05/16/2025
Earlier this week I posted some photos of a training book, an article and a set of handouts and worried about how much we've strayed from just getting out and getting the work done.
This morning, let's add this to that.
"I worry for handiness and horse sense and wonder, if there will ever be a time again, where folks need to ride out to do a job and find out just how much is missing - and how much value there is in that small inbetween space"
At PK9, we'll meet you in the middle.
I worry for the middle -
I remember a time, not too long ago, sopping wet horses with defeated eyes. I remember horses flipping over from pressure, and a total dismissal of the horses physical body, as if they were too strong to break. “You can’t hurt them,” one man said, “it’s like spanking him with a sock.” They did their job, with eyes shut.
I see a time, now, where horses can’t manage the pressure of the world we brought them into. I see horses, equally stressed, who are coddled, babied, so much they pull back at the slightest trouble. I see horses who can’t get in trailers, can’t tie, can’t stand for the farrier, no life skills. Horses that bite and charge.
I see these every day, maybe they’re the extremes I’m called out for and not the norm, like a firefighter who’s daily experience involves disaster, where putting out fires is a daily habit -
I see unhappiness still- lack of confidence and fear encouraged, curated by human hands, mostly well meaning.
I worry for the still space between too much and too little, where a horse can get by. I worry for peace, which lives between the lines of dominance and permissiveness- I worry for guidance, and reading expression, and experimenting, and I worry for feel.
I worry for nuance, and catching meaning in the written word before emotional response. I worry for handiness and horse sense and wonder, if there will ever be a time again, where folks need to ride out to do a job and find out just how much is missing - and how much value there is in that small inbetween space. I’ve found much fulfillment there, but it’s also saved my life on many occasion- to have a horse who is handy, confident, and soft.