My dogs have a right to personal space. They have a right to consent to being pet by strangers, bull rushed by other dogs, having their space invaded. Few things deteriorate trust more commonly than humans misreading body language and putting their dogs in situations they desperately don’t want to be in.
(Of course there are exceptions like veterinarians and groomers but did the neighbor down the street HAVE to pet your dog?)
“Why does my dog always show off for you?”
Your dog trainer isn’t a wizard. They just hold your dog to the highest standard they are capable of. That standard will wiggle from dog to dog, but all dogs are opportunists and will live to the standard we hold them too.
Rigatoni here happens to be one of the gentlest, easiest going dogs I’ve ever met,(next to maybe our own Griffin) so it’s very easy to let him coast.
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Growth is hard, but rehoming should be harder.
Draco is an incredible dog with typical puppy issues. Literally the most minor things to work at.
Before we adopted him, his prior family sent him to a board and train and told the trainer “no e-collar”. They sent him back a second time but when he got mouthy and growled from the crate, they brought him back to the pound with a love note.
Here is Draco in our back yard playing fetch with an e-collar. He is happy, he is eager to play, and he won’t chase a fisher cat if it shows up in my yard or book towards the neighbors yard if their dog runs into our shared woods. He is certainly not shut down while wearing the collar.
The truth of the matter is that he needed leadership. As my other videos show, my 3 year old can command him. Is rehoming a dog easier than taking a critical look at how you interact with your dog? Is your relationship with your dog about how they make you feel or about how you make them feel? People call themselves pet parents but act like fun aunts and uncles. The difference is providing a calm safe space for our dogs to owe us nothing. They are not our therapists, bar tender, or cheerleader.. as a parent, I know we would never ask that of our children. Self awareness might be the most challenging part of becoming who your dog needs you to be. Dog training is about way more than the dog.
“Discipline equals freedom” -Jocko Willink. This story is from Sailor’s owner and her mother who signed up for dog training when he was a puppy and have shared every step of their story since. From the silly criticisms and comments they have laughed about with me to every video of him doing everything from making March madness picks, to painting pictures, to dressing up for Halloween. It has been one of my greatest honors to see Sailor along his training journey 💙. There is a time and place for most behaviors. Teaching our dogs where and when is a huge part of raising dogs people want to be around. With discipline and structure, dogs get to go into situations confident that they will be able to lean on your feedback to meet expectations for each circumstance. They also will be able to earn more trust and freedom over time as they prove their ability to make great decisions or at minimum are willing override bad decisions when you give them safer ones.