12/10/2025
Arrow’s training sessions have recently become less structured and filled with more curiosity, which has really helped us both!
We were starting to get into more advanced body control at higher speeds and were both getting tighter and tighter, both mentally and physically. I was nitpicking every little thing he did and he was growing more frustrated. It had started to feel like we were fighting each other instead of working together and I was feeling very burnt out from the effort it took.
So I took a step back and decided that we would do something a little different. Instead of asking him to do a specific movement, I’d ask for his shoulder to move a little, then his hindquarters. I’d ask him if he could move both together. How about more shoulder? More hindquarters? Maybe a little straighter? What if we take the shoulder the other way? And guess what? We have all of those movements I was working so hard to nitpick plus much more. I am only doing this at the walk, to keep things simple so I can support him easier and so we can both be more conscious of each footfall. He’s feeling much more relaxed and supple and I can tell there are moments that he’s really feeling good. During the 2 minute clip of us practicing this, he gently nickered several times and his expression, while focused, was soft.
We’ve also been working on some adjustability in his posture at the walk and the trot. Arrow tends to be all in…or all out. Previously, he’d stretch on his terms and tune out what I was doing. Alternately, if I asked for bend, he’d get very intense and tight. We’ve been playing with stretching on cue for a short period of time, then picking his posture up and bending, then stretch some more, and come back up. He’s becoming much looser and more adjustable without getting tight about it.
At the end of the video, you’ll notice we’re peacefully strolling around, my hand on his neck. While this may seem irrelevant to people who don’t know us well, this is actually very huge for him and I consider it one of our biggest breakthroughs. He used to push into me every time I’d try to touch him and he would even bite at me at times. Now, he softnens, often stretching(while mainaining awareness of me) and will usually sigh and blink deeply. It has taken a lot of time, awareness of his response, and awareness of my own intentions when I have contact with him to get to this point. It’s so rewarding to see all of the small things come together; to him so relaxed and peaceful❤️