis.


Chang’s team have used a variety of techniques to decode brain signals, including research conducted during brain surgery:

I specialize in brain surgeries where we have patients awake and we do language mapping. Part of my lab is literally in the operating room, where we’re constantly learning and understanding how the brain is giving rise to words and testing that and, most importantly, protecting that during surgeries when we have a mission to either remove the spot causing seizures or remove a brain tumor.
That’s what we call brain mapping, and it’s a really core part of my clinical practice, which is synergistic with our broader goals.
The next step was to digitalize the decoding process, using electrodes placed on the brain:

Once we figured out that there was this clear correlation between the brain activity patterns to specific sounds of speech, we applied for approval to do a study and we asked the FDA if we could use a new kind of device, essentially an electrode array that lays on the brain surface.
The array electrodes are connected to a port that has about 253 channels that stream the data from the brain activity to a computer that analyzes the brain signals and uses AI to translate that brain activity into specific intended words or speech sounds or even avatar facial movements.


From 256 squiggly lines to 70 words per minute
Central to this process has been machine learning, AI that is capable of processing stupendous amounts of data and finding and interpreting patterns, linking specific brainwaves to words:

The secret to this has really been ... machine learning. Ninety-nine percent of our time on this has nothing to do with the surgery or the device itself: it has to do with understanding the data
When you look at the screen, it looks like 256 squiggly lines, which are the brainwaves ... [We] use recurrent neural networks to take that sequence of data points that looks like squiggly lines and translate that into words.


Chang stresses that the interpretation is based on brainwaves created by participants actually reading words on a screen, not just thinking random thoughts:

The basic task works by asking our participants to read text on a screen — not just thinking about what they’re seeing, but actually trying to say the words. They have to be volitionally trying to say it.
He has worked with several aphasic patients, two of whom had been unable to speak for over 15 years:

Our last participant was able to get up to about 70 words per minute with this device. Normal speech is about 150 words per minute, and we still have a lot of room for improvement. But it was fast and the vocabulary was above a thousand words. We modeled it to 30,000 words, where it continued to have good performance.


From 15 years as a mute quadriplegic to 2 weeks that restore speech
Like Farahany, Chang highlights the incredible leaps the technology has taken during just the past few years.

This field is moving so fast that it’s hard for me to predict. I couldn’t even predict that we were going to have the performance levels that we had last year. And the algorithms that we’re starting to use are just becoming more and more powerful.
We didn’t even have these tools 5 years ago. And now, we’re getting very, very close ... [to] what we’d want for something that’s clinically available. In the beginning, it took a couple of months. With our latest participant, it took basically 2 weeks to train the algorithms up.
And also like Farahany, Chang stresses the incredible potential inherent in the technology, which certainly promises a very different type of life for those who regain the ability to express themselves:

I think our big focus is really about full expression ... to restore people to who they are...
For our last participant in the study, we had this very unique opportunity where we had this 1 hour of video from her wedding, which was 20 years ago, and we were able to train the AI on her pre-injury voice. So it wasn’t just like any out-of-the-box canned voice that you have in your computer. This was actually her voice that was trained to do this model, and that’s possible now with AI. With the avatar, she was able to choose the color of the hair, the eyes.
We’re really talking about a whole new level of personalization and expression with this ... Even the intonation of the voice is something that we want to get right.


Wireless mindreading
Farahany was asked at the WEF whether brain metrics could be measured without the use of a wearable device and answered flatly: “No.”

Now, a year later, Chang and his team are working on upgrading the abilities of the technology they have pioneered, with the intention of making it completely wireless:

We are working on the electrical engineering and the hardware engineering to make this a fully embedded wireless system so that you don’t have to be connected to a wire on a port in the scalp. It’ll all be transmitted wirelessly to a receiver and powered that way as well.


Asked whether the technology could be used to decode thoughts that are not “mentally verbalized,” Chang distinguished between the type of brain metrics being used:

I think what we’ve shown is that when someone has that voluntary intent to speak, we can decode that. But like I said earlier, some of the things that we tried where people were just thinking about stuff doesn’t work as well.
One reason for this is that “verbalized” thoughts seem to be processed in a different part of the brain than other types of thoughts:

The electrode sensors on the brain aren’t necessarily tapping where the random thoughts are happening in the brain. They’re really recording from the part of the brain that controls the vocal track muscle.
But Chang, like Farahany, predicts that in the future, things will likely go a lot further, which will introduce complex privacy issues:

So the way that we’ve designed our work currently is about what is truly volitional, what is meant to be expressed by the individual. But at the same time, it’s also telling us that it may be potentially possible to go beyond that in the future, into things that are more private, that are more inner speech, for example, inner thoughts perhaps even.


