12/16/2025
In class and in private training, we talk a lot (a LOT) about the fact that dogs have 18-24 months to do what it takes human beings 18-24 YEARS to do: go from neonate to full on adulthood.
Think about it: we have a common cultural discussion about developmental stages in human beings, where even people who have never had children know about 'the terrible twos', for example, or have reaonsonable expectations of how teaching something to a five year old child is quite different than teaching a fifteen year old adolescent.
Yet there remains very little awareness and true understanding of developmental stages in dogs. I frequently encounter owners who have wildly unreasonable and unrealistic expectations of their dogs, especially puppies under six months old.
This (below) is a terrific framing of one aspect of canine development: social maturity.
Read it all the way through.
The last two lines are brilliant, and spot-on.