06/19/2025
What does "ethical communication" mean in pet training?
I mentioned this in my launch post and here's the thing, ethical communication starts with listening. Truly listening is a skill.
When your dog pulls on the leash or your cat scratches the furniture, these aren't intrinsically "bad" behaviors. Every behavior serves a purpose for that animal. For us, this is important communication. Your pet is telling you something about their needs, emotions, or understanding of the situation.
Ethical communication means listening to what your pet is actually saying. If your dog is pulling toward another dog, what are they communicating? Excitement? Anxiety? The need for space? Understanding the "why" changes everything about how we respond.
Instead of labeling behaviors as "good" or "bad," we should ask "What is my pet trying to tell me?" and "How can I help them communicate this in a way that is safe and works for our family?"
Your dog isn't pulling to be "stubborn." They might be overwhelmed by the environment, excited to track down that interesting smell, or simply haven't learned what you actually want from them in this situation. When we understand the purpose, we can address their real need with compassion instead of frustration.
Rather than suppressing or punishing unwanted behaviors, we teach alternative ways for our pets to express and meet their needs that work better for the whole family.
When we listen and respond with understanding, training becomes a conversation between partners who respect each other. Your pet learns because they feel heard and supported, not because they're afraid. This approach creates stronger relationships, more confident animals, and families who genuinely enjoy their time together.
What has your pet been trying to tell you lately? I'd love to hear your observations!