Who can be trusted with this?
Addressing her audience, Farahany asks, “Are you ready for this?” She presents a future — a very imminent future — in which “more and more of what’s in the brain will become transparent.”

“This can be something that unlocks potential for humanity,” she stresses, but adds that,

I believe that there is a pathway forward with such technology but it’s putting it in the hands of employees, enabling them to use it as a choice, not using it as a measure of brain metrics to fire or hire or discriminate against them.
While she admits that persuading employers to respect freedom of thought and privacy of brain metrics will be a challenge, she seems to believe that encouraging widespread respect of “a fundamental right to what it means to be human” could be enough to protect people:

I believe we have to start by recognizing a right to cognitive liberty, a right to self-determination over our brains and mental experiences.


What neither Chang nor Farahany address are inherent limitations in “mindreading” technology, even though the animation Farahany screened introduced very real problems — for instance, how will the innocent coworker of the arrested employee prove that while her brain metrics synch with those of the presumed criminal, she wasn’t actually plotting together with him?

Chang, too, is less than forthcoming about some key aspects of the technology he is developing. When his interviewer asks him how he can verify whether the output genuinely reflects the thoughts projected by his aphasic subjects, he evades the question.

Without doubt, a person who has suffered neurological injury and lost the power of speech will jump at the chance of regaining it, even if the technology is imperfect, and even if it opens up the risk of not only his words but also his thoughts becoming transparent to others.

However, it remains very unclear just how the “dystopian possibility” Farahany describes can be averted, and how we can protect ourselves against a tool that, in her words,
.. really could become the most oppressive technology we have ever unleashed.

09/20/2024

Lеt’s find out what our nail can tеll about our currеnt hеalth condition:

THIN, PALЕ NAILS – anеmia or a lack of iron in thе body.
YЕLLOWISH NAILS problеms with thе kidnеys or thе gastrointеstinal tract.

KNOBBLY NAILS – thе body has an infеction.
LOTS OF WHITЕ DOTS AND STRЕAKS – a lack of zinc, coppеr, iodinе.
CRUMBLING YЕLLOW OR BLACK NAILS – a fungal infеction.
BRITTLЕ NAILS – a lack of vitamins, calcium, iron and bеta-carotеnе.

And this is what your еyеs say about your hеalth.

RЕDNЕSS may signify
еyе syndromе rеsulting from lеngthy usе of dеvicеs
allеrgy
chronic tirеdnеss
BULGING ЕYЕS

hypеrthyroidism-syndromе causеd by hypеractivity of thе thyroid
YЕLLOW ЕYЕS
disruptеd functioning of thе livеr
problеms with thе gall bladdеr
prеsеncе of a nеoplasm

‘BLIND SPOTS’
migrainе
insufficiеnt nourishmеnt of thе rеtina
dеtachmеnt of thе rеtina or hеmorrhaging
DOUBLЕ VISION, FOGGINЕSS
first signs of strokе
A PЕRSISTЕNT STY
sеbacious gland carcinoma-a slow-growing tumor

BLURRЕD VISION
diabеtеs
kidnеy disеasе
problеms with thе cardiovascular systеm

ЕYЕBROWS FALLING OUT

a lack of nutriеnts
hypothyroidism-a lack of hormonеs in thе thyroid
Don’t forgеt that a molе can turn into a skin cancеr. It causеd by:
sunburns, еxcеss suntan
damagе from clothеs or othеr objеcts
attеmts of rеmoval a molе by yoursеlf
gеnеtic prеdisposition
Bе attеntivе to your body and stay hеalthy!

And now lеt’s find out how to dеtеrminе that your body’s dеhydratеd. Thеsе arе thе hiddеn signs:

You’rе tirеd for no rеason
You wanna еat swееts
Hеadachе
Shortnеss of brеath
Dizzinеss

Dangеrous symptoms:
Incrеasеd hеartbеat
Low blood prеssurе
Dark-colorеd urinе
A lack of swеat during physical еxеrtion
Fainting

If you wanna chеck yoursеlf for dеhydration, do thе following – pinch thе skin on thе back of your hand.

If thе fold of skin smoothеs out quickly, thеn your body has еnough watеr. If thе fold stays in placе, thеn you’rе dеhydratеd!!! 28 SIGNS YOUR BODY IS CRYING FOR HELP.

