A Matter of Manners Behavior and Training

A Matter of Manners Behavior and Training We believe in force-free training and behavior modification that uses rewards to build, strengthen, and modify behavior. Dog and cat training.

Whether you want your furry friend to learn basic manners or crazy tricks, I can help you! I am a graduate of Jean Donaldon's The Academy for Dog Trainers (CTC), and a Certified Professional Dog Trainer-Knowledge Assessed (CPDT-KA) and have experience training dogs of all shapes, sizes and temperaments. From puppy socialization to advanced tricks and everywhere in between, A Matter of Manners is ready to train.

Cita is a beautiful girl with big feelings about strangers, especially if they are moving or looking at her (how dare th...
01/23/2025

Cita is a beautiful girl with big feelings about strangers, especially if they are moving or looking at her (how dare they!). Instead of "correcting" her behavior, which is just a symptom of her fear, we will teach Cita that strangers are actually super awesome, predict good things, and follow a set of rules that Cita finds comfortable and acceptable. When she feels more confident, comfortable, and safe internally, her outward behavior will change. When she feels differently about strangers, she won't feel the need to lunge, bark, growl, bite. She is such a gorgeous and sweet young dog, and has a family ready to help her feel safer! Welcome to A Matter of Manners, Cita and family!

01/19/2025

From the archives, and actually a much older one! A 2022 throwback.
If you want your dogs to perform behaviors (which most of the time, the behaviors we expect from dogs are NOT natural behaviors for dogs), you have to teach them, and you have to practice (incremental training steps and a LOT of reps).
Cleo and Freddie are super lucky and loved dogs who go on lots of adventures. An issue back then was when they'd arrive somewhere exciting, the younger humans might open the door and jump out of the van, which of course was exactly what the dogs would do, too! For safety, I taught the dogs a foundation wait at the door first, and then I added me bolting out the door and taking off running. I wanted Cleo and Freddie to wait until they heard a release cue to jump out and start their adventures.
Dogs don't care WHO goes out the door first. This isn't about them learning they are lesser beings and some big human is the "alpha" dominant leader macho jerk. Everything we teach dogs should be about their safety, their wellbeing, improving their quality of life, improving our relationship, connection, communication, and about enriching their lives through FUN and stimulation.

Well, this face is just ridiculous. Help me welcome Ringo, who looks like an absolute star ⭐ but it's actually because h...
01/18/2025

Well, this face is just ridiculous. Help me welcome Ringo, who looks like an absolute star ⭐ but it's actually because he dates you to try and cut that face and head. 🔪 He's SUCH a sweetheart, it's ok to have big feelings about scary things like haircuts and people taking away your treasures. His people have been given bad, harmful training advice since he was a puppy, and unfortunately it's caused a lot of trust issues for Ringo and exacerbated the issues (which is so often the case). But thankfully, it just didn't feel right for Ringo's mom who recently decided to move to less forceful, more dog friendly methods and I cannot give her enough props for that! I appreciate her kind heart and her instincts. Welcome to A Matter of Manners, Ringo and family! 🥰

01/17/2025

From the archives!
In multi-pet households, one of my favorite things to teach is how to take turns. Taking turns getting treats, attention, playtime, grooming, or training so when one pet has their go, the others will wait patiently. I love to use mat training with this, but you don't have to (I'll post a basic sit stay for this later with another group of cuties). This is especially helpful in households where one dog or cat is getting chased off or trampled when they get attention, or if they just walk by! Rufus and Roxie often thought Cleo the cat was great to chase, and they also REALLY always wanted it to be their turn to get attention/training/treats (they are both very young and this is normal). They're learning here that it's actually way more fun to stay on their beds and watch while Cleo moves around in front of them and even (GASP) gets pets from trainer Erica!
In this clip, Roxie the Rottie was still under 5 months old, and Rufus was under 2. Katie they Greyhound is always miss perfect, but it's important to remember that NO DOG is too young or old to learn through force-free, rewards based training, even very advanced ideas like a down stay while your kitty toy does tricks.
Training your dogs and cats can improve the relationship between them and helps everyone live in harmony together! Mat training is such a fantastic and versatile thing to train, as long as it's safe and fun for your pet (no using leashes to drag your dog onto their mats and force them to stay while something scary happens near them, PLEASE!). Choose kindness, train with food, keep it light and fun. While you're at it, TRAIN YOUR CAT! 😁

