A Matter of Manners Behavior and Training

A Matter of Manners Behavior and Training We believe in force-free training and behavior modification that uses rewards to build, strengthen, and modify behavior. Dog and cat training.

Whether you want your furry friend to learn basic manners or crazy tricks, I can help you! I am a graduate of Jean Donaldon's The Academy for Dog Trainers (CTC), and a Certified Professional Dog Trainer-Knowledge Assessed (CPDT-KA) and have experience training dogs of all shapes, sizes and temperaments. From puppy socialization to advanced tricks and everywhere in between, A Matter of Manners is ready to train.

02/24/2025

A down is a down, right?! 😍 Saint is growing up so fast (although her people would love for her to go through this challenging teen phase a little faster, I'm sure!) and she is soooo cute. She's a leaner, I love a leaner! I love this girlie. Reminder to all my teen dog parents, it's a temporary phase, and it's normal for your teen dog to be extra WILD. Be patient, be kind, give them extra mental and physical exercise and remember you will get to the other side.

Myles update! For those following his cancer journey, I am very pleased to report he is STILL cancer free and overall qu...
02/13/2025

Myles update! For those following his cancer journey, I am very pleased to report he is STILL cancer free and overall quite healthy after his latest monitoring X-ray and senior panel. He is feeling great (like, really great!!), looking a little chunky but overall looking like the most handsome lad, and so far no more tumors. 🤞🎉 We changed things up to make it less scary and stressful for Myles by going to our regular vet for this round of X-rays and his full checkup, which we did sedated this time. He's supposed to be awake for these but we all agreed it would be better to do one round sedated to get the pictures we need and combine the X-rays with his senior workup. We will continue seeing our regular vet for his maintenance X-rays but thanks to my Fear Free vet who knows my dogs so well, there will be arrangements made to make them as fear free as possible for Myles, whose vet phobia has come back in force after everything he's had to deal with this last year. It's so important to have a vet that you trust and can work with as a team, and I trust my vet so much that my own anxiety is always lowered when she walks in the room. I can't tell you what a difference Dr. Long has made in our lives over the last many years! 💗 And I'm just so relieved and happy that Myles is still free of cancer and I hope for many more years with my heart and soul.

It was a double Penny kind of day! Both these adorable girlies started training packages today. Penny the Golden Retriev...
02/12/2025

It was a double Penny kind of day! Both these adorable girlies started training packages today. Penny the Golden Retriever is a 5 month old baby girl, and Penny the Beagley/herding breed something mix of deliciousness is about 4 years old. Both dogs are still somewhat new in their homes and are working on different things, but both are already basically perfect, of course! Welcome to A Matter of Manners, Penny and Sarah, and welcome back to A Matter of Manners to Penny's people, Kaitlin and Michael, who I've had the pleasure of working with before. 💗

Tomorrow. Anyone in Santa Fe going? I'll be there a little late but will find whoever is planning on being there once I ...
02/05/2025

Tomorrow. Anyone in Santa Fe going? I'll be there a little late but will find whoever is planning on being there once I get there.
I know people have expressed concern about these protests with some people saying do not go. I think it's worth the risk. We have to resist, we have to start getting together and making our voices heard. So, go if you can and just be careful, be prepared, be aware.
These are happening everywhere in all 50 states at capitals, so go to yours if you can!
#50501

02/05/2025

From the archives! Desensitization & Counterconditioning to help Daisy feel better when people approach while she has a treasure. Daisy doesn't have to do anything for the food to appear & notice the lack of guarding or concerned body language. Desensitization means the dog feels safe, relaxed, there's no concern. Alex approaching while Daisy has a benebone = food from the sky. If we mess up & get too close for her comfort resulting in any guarding, Daisy will STILL get treats, that's Counterconditioning.
Resource guarding, especially when directed towards humans, is a widely misunderstood & heavily mistreated issue. Many people are offended & take it personally if their dog guards from them; whether it's a toy they guard, the other person in the house, a resting area, or their special treats. I have good news for you! Your dog doesn't like you any less just because they growl at you over a treasure they don't want you to take. Growling is communication. Nor does it mean anything about respect or who is the top dog. Resource guarding is normal dog behavior & who can blame a dog for protecting their favorite resources? Whether a dog freezes over their treasure or snaps/bites, they are not being naughty or trying to be the alpha, they are simply asking for space. We don't need to deny them access to any of their favorite things anymore, and we don't need to teach them who is boss by forcefully approaching & taking away whatever they are guarding (good way to get a bite!).
Resource guarding does not always need to be "fixed." Sometimes the solution is to leave your dog in peace when they have something high value. If the guarding is more serious, for safety & the dog's emotional health, we can help dogs feel way better about people approaching, walking past, or even taking away an object (if it's something dangerous or something inedible that they might ingest).

