Trailer loading
Just me being a smart ass.
When your friend is having consistent issues with trailer loading so you work with her horse and explain it’s not a trailer loading issue. It’s a communication issue. Cues and signals “can” represent pressure or even an adversarial attack. When the horse is met with pressure from the trailer and increased pressure from behind , within too tight a confine, it can take on andversarial feel. This triggers a defensiveness in the horse resulting in resistance , an unwillingness to load and bad associations with the human. Soon, that increase in pressure becomes a cue of things to come and the horse gets better at self protection. The human mistakenly sees this as resistance and a lack of cooperation and meets the horse with more pressure and a chain of events becomes a pattern. Soon, increasing feel of pressure, the human and/or the location will become cues that trigger defensiveness and a lack of trust in the humans intent.
Humans mistake this as refusing to load but really the pressure is what the horse is bracing up against. If someone offers enough pressure the horse might “give in” or resist harder. This can create an illusion of success and cause the human to continue to repeat this approach. But it is not the problem. The approach is the problem . Continuing these kind of tactics and attitudes toward the horse damage the partnership with the horse. Keep THAT in mind when you are focused on the goal or getting your way. Always, time is the best approach because we are building something greater than a horse that loads In the trailer. We are building a relationship with the horse. Your approach should create confidence and trust and ease defensiveness . Those are the obstacles that you have to address to smooth the way to good loading habits. Worry about the language and relationship first and your horse will follow you anywhere. The horse only wants peace in the valley. Offer him peace before he makes a
Charlotte developing self-confidence and trust
Once she was a miniature horse in a kill pen destined for slaughter. I don’t know the back story and kill pens can be a kill buyers scam. But what I do know is that this miniature horse was pretty fearful and terrified of the world. No one deserves to live in fear. We are a disposable society, we break things or decide they have no value and discard them. All life has value. I don’t believe that she deserved to have her life extinguished. I know that this is not the popular or common view but it should be. She has heart, try, desire to connect. It was hidden but it was there. She deserves a chance.
Due to distance, I have had only a limited amount of time to work with her in the past . Once a week. And still she has made such huge strides . More than I thought I could achieve in such a time frame. Now she gets to spend a month with me. Looking forward to seeing the changes. I am attached to her and grateful to my friend for sending her to me .
I should have explained that the simplicity of this video IS the change in this horse. See all the opportunities to leave me and run. There are quick and dirty ways I could have accomplished this, creating the illusion of success while also creating an unreliable foundation and a weak bond. She doesn’t look fearful , but that again is the progress. Yet her confidence is delicate and easily broken. By going a little slower and guiding her , you have an opportunity to see how much she tries. To go faster , would cause a panic and defensiveness and you would miss it.
Horsemanship through the eyes of a child:
How a child’s mind works. And why they succeed where adults often fail with horses and animals.
This is one of my friends kids that I started helping with a challenging miniature horse. This is the kid that doesn’t have trouble catching the horse. This is the kid that the horse will walk up to when she won’t approach anyone else.
My goal in working with her today was to stay out of her way.. I showed her some things to add to her toolbox but I didn’t want to poison her mind with my thoughts. She may be a lot better than me if given the chance and her ideas aren’t squashed. At one point she asked if she could move something to help the horse! Bingo! I just told her what a great idea!! I want her to think for herself and not just be a parrot...
Teachers come in all forms even an 8 yr old child. You can hear her non threatening, unoffensive , everything’s cool , I’m in no hurry attitude as she speaks . Whether you agree or disagree with what she says, the bottom line is that she is successful with this mini horse
As adults with time frames, demands, agendas we often don’t realize how offensive we are .
Our fixation in a goal often causes us to push it away by trying too hard .
Here’s her perspective
New video showing Josie, the donkey and her progress in trailer loading. She takes minimal support to direct her to load .you will see that she even RE-LOADS herself after unloading...I want her to perceive the trailer as a desirable place to be and to be drawn to load herself . Soon she be an over-achiever!!
Showing a little progression of Josie, the donkey, in her trailer loading. I noticed in video that it looks like I'm using the whip on her a lot. Most of the time, it's just waving to make noise as a softer cue. Also, a lot of light flicks. Only occasionally dos I have to firm up but as you watch you'll notice I am quick to stop for even a moment if when she offers movement. The goal is to only wave the whip. The other goal is to get her to step up to the feel of me taking the slack of the lead rope forward. You can't force a donkey as they are good at bracing up. You go slow and try to build a try. And really want value is there in engaging in a battle of wills. A donkey is great at humbling a forceful person. Today she started to offer steps on her own. I was very proud of her. Such a sweet donkey that got a late start in life, but has a great life.
Demonstrating to some clients the ability to communicate with their horse, Jake, using considerably less support from me. We've increased the level of communication and the horse is taking more responsibility... I want my horses to be so well educated that a young child or a 90 year old man could handle them easily. The use of more assertive body language or assertive aids should not be required as the horse advances. He has never been asked to do this before but I had faith in him and my approach that he would catch on. I wish I had a before and after video so you could see how far this horse has come since his days of being braced, shut down , resistant and spooky. He's really turning into a sweet kind horse and learning to appreciate and find value in the human .
This is Champs first day carrying a bag of aluminum cans. To be clear, I didn't just tie it on and 'see what happens'. He was exposed to the bag cans first while I was holding it and he was moving. He learned to stop from the stimuli and over ride his flight from fear instinct which was really strong in him. As he became more confident,he became more willing to stand for increasingly longer time periods. At the time I began to work with using the bag of cans closer to him as well as approaching different parts of his body. As he became braver and more confident, he made more eye contact and began to relax. He kept a somewhat defensive posture(tight body, raised head). I had to help him learn to release the tension and lower his head. This put him in a more vulnerable position and therefore allowed me to develop a deeper level of trust and confidence. Eventually, I could rub him all over his body while his body was relaxed and head lowered. Next, I drug the bag of cans around from the saddle with the use of my lariat. I was unmounted and worked him with the halter and lead rope making circles. First walk then trot finally canter. He became more confident about something behind him and following him. As I shortened the rope from the bag to the saddle and back to my hand , the bag made much more movement and followed closer to him out on the circle. Eventually, as the can got closer to where the saddle was and closer to his bag legs, I had to stop so he would not step on the bag. Next, I changed to having the cans at the saddle. I did this in such a way that they were not tied to him, I was out if kicking range , and he was not trapped, forced, or over faced. Finally I reached the point of the video today, when I was confident that I was neither over facing or overwhelming him.
What I wanted to show with the video is an awareness of what his ears are doing as an indication of how he feels and where his attention is directed. Also when I have the bag of cans on the