12/19/2024
Do you advocate for your cat?
Rescue can be a bit of a challenge for us; if it was just dealing with the cats it would be so easy! But you have to deal with people – caregivers, owners, neighbors, other rescuers…
Last week, Sara encountered a difficult situation. A woman she has helped in the past contacted her to say there was a male cat in her neighborhood needing to be neutered, if she trapped him could Sara get him fixed? Of course she said yes, but there were no clinics scheduled for five days so don't trap him yet. And of course the next day she got the message "OK I've got him trapped, come get him".🙄
Well, knowing that this woman was a little… unique (trying to find the right synonym for crazy😆), Sara went in to get the cat even though she had no place to hold him and no clinic to take him to. But that was a better option for the cat! And happily, she was able to connect with a Rescue vet who agreed to neuter the cat the next day.
The next obstacle was returning the cat – because this cat was definitely one you could call feral – this boy did not want to be a tame cat. When she connected with the unique lady, Sara was told she planned to keep the cat in her basement along with another cat she was already holding there. But why? This cat was healthy, a good body weight, in good condition and not social – he lived in the neighborhood where several people put out food for the cats. Why not let him go?
This is where advocating for the cats can sometimes be a challenge – you have to be able to read the person you are helping to know how to approach the best scenario for the cat. Sometimes it's a cat you think needs to get into a home, a friendly cat who could do better living inside. Sometimes it's a sick cat who needs medical care. Sometimes it's a matter of helping to create a healthy colony with caregivers who may tend to be hoarders. Or as in this case, it's a feral cat who would live his best life in his own territory. How you approach the person to help them see the best option for the cat is important, because if you offend them, you lose your chance to help now or in the future.
Happily, Sara already had a previous relationship with this unique lady, and was able to take a firm but reasonable stance to help her see this cat really wanted to go home. They opened the carrier door, the cat bolted out and went straight to his home – a home where there was a cat tree on the porch -and the cat immediately crawled up and into a cubby. He knew where he was, he was home – he ignored the plate of food already sitting out for him and crawled into his safe place, thankful to be free of those crazy people😆
Remember when you encounter these situations, it's important that you keep your emotional reactions in check. Do your best to not lose your temper, to not show irritation or disgust with choices you feel are detrimental to the cats. Learn to "speak their language", really listen to them so you can hear what THEY need to hear to make the right choice – with your guidance☺️