
06/02/2024
Kenneth Walden – It's with very mixed emotions that I learned of the passing into your next life. About a year ago, I noticed Kenneth was slowing down. It was enough that I sent a note to his lovely daughter, Shannon. (She really loved her father, had moved to Alaska, and I wasn't sure … – Ken would seldom complain about himself to his kids.) Ken was all about serving his family. Ken was more about being an example of love.
I wish we all had the time to stay in touch with all our friends, acquaintences & family as we should. Truth is, in this age of too much coming too fast, we can at best prioritize, and too often only react to circumstance that surrounds us.
I first met Mr Ken , as a late teenager/early 20's, when I was shoeing & trimming his horses. (Seems a lifetime ago.) Life happened. Then one evening, Shannon, his daughter, came into my store for a 4 yr old shirt. I was bent under a counter, but heard the question. Still under/behind, I asked, “Do you need a shirt for a 4 year old child, or a shirt I've had in the store for 4 years? I have both.”
She laughed, I stood up and recognized her. Been years since I'd last seen her. Paint on her face, clothes, etc. She had just finished Lander as an art major, specializing in sculpture. She was proudly painting some rooms for Ken & Dani, his wife.
Shannon and I began dating. Ken immediately became a friend. Loved his kind laughter. Loved his dedication to all his family. Loved his hobbies of old trucks, metalwork, spending time with his “grands”. I don't think we ever had a time together that he didn't smile, laugh, enjoy life.
Whether sharing meals, river tubing, recalling past stuff, or adventuring into future dreams, Ken was one of my all time favorite people.
Whenever people he knew were having “relational or personal” issues, he would listen with empathy, often shake his head, and without crazy judgement, then voice his opinion: usually wise. He could see the “good” in almost everyone. He held frustration well! I think he simply turned many things to Christ, rather than having huge weights on his shoulders.
Truly, Kenneth lived our Yeshua's advice: Love the Lord, God with all your heart, soul, mind, being. And the second command, Love your neighbor as yourself. Loving your neighbor means everything from letting people make mistakes so they will grow as humans & spiritually. It means being present when someone may not have anyone else to turn toward. It means accepting the greater possibilities a person can become. It means even when times are tough, allowing dependiance on the promise of our Holy Spirit, Ruach, the Wind of God, to blow you into who you are destined to become.
I know these things because even after Shannon & I divorced, Kenneth did not divorce me. In my state of confusion, he would be there for me.
He could calm the awkward as well as any Dr of Psych! I loved that man, though too much from a distance. There was a lot of Jesus in him.
I need not detail everything. I do need to thank God, Hashem, my life, for Ken's life, for having known Kenneth.
SO Mixed Emotions – I hurt for his leaving this world: a new birth into our unknown. By now, he knows! I relish that we will again meet, in a life that we still on earth, cannot fully understand. I am extemely glad, happy, filled with the confidence that his Life continues. The spirit on-goes, though the body wears out.
I can close my eyes and see his smile, hear his laughter, feel his joy at Christmas, or on that river tubing day, or feeding his family on a grill-out.
I hurt for his children, both his wives. He never forgot his first wife, for the second, nor the second for the mother of his children. He accepted Dani's as his own too. I can only imagine if I have tears, what they must experience today. He loved me, though he could have passed me off. I loved him for who he was, what he represented, for his legacy, his influence, especially on the male grands in his life.
Praise God for God's love, exemplified through Kenneth Walden. - Family – I love you,
In conclusion – Life is short. Don't waste it. Exemplify your Savior. Know LOVE will cure all ills. Give comfort to the Walden family, if you have opportunity. Even more: Get closer to Your God today! Get closer to your family today.
You are a child of the Most High. Worthy of Love. God loves you, and I love you.
Chucky T
PS: Jonathan, Christian, Shannon, Kenneth, Big L, 'Kinsey, and all, How might I help? 864-341-4775
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