I know my Ridgie people will love these two! Big welcome to these big lovebugs, Abba and Obi. Abba on the left just star...
01/09/2025

I know my Ridgie people will love these two! Big welcome to these big lovebugs, Abba and Obi. Abba on the left just started her training package to work on some fun things to help with her classic teen behaviors. Teen dogs have a LOT more energy than puppies or adults, lack impulse control, forget previous training, and are often generally quite wild! 😜 I love working with the wild teen dogs and helping to harness and give outlets for the energy, not suppress it. Welcome to A Matter of Manners, Abba, Obi, and family!

I'm back from my holiday break (actually almost a week back in!) and feeling refreshed and as ready for 2025 as I can be...
01/09/2025

I'm back from my holiday break (actually almost a week back in!) and feeling refreshed and as ready for 2025 as I can be (we have a lot to get ready for here in the US but here we go). I am happy to start seeing you all and getting back to work, and I plan to start posting a "from the archives!" series here, posting loads of pictures and videos from 2024 that are way to cute to not share, along with training, husbandry, and general tips! I hope to offer more Boredom Busters for cats and dogs (my online trick series!), and have some new things coming this year.
Look for the "from the archives" series starting soon! Happy New Year!

Fireworks reminder!! 🎆🎇 Exercise your pups early, give them whatever anxiety medications they need early enough to give ...
12/31/2024

Fireworks reminder!! 🎆🎇 Exercise your pups early, give them whatever anxiety medications they need early enough to give them time to kick in, check your fences, put their collars on, and be extra careful tonight! Comfort and love on them if they get scared, give them snacks after big bangs, play music or put on an action movie to cover the sound, and good luck! Happy New Year's Eve friends!

Merry Christmas! A few pictures from our morning. These sweet old boys had so much fun and tired out quickly! 🤣🥰 Love th...
12/26/2024

Merry Christmas! A few pictures from our morning. These sweet old boys had so much fun and tired out quickly! 🤣🥰 Love them so much.

Daisy 💖 Her people have worked so hard with her through some really tough things and they've done so with patience, kind...
12/20/2024

Daisy 💖 Her people have worked so hard with her through some really tough things and they've done so with patience, kindness, and love (and a lot of treats). Now Daisy is so grown up and SUCH a wonderful, happy girl. Thank you Kim, Alex, and family for being incredible dog parents who have gone above and beyond for Daisy, and awesome clients! We still have plenty we can do with Daisy but she's still just a kid. 😜

Happy Christmas 🎁 Our family picture this year! The dogs are asking Santa for less embarrassing parents for Christmas th...
12/19/2024

Happy Christmas 🎁 Our family picture this year! The dogs are asking Santa for less embarrassing parents for Christmas this year.🥴

A very belated welcome to this sweet boy. Jude has big feelings about a lot of things. He particularly dislikes people i...
12/06/2024

A very belated welcome to this sweet boy. Jude has big feelings about a lot of things. He particularly dislikes people in his house, but has a suspicion about strangers in general. Over our first several sessions, Jude has welcomed me into his circle and we are now working on making that circle of trust even bigger. For dogs who are already intense (intensity isn't bad!), it's imperative to work super conservatively, paying attention to the tiniest shift in their body language and behavior to catch the earliest signs they are getting stressed out, and taking lots of play breaks and breaks in general. Jude is doing SO great, he's a very good boy and his mom has been doing SO great keeping him safe and relaxed. Management with a stranger danger dog can be exhausting and difficult but Amelia has done so, so well. They make a great team! I'm so proud of them and all the hard work they're putting in. Welcome (belatedly!) Jude and Amelia to A Matter of Manners!

