11/24/2025
This was fun.
This might make you laugh, or p**s you off, or make you think, or make you feel seen and validated — depending on what level you're at.
But I want to share this to start a discussion around what is typically called “the horsemanship journey”.
I don't think that term is an accident. In fact I've both attended and taught so many horsemanship clinics and lessons lessons by now, that I see repeating patterns — like horse owner “archetypes” — that come up over and over again.
It’s gotten to a point that these archetypes have become so obvious that I had to write them down.
I won't go too deep into the neuroscience in this post, but I wanted to state in plain language what the actual “Levels” are that I believe we go through in developing our “Horsemanship Consciousness”.
In other words: How your level of awareness, and the manner in which you relate to horses, changes over time as you gain knowledge and experience.
I’ll describe what each level feels like from the perspective of the person experiencing it.
Like me, you may see yourself — or older versions of yourself — on this list.
Let’s climb the ladder:
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📺 PHASE I: THE SIMULATION
Horsemanship = Ego Projection
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Level 0️⃣- The Passenger
Knows nothing except “horses are pretty”.
Felt State: Benign Helplessness.
You are literally unaware that “training” as a concept even exists. A horse is either rideable or it’s not. Riding or interacting with horses feels like gambling, or sitting in the passenger seat of a car driven by a toddler. Sometimes you “win”, and the horse behaves and does things you like. Sometimes you “lose” and get frustrated or hurt. That’s horses. It is what it is.
Internal Monologue: "I hope he’s a good boy today. Last week he was kind of crazy, but I think he was just in a mood. My friend said he’s a Gemini, so that explains it. Oh, he’s stopping to eat grass... okay, I guess we’re stopping. He’s so strong! It’s amazing how big they are. I’ll just kick a little... nope, he’s ignoring me. That’s okay. We’ll go when he’s ready."
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Level 1️⃣- The Tourist
Treats the horse like a child or a dog.
Felt State: Fantasyland of Warmth and Denial
Horse ownership feels like a Disney movie. You feel a swell of affection in your chest. You are constantly scanning for validation that the horse loves you back. When reality intrudes (a bite, a spook), you feel a sharp pang of betrayal or cognitive dissonance, which you quickly cover with a story.
Internal Monologue: "Look at him looking at me. He knows me. He knows I’m his mom. We have this connection, you know? I don't need bits or spurs because our bond is enough. Ow! He just nipped me. He’s just playing. He didn't mean it. Look, he’s saying “Sorry, mom”. He’s probably just sensing my anxiety from work today. I need to be calmer for him. I’ll just give him a cookie to let him know we’re okay."
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Level 2️⃣- The Bebopper
Flitters around doing purposeless nonsense, fishing for reactions from the horse.
Felt State: Low-Grade Frustration & Vague Desire.
It feels like trying to tune a radio but never finding the station. You always feel "busy." Your body is constantly moving—pumping, squeezing, kicking, pulling, nagging. There is a sense of impatience: "Why isn't this working yet?"
Internal Monologue: "Come on... let’s go... more... MORE. Why are you so lazy? Go forward! Ugh, now he’s too fast. Quit it! Slow down. Why is his head up like that? Get your head down. I’m squeezing as hard as I can! This horse is just being difficult today. Maybe I need a different bit? I just want to have a nice ride, why does he have to make it a fight?"
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Level 3️⃣ - The Operator
Uses the horse for ego validation and/or to scratch a competitive itch. Filled with insecurity about not measuring up; are in denial about this. Worships highly accomplished trainers and wants to be like them, but does not take coaching or criticism well (despite paying lip service to “learn something new every day”).
Felt State: Pressure & Rigid Judgment.
Riding feels like a performance review. You are tight, braced, and vigilant. Your ego is fused to the saddle. The horse is a prosthesis for your personal identity (“I’m a reiner” or “I’m a roper” or “I’m a jumper”), and the urge to find peer validation and keep up appearances drives everything you do. Every mistake the horse makes feels like a personal insult or a public embarrassment. You feel powerful when it all works, and furious when it doesn't.
The Internal Monologue: "Don't you embarrass me. Get in the ground. That felt like s**t. C’mon, get stopped. HARDER. Good. Now spin. Faster! Come on, you pea-hearted sunofa— don't quit on me now. I paid good money for you. I paid way too much money to get you trained. Knock it off. We’re doing this, now. There—see? He just needed to be told who’s boss."
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🔥 PHASE II: THE AWAKENING
Horsemanship = Learning Lots of “Rules”
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Level 4️⃣- The Zealot
Knows they need guidance, so outsources their thinking entirely to a method or guru. Depends on that security blanket to make decisions. Rigidly defends said guru like a mindless fangirl. Often overwhelmed with second-guessing and self doubt. Struggles to identify their own mistakes.
Felt State: Anxious Compliance.
Horsemanship feels like taking a math test you studied really hard for. You are terrified of getting the answer "wrong." You are constantly checking your own position against a mental image of "Correctness." You feel stiff, trying to apply perfect technique.
Internal Monologue: "Heels down. Chin up. Elbows in. The method says ‘Step 1, Step 2, Step 3.' Okay, I’m at Step 2. He’s not responding. Is my leg in the right spot? What would [Guru] say? I have to maintain the frame. He looks tense... but the book says this is the correct frame, so I have to hold it. Am I doing this right? I hope I'm doing this right. I don’t want to mess this up.”