07/25/2024

Ramen noodles with egg sure taste so good!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZ52lk9wjZI
07/09/2024

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZ52lk9wjZI

Special thanks to Harley White, Sr. who played an amazing bass, and to Edwin (piano) and the Singers. The single hit #1 on the Dutch charts soon after this. ...

Today is my son Stephan's 36 Birthday.  Hard to believe how fast time flies.  I still remember like it was yesterday I h...
06/22/2024

Today is my son Stephan's 36 Birthday. Hard to believe how fast time flies. I still remember like it was yesterday I held you when you were a tiny baby and now you are a man. You have brought so much joy and meaning into my life. Life is worth living because of you. I love you Stephan!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WB8YbT0j3FEdefinitely gotta check this out!!!
06/13/2024

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WB8YbT0j3FE

definitely gotta check this out!!!

Texas is home to beautiful swimming holes, but none is more enticing than the mysterious Jacob's Well. How deep is Jacob's Well? What does it look like insid...

05/07/2024

Kitten season is here, and we’re in urgent need of compassionate fosters to care for bottle babies and young kittens. These precious little ones require round-the-clock attention and nurturing to thrive, and your support can make all the difference.



If you have space in your heart and home to welcome a tiny feline friend, we’d love to hear from you. We’ll provide everything you need to ensure their well-being, and out team is here to support you every step of the way.



Together, we can give these kittens the love and care they need to grow into happy, healthy cats. Please consider opening your heart to a furry friend in need. Contact us today to learn more about fostering and how you can make a difference.



Thanks for your kindness and compassion. The Garland Animal Shelter & Adoption Center

04/26/2024

Stress and Its Impact on Your Health
Katina Hope, MD Apr 3 2024

In today's fast-paced world, stress has become a common part of daily life for most of us. From work pressures, financial worries and the constant barrage of information from digital devices, there are numerous factors that can contribute to our stress. Understanding the nature of stress and learning effective ways to manage it is essential for maintaining both your physical and mental well-being.



Understanding Stress
Stress is a natural response from your brain and body that occurs when you perceive a threat, challenge, or demand that exceeds your normal ability to cope. It can be triggered by various factors, including work pressure, financial problems, relationship issues, or major life changes. When you encounter stress, your body releases hormones like cortisol and adrenaline, which prepare you to deal with the perceived threat. This is often referred to as the "fight-or-flight" response.
The Health Effects of Stress
While stress is a normal part of life, chronic (long-term) or excessive stress can have serious health consequences and can negatively impact your physical and mental well-being. Here are some common health issues cause by stress:

Cardiovascular Diseases: Chronic stress can contribute to the development of heart disease, high blood pressure, and other cardiovascular problems.

Immune System Suppression: Prolonged stress can weaken your immune system, making you more susceptible to infections and illnesses.

Digestive Problems: Stress can affect your digestive system, leading to issues like stomach pain, bloating, and diarrhea.

Mental Health Disorders: Chronic stress is linked to an increased risk of anxiety disorders, depression, and other mental health issues.

Sleep Disorders: Stress can disrupt your sleep patterns, leading to insomnia or other sleep disorders.

Weight Gain: Some people may turn to food for comfort when stressed, leading to weight gain and related health problems.
Effective Stress Management Strategies
Managing stress is key in maintaining your overall health and well-being. While it's not always possible to eliminate stress entirely, there are several strategies you can use to cope with stress more effectively:

Identify Stressors: Start by identifying the sources of stress in your life. Keeping a stress journal can help you track of patterns and identify triggers.

Healthy Lifestyle: Maintain a healthy lifestyle with regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep. This can help reduce stress levels and improve your overall well-being.

Relaxation Techniques: Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga to help calm your mind and body.

Time Management: Improve your time management skills to prioritize tasks and reduce feelings of being overwhelmed.

Social Support: Seek support from friends, family, or a therapist. Talking to others can help you feel more connected and less isolated.

Set Boundaries: Learn to say no to additional responsibilities or commitments that may contribute to your stress.

Mindfulness: Practice mindfulness by staying present in the moment and accepting things as they are, without judgment.

Seek Professional Help: If you're struggling to cope with stress, make an appointment with your doctor or advanced practice provider* (APP). They can offer you additional strategies, resources and support.
Stress is a common part of modern life, but it doesn't have to take over your life. By understanding the nature of stress and how it can impact your health, you can adopt effective stress management strategies to learn to cope with the stressors in your life. Taking care of your physical, mental and emotional well-being is key to leading a balanced and fulfilling life.

04/15/2024

phrases that emotionally intelligent people are careful to avoid in casual conversation. The following phrases are nine of the worst offenders. You should avoid them at all costs.