Calling all kittens!! I am so excited to announce my first ever KITTEN KINDERGARTEN class! Did you know kittens have a s...
12/01/2024

Calling all kittens!! I am so excited to announce my first ever KITTEN KINDERGARTEN class! Did you know kittens have a socialization period of development just like puppies? This sensitive period is actually strongest between 2-7 weeks, but kittens are in their sensitive socialization phase up to about 15 weeks old. I'm accepting kittens up to 5 months old for class.

Go to amatterofmannersdogtraining.com/fancyfelines to register!

This is our opportunity to mold kitten brains into brave, confident, happy, well rounded adult cats. We want to carefully and positively introduce all kinds of novelty like body handling, new people, vet visits, car rides, carriers, and more!

In this 3 week introductory class, we will go over what is socialization, do socialization exercises together, begin basic training, learn more about your kittens, and create a strong bond with your new kitty.

Classes will be Mondays at 6:30pm mountain time, December 9th-23rd. Class is virtual, which means you can join from anywhere in the world!

Go to amatterofmannersdogtraining.com/fancyfelines to register!

This is definitely one of the best pictures I've ever taken. 😂 Say hello to Molly and Lucy! These two doofy Danes are ac...
11/21/2024

This is definitely one of the best pictures I've ever taken. 😂 Say hello to Molly and Lucy! These two doofy Danes are actually pretty perfect. Molly (bottom) just needs some help being more comfortable and confident around other dogs on leash. Molly's already been hard at work for several weeks, she's doing great and is absolutely DELIGHTFUL to be around, as is her goofy sister. Belated welcome to A Matter of Manners to Molly, Lucy, and their people!

I can't believe I haven't introduced Sammy yet because LOOK AT HIM! Sweet Sammy is learning that people, especially peop...
11/12/2024

I can't believe I haven't introduced Sammy yet because LOOK AT HIM! Sweet Sammy is learning that people, especially people in his house, are not something scary or threatening. Sammy is a classic case of big behavior change happening after/during social maturity, a developmental period dogs go through from 1-3 years old. Sometimes, we see things like stranger danger or dog aggression pop up during this time despite the dog being ok with people or dogs as young puppies/juveniles. Sammy is very concerned with people moving around the house especially, but he is doing such a great job learning some coping skills, and his parents are doing a great job of pairing people in the house with all the good food! Of course the most important part of any training is management, not putting dogs in situations they cannot handle, and his parents are managing Sammy well around new people! I'm so close to being fully in Sammy's circle of trust, he is very cozy with me when I'm sitting and hanging out (see pictures, lol). He's lovely! Very belated welcome to Sammy and his parents!

Help me welcome this absolutely adorable little scruff, a Giant Schnoodle puppy named Saint who is several sessions into...
11/11/2024

Help me welcome this absolutely adorable little scruff, a Giant Schnoodle puppy named Saint who is several sessions into her Empowered Puppy Package. She is super silly, very cute, and is keeping her family on their toes! Belated welcome to A Matter of Manners to Saint and her lovely family!

Happy Halloween! We had a great time last night! Myles and Diego love watching all the kids come to the door (we don't l...
11/01/2024

Happy Halloween! We had a great time last night! Myles and Diego love watching all the kids come to the door (we don't let anyone go up and pet them just in case because of crowds and costumes, but they love to stare, sniff, and eat all the treats we give, especially for the weirder costumes!). The kids love seeing our dogs too, and it's just a good time all around! Reminder to introduce your dogs and cats to costumes gradually and early! Use lots of food and make it fun. Don't expose your dog to trick or treaters if they're nervous about people in general. Thankfully my dogs just love when people come over.
Hope everyone had a safe and fun Halloween!!

Hi! I'm still here, still training, still working, just not that excited about keeping up with social media BUT I'll get...
10/29/2024

Hi! I'm still here, still training, still working, just not that excited about keeping up with social media BUT I'll get back to it soon. Have some cute, new pups to introduce as well as exciting progress from lots of clients. My website is up to date on all my prices, services, and scheduling! Amatterofmannersdogtraining.com
Ps- DON'T FORGET TO VOTE!
Picture is from a super fun hike with my boys and all our friends, 🥰

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