Hiiiii Hennessy! This gorgeous gal started some training to work on a few things and very quickly picked up a wave! No m...
01/31/2025

Hiiiii Hennessy! This gorgeous gal started some training to work on a few things and very quickly picked up a wave! No matter what we practiced after, she really wanted to show off her wave. 🥰 She is such a good girl! Welcome to A Matter of Manners, Hennessy and Vanessa!

Welcome BACK to these stunning gentleman!! You might remember Bailey (on the left in the second pic) when he was learnin...
01/31/2025

Welcome BACK to these stunning gentleman!! You might remember Bailey (on the left in the second pic) when he was learning that getting in the car and car rides were not scary, they were actually fun and ended with adventures! Scoop, who is now even bigger than Bailey, was a just a silly little (Pyr style little...) puppy when I welcomed him to A Matter of Manners and since the last time I saw him. I can't even tell you how much I adore these dogs. And here is the best part, they now LOVE getting in the car and going places! I'm so proud of them (dogs and their people) for all the work they put in to get there! Now that they love everyone, everything, and car rides, we will just work on some leash skills to make those adventures a little easier on their people's arms and shoulders. 😁

Going new places is sooooooo fun and exhausting! Teddy and Dotty went on an exciting longline adventure and Teddy had a ...
01/29/2025

Going new places is sooooooo fun and exhausting! Teddy and Dotty went on an exciting longline adventure and Teddy had a nap all the way home. A satisfied and enriched dog is a happy dog.
Exercise is important for dogs, but don't focus just on getting out for the same walk every day. Dogs deserve to explore and be exposed to more of the world! Try out new places, take your dogs to different parks, go for hikes, take them for car rides (if they like it) to get a puppacino. Let them go places where they can RUN (either in fenced in areas or on longlines), but also take them places with a slower pace where they can sniff, meet people if they like that, watch people/dogs in the distance if they want to, and slowly stroll from sniff to sniff. Spend more time with your dogs doing fun things for everyone!

Cita is a beautiful girl with big feelings about strangers, especially if they are moving or looking at her (how dare th...
01/23/2025

Cita is a beautiful girl with big feelings about strangers, especially if they are moving or looking at her (how dare they!). Instead of "correcting" her behavior, which is just a symptom of her fear, we will teach Cita that strangers are actually super awesome, predict good things, and follow a set of rules that Cita finds comfortable and acceptable. When she feels more confident, comfortable, and safe internally, her outward behavior will change. When she feels differently about strangers, she won't feel the need to lunge, bark, growl, bite. She is such a gorgeous and sweet young dog, and has a family ready to help her feel safer! Welcome to A Matter of Manners, Cita and family!

01/19/2025

From the archives, and actually a much older one! A 2022 throwback.
If you want your dogs to perform behaviors (which most of the time, the behaviors we expect from dogs are NOT natural behaviors for dogs), you have to teach them, and you have to practice (incremental training steps and a LOT of reps).
Cleo and Freddie are super lucky and loved dogs who go on lots of adventures. An issue back then was when they'd arrive somewhere exciting, the younger humans might open the door and jump out of the van, which of course was exactly what the dogs would do, too! For safety, I taught the dogs a foundation wait at the door first, and then I added me bolting out the door and taking off running. I wanted Cleo and Freddie to wait until they heard a release cue to jump out and start their adventures.
Dogs don't care WHO goes out the door first. This isn't about them learning they are lesser beings and some big human is the "alpha" dominant leader macho jerk. Everything we teach dogs should be about their safety, their wellbeing, improving their quality of life, improving our relationship, connection, communication, and about enriching their lives through FUN and stimulation.