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Level 5️⃣ - The Technician
Sees horsemanship as a problem to crack. Physically more fluent but mentally still overthinks everything. Has enough knowledge to recognize their own mistakes, but struggles to act on the information they’ve gathered. Brain is going a million miles an hour, while limbs are often stuck in a “traffic jam” of thoughts and struggling to catch up.
Felt State: Mental Exertion (The Traffic Jam).
It feels like driving a manual transmission car for the first time. You are processing so much data that your brain hurts. You’re down in the trenches, fighting your own latency. You can see the solution, but your hands are too slow to catch it. You feel "clunky."
Internal Monologue: "Okay, he’s falling in on the left shoulder. That means I need to apply the inside leg and... wait, now he’s speeding up. I need to half-halt. One-two... missed it. Dammit. Okay, reset. Why is the left hind dragging? Biomechanically, that means the psoas is tight. I need to engage the core... okay, applying aid... now."
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🧠 PHASE III: MASTERY
Horsemanship = Systems Thinking
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Level 6️⃣- The Architect
Sees horsemanship as a great game. Diagnostic thinking is more fluid, has better discernment. Self-correction is more automatic. Understands the horse’s psychology more deeply, understands the training process, and trusts their own intuition.
Felt State: Cool Clarity.
The anxiety is gone. The emotion is gone. You feel like a chess grandmaster or a scientist in a lab. You are “above the fray”, observing data points; enjoying the process more than the actual outcome. When the horse resists, you don't feel anger; you feel curiosity. The world slows down. You feel more present and alive.
Internal Monologue: "Interesting. I asked for the hip, and he braced the jaw. That’s a diagnostic. Let’s verify. I’ll ask again... same brace. Okay, the root cause isn't the hip; it’s the anxiety about the contact from my leg. I’m going to change the constraint. Let’s go back to the Anchor exercise and isolate the hip for now. I’m going to work on some simpler leg yielding. There’s the release. There’s the breath. Okay, now we can try for the complete movement again.”
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Level 7️⃣ - The Alchemist
Treats horsemanship as a process of mutual transformation — an adventure where you encounter chaos, master it, and become a better person as a byproduct of that process. Both horse and human become higher expressions of themselves through this dance.
Felt State: Fluid Competence
You’re “in the zone”. Riding or interacting with horses feels like playing jazz. You know the structure, but you are improvising the notes. You feel the horse's energy as a raw material that you can shape. You are comfortable with chaos because you know you can transmute it.
Internal Monologue: "He’s got a lot of energy today. Good. I won’t fight it; I’ll use it. Let’s funnel that speed into some work on our transitions and spins. Easy... let the pressure build... wait for the thought... there. Redirect. Beautiful. He thinks it’s his idea, but he’s actually following the incentive structure I already built. My hands and legs structure and channel his energy, not fight it. I’m just setting the banks; the river flows itself.”
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🎉 PHASE IV: TRANSCENDENCE
Horsemanship = Effortless Congruencey
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Level 8️⃣- The Centuar
Rider no longer feels like an external agent acting on the horse. They are a symbiotic organism that interfaces seamlessly with the horse's nervous system. They provide the decision and intention, the horse provides the energy and power. “Riding” becomes a two-way stream of subconscious, intuitive communication.
Felt State: Emptiness & Expansion.
You are fully present. There is no "voice in the head." The internal monologue stops because thought and action have become simultaneous. You do not feel your body ending and the horse’s beginning. You feel the ground THROUGH the horse’s body. You know where each hoof is under you, and where each hoof is going to be, at any given time. You feel the horse’s intention as your own thought. Time collapses. You stop living in the future (simulation) and the horse stops fearing the present. You meet in the exact millisecond of the stride (T=0).
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Level 9️⃣ - The Steward
The highest level. You have achieved the skill of the Centaur, but you also realize that you are now an heir to a six-thousand year old tradition. It must be guarded, preserved, and transmitted for future generations.
Felt State: Reverence, Responsibility, Deep Sense of Meaning & Purpose
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⚠️ WARNING: THE HORSESHOE TRAP
Now, before you self-assess, I have to advise caution.
There is a phenomenon known as the "Horseshoe Theory”…
The way it applies here is that if you bend a horseshoe, the two ends — Level 1 (Tourist) and Level 8 (Centaur) — curve around and look almost identical to the beginner’s eye.
The Level 1 Tourist rides on a loose rein because they are afraid to touch the horse, or they believe that "freedom" equals love. The horse is wandering, distracted, and disconnected.
The Level 8 Centaur rides on a loose rein because the horse is Self-Carrying. The connection is so potent that the rein is unnecessary. The horse is tuned in, energized, and waiting.
Big, big difference.
Many riders stay stuck in the lower levels because they use the masterful and spiritual-sounding language of Levels 7 and 8 to bypass the hard work of Levels 4, 5, and 6.
But you can’t “teleport” like that. You can’t skip all the discipline and mechanics, and go straight to being a Jedi Master.
Your horse needs a complete foundation… and you do too.
So, what level are you?
Be honest.
You cannot solve a problem at the level of consciousness that created it.
You cannot fix a Level 2 (Chaos) problem with more Level 2 behavior (Nagging). You need Level 3 (Order).
You cannot fix a Level 5 (Overthinking) problem with more Level 5 info (More Contradictory Advice, More Clinics, More Lessons). You need Level 6 (Diagnostics).
🪜 If you’re somewhere in PHASE II or higher in your journey right now, and you’re ready for the next level, you need a system designed to pull you up that ladder.
That is exactly what Foundations of Excellence is built to do.
It is the ladder from Simulation to Reality.
The roadmap from Foundation to Finesse.
Let’s get to work.
—Jake Lundahl
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