
10/04/2025
Patience Pays: Rejecting Instant Rewards in Horsemanship
Working with horses teaches patience in a way that building fences or mowing pastures never can. With physical tasks, you see immediate results. A shed goes up, brush is cleared, and a haircut is obvious as soon as you step out of the chair. Horsemanship is different: it rewards the smallest, subtler gains.
Progress with a horse is built moment by moment. You reward the slightest try, shape thought into action through the horse’s body, then layer the cue until the horse understands. Take disengaging the hindquarters (untracking) as an example: begin by encouraging the horse to look left, then apply a left-seat and leg aid from position three (just behind the girth). Hold the aid until the horse shifts its weight, release, and repeat when the horse takes a step, reward, and build on it. As you refine the aid, you may find you need less leg and more seat — a sign you are developing true communication and unity.
Because results are gradual, it’s easy to become discouraged by the lack of immediate, material feedback. Don’t let that slow you down. Repetition practiced with feel, timing, and calm consistency builds confidence in both horse and rider. Regroup when you need to, reset, and return to the work. Over time, those small increments add up to balance, responsiveness, and partnership — the real rewards of horsemanship. Cheers- Travis