03/11/2025
If you enlarge this picture, it tells two stories. You’ll see my reflection in her eye.
My mule loves to come, place her head on my shoulder and just look me in the eye. Not pushing…just “being” and sharing the same breath.
I often tell people at clinics or training sessions, mules, in my opinion, are among the most honest creatures, in all creation. I’ve reflected on this picture many times…realizing, that mule is a reflection of ME to large degree. I have to wonder what she see’s…what she thinks when she looks at me.
Of course, she can’t speak but she can express herself in a way that conveys her thoughts. We are, in many ways, reflections…images of each other. Over my many years of riding, handling and training…those critters have forced me to be more honest with them. More genuine. Forced me to change when I didn’t like what I saw. When I changed…so did the mule.
I recently read a post and took this excerpt, by permission of the author, David Laundreville.
“Years ago, when I was still trimming flat and applying steel shoes I started looking into horses eyes. I would check in with them to see how they felt about my work, and ask them how they felt about how I was treating them. Once you see them you can’t unsee them. You might look away because you don’t want to know, but it is still there isn’t it. l needed to treat them as a friend or at least be accountable and apologize when I made mistakes. I needed to give them a voice.
Now it’s getting harder and harder for me to look into the eyes of horses that I work on who are just being “used” by their owners. I may apologize for other people’s mistakes and try to find a way to help them find peace while they are not being seen, heard, or felt, but they know they want and deserve something different. Horses want real connection. They want to matter to you.”
~David Laundreville
Thank you David for your words.