12/25/2025
Earlier last week, I had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Peanut! Peanut is 8 mo old and this was his very first groom. Mom was super on top of things: she knew she should have brought him in sooner, she knew he was matted, she gave him some medication to help him relax, and she brought her own muzzle just in case. The level of understanding and preparedness at what we needed to do (shaving down) and the behavior he’d likely display (extremely fearful/potentially aggressive) had me impressed. A lot of owners don’t know these things yet in these circumstances.
While Peanut did need that muzzle at first, I’m so proud of how fast he melted into being much more comfortable with me. He didn’t need it the rest of his time with me. I’m proud of this little guy and his ability to trust me when his first impression of me was fear. I’m proud of his mama for realizing and doing everything to turn things around and be there for her pup.
Sometimes as dog groomers, I understand matting and can be frustrating. And it certainly can be. We care deeply for the dogs on our tables and it’s easy to get carried away with that. But friendly reminder that we’re all human and there’s a lot of active misinformation out there on doodles and their coat maintenance! And doodles differ SO much dog to dog. If an owner already has one doodle with an easier coat texture, and they get another, it’s easy to assume they need the same frequency of brushing when that may not be the case. We all have a starting point with learning and growing as dog owners, and the important thing is striving to educate and better ourselves.
Giving the benefit of the doubt and holding compassion and sympathy for your clients before you’re proven otherwise is very important to me. Sure, in this profession, we do see a lot of active neglect. Especially with poodle mixes, it seems. But not every owner standing behind a matted doodle is careless. Not every over standing behind their doodle will let them get matted again. Friendly reminder to my dog grooming friends and dog lovers alike to hold love and compassion in our hearts for our fellow dog lovers and reserve judgement until we know the whole story🫶🏻💞🫂