Well, this face is just ridiculous. Help me welcome Ringo, who looks like an absolute star ⭐ but it's actually because h...
01/18/2025

Well, this face is just ridiculous. Help me welcome Ringo, who looks like an absolute star ⭐ but it's actually because he dates you to try and cut that face and head. 🔪 He's SUCH a sweetheart, it's ok to have big feelings about scary things like haircuts and people taking away your treasures. His people have been given bad, harmful training advice since he was a puppy, and unfortunately it's caused a lot of trust issues for Ringo and exacerbated the issues (which is so often the case). But thankfully, it just didn't feel right for Ringo's mom who recently decided to move to less forceful, more dog friendly methods and I cannot give her enough props for that! I appreciate her kind heart and her instincts. Welcome to A Matter of Manners, Ringo and family! 🥰

01/17/2025

From the archives!
In multi-pet households, one of my favorite things to teach is how to take turns. Taking turns getting treats, attention, playtime, grooming, or training so when one pet has their go, the others will wait patiently. I love to use mat training with this, but you don't have to (I'll post a basic sit stay for this later with another group of cuties). This is especially helpful in households where one dog or cat is getting chased off or trampled when they get attention, or if they just walk by! Rufus and Roxie often thought Cleo the cat was great to chase, and they also REALLY always wanted it to be their turn to get attention/training/treats (they are both very young and this is normal). They're learning here that it's actually way more fun to stay on their beds and watch while Cleo moves around in front of them and even (GASP) gets pets from trainer Erica!
In this clip, Roxie the Rottie was still under 5 months old, and Rufus was under 2. Katie they Greyhound is always miss perfect, but it's important to remember that NO DOG is too young or old to learn through force-free, rewards based training, even very advanced ideas like a down stay while your kitty toy does tricks.
Training your dogs and cats can improve the relationship between them and helps everyone live in harmony together! Mat training is such a fantastic and versatile thing to train, as long as it's safe and fun for your pet (no using leashes to drag your dog onto their mats and force them to stay while something scary happens near them, PLEASE!). Choose kindness, train with food, keep it light and fun. While you're at it, TRAIN YOUR CAT! 😁

I know my Ridgie people will love these two! Big welcome to these big lovebugs, Abba and Obi. Abba on the left just star...
01/09/2025

I know my Ridgie people will love these two! Big welcome to these big lovebugs, Abba and Obi. Abba on the left just started her training package to work on some fun things to help with her classic teen behaviors. Teen dogs have a LOT more energy than puppies or adults, lack impulse control, forget previous training, and are often generally quite wild! 😜 I love working with the wild teen dogs and helping to harness and give outlets for the energy, not suppress it. Welcome to A Matter of Manners, Abba, Obi, and family!

I'm back from my holiday break (actually almost a week back in!) and feeling refreshed and as ready for 2025 as I can be...
01/09/2025

I'm back from my holiday break (actually almost a week back in!) and feeling refreshed and as ready for 2025 as I can be (we have a lot to get ready for here in the US but here we go). I am happy to start seeing you all and getting back to work, and I plan to start posting a "from the archives!" series here, posting loads of pictures and videos from 2024 that are way to cute to not share, along with training, husbandry, and general tips! I hope to offer more Boredom Busters for cats and dogs (my online trick series!), and have some new things coming this year.
Look for the "from the archives" series starting soon! Happy New Year!

Fireworks reminder!! 🎆🎇 Exercise your pups early, give them whatever anxiety medications they need early enough to give ...
12/31/2024

Fireworks reminder!! 🎆🎇 Exercise your pups early, give them whatever anxiety medications they need early enough to give them time to kick in, check your fences, put their collars on, and be extra careful tonight! Comfort and love on them if they get scared, give them snacks after big bangs, play music or put on an action movie to cover the sound, and good luck! Happy New Year's Eve friends!

Merry Christmas! A few pictures from our morning. These sweet old boys had so much fun and tired out quickly! 🤣🥰 Love th...
12/26/2024

Merry Christmas! A few pictures from our morning. These sweet old boys had so much fun and tired out quickly! 🤣🥰 Love them so much.

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