03/23/2023
I am lucky.
I have fallen. I have been kicked. I have been stepped on.
I have been bitten.
Iāve had falls that couldāve and shouldāve caused permanent injury.
Iāve had falls that have broken my fingers, wrists and hands and continued to ride through such injuries.
Iāve had falls that couldāve gravely injured me and robbed me of the very job and activities that bring me so much joy.
I had one fall in particular, a few years ago, where I landed so hard I thought I may have broken my back. Every fall before this, I had been able to just get up and go catch my horse. This time, when I tried to get up, the pain was so sharp I had to take a knee. I felt like I was going to be sick.
Since this fall, Iāve had back soreness and body soreness issues. My low back, hips and knees are not great.
Recently, I had an MRI. I was expecting bad news, but instead I got good news.
I am lucky.
I have beaten up my body and needlessly put myself and horses in dangerous situations that are entirely avoidable and could be made so much safer just by training with more patience and thought.
I couldāve robbed myself of a lot of longevity and caused permanent injury.
But, I am lucky.
That luck has made me consider what it wouldāve been like if I hadn't been so fortunate.
If these injuries had caught up with me.
Oh, the anger and frustration I would feel.
Others are not so lucky.
Others are still actively endangering themselves doing the same things I once did. Being applauded for it and told theyāre gritty and brave.
It isnāt necessary. It isnāt worth it in the long run.
We donāt need to endanger ourselves as riders to the extent that is normalized.
Horses can be dangerous on a good day, but far too often in training and care, us humans throw gasoline on that figurative fire and create situations that are much more risky than needed.
Safety is cool.
Patience is cool.
Not injuring yourself is cool.
We can be safer. We can stress horses out less.
We can preserve our bodies more and we can yield the same results or better just by taking a step back and relaxing.
We donāt need to create dangerous situations in the name of training.
You can train to avoid such dangerous situations.
And your body will thank you.