1. “You look tired.”
Tired people are incredibly unappealing—they have droopy eyes and messy hair, they have trouble concentrating, and they’re as grouchy as they come. Telling someone he looks tired implies all of the above and then some.

Instead say: “Is everything okay?” Most people ask if someone is tired because they’re intending to be helpful (they want to know if the other person is okay). Instead of assuming someone’s disposition, just ask. This way, he can open up and share. More importantly, he will see you as concerned instead of rude.

2. “Wow, you’ve lost a ton of weight!”
Once again, a well-meaning comment—in this case a compliment—creates the impression that you’re being critical. Telling someone that she has lost a lot of weight suggests that she used to look fat or unattractive.

Instead say: “You look fantastic.” This one is an easy fix. Instead of comparing how she looks now to how she used to look, just compliment her for looking great. It takes the past right out of the picture.

3. “You were too good for her anyway.”
When someone severs ties with a relationship of any type, personal or professional, this comment implies he has bad taste and made a poor choice in the first place.

Instead say: “Her loss!” This provides the same enthusiastic support and optimism without any implied criticism.

4. “You always…” or “You never…”
No one always or never does anything. People don’t see themselves as one-dimensional, so you shouldn’t attempt to define them as such. These phrases make people defensive and closed off to your message, which is a really bad thing because you likely use these phrases when you have something important to discuss.

Instead say: Simply point out what the other person did that’s a problem for you. Stick to the facts. If the frequency of the behavior is an issue, you can always say, “It seems like you do this often.” or “You do this often enough for me to notice.”

5. “You look great for your age.”
Using “for your” as a qualifier always comes across as condescending and rude. No one wants to be smart for an athlete or in good shape relative to other people who are also knocking on death’s door. People simply want to be smart and fit.

Instead say: “You look great.” This one is another easy fix. Genuine compliments don’t need qualifiers.

6. “As I said before…”
We all forget things from time to time. This phrase makes it sound as if you’re insulted at having to repeat yourself, which is hard on the recipient (someone who is genuinely interested in hearing your perspective). Getting insulted over having to repeat yourself suggests that either you’re insecure or you think you’re better than everyone else (or both!). Few people who use this phrase actually feel this way.

Instead say: When you say it again, see what you can do to convey the message in a clearer and more interesting manner. This way they'll remember what you said.

7. “Good luck.”
This is a subtle one. It certainly isn’t the end of the world if you wish someone good luck, but you can do better because this phrase implies that they need luck to succeed.

Instead say: “I know you have what it takes.” This is better than wishing her luck because suggesting that she has the skills needed to succeed provides a huge boost of confidence. You’ll stand out from everyone else who simply wishes her luck.

8. “It’s up to you.” or “Whatever you want.”
While you may be indifferent to the question, your opinion is important to the person asking (or else he wouldn’t have asked you in the first place).

Instead say: “I don’t have a strong opinion either way, but a couple things to consider are…” When you offer an opinion (even without choosing a side), it shows that you care about the person asking.

9. “Well at least I’ve never ___.”
This phrase is an aggressive way to shift attention away from your mistake by pointing out an old, likely irrelevant mistake the other person made (and one you should have forgiven her for by now).

Instead say: “I’m sorry.” Owning up to your mistake is the best way to bring the discussion to a more rational, calm place so that you can work things out. Admitting guilt is an amazing way to prevent escalation.

Moving Forward
In everyday conversation, it’s the little things that make all the difference. Try these suggestions out, and you’ll be amazed at the positive response you get.

What other phrases should people avoid? Please share your thoughts in the comments section below, as I learn just as much from you as you do from me.

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God has given me the gift of love and compassion for all animals. I have been a dog owner for many years and know how to read a dogs body language. I enjoy caretaking. I can administer medicine, give baths, trim nails and fur, clean teeth. My mission is to make animal caretaking a full time career. I am also hoping to expand to caring for farm animals and exotic animals such as hedgehogs, reptiles, and exotic birds. I also own two ducks, three chickens, two finches and a backyard pond with Koi. My goal is to have my own animal rescue santuary here in Garland, Texas. I am an avid animal rights activist here in my community. I am a very caring, loving, and responsible person. References are available upon request.

About Karen's Home

Lives in a House, Non-Smoking Household, Has 3 Dogs, Has a Fenced Yard, Has Caged Pets, two ducks, three chickens, two finches and a backyard pond with Koi. No Children Present

Please text 0r email me that you are interested in sitting services for your pet and please give me the details of your pets habits and what he/she daily routine is. Next step is to do a meet and greet, which can be scheduled at a park or at my home, whichever you prefer.