25/05/2026
This isn’t easy to write about 😢
I don’t know anyone who likes talking about the fact that their dog is getting older (okay, maybe if you have a teething puppy 😅). And the truth is, I have no idea how old Remi is. He was an adult when he came into my life, and the shelter had his age at around 6 (5-8 was their guess).
And for a while I was sure they had over-aged him. Because it was always going to be mostly just a guess, based on teeth and a few other clues.
But now I’m thinking, 6 was probably right on the money. Because lately, I’m noticing how much he’s slowed down over the last year. Nothing dramatic. Nothing to be alarmed about. His vet check came back clean! But they did point out a few signs that he is probably now in the 10+ age range.
And when I met up with a friend for a casual stroll with our dogs on last week, after about an hour Remi was struggling to keep up with her 12 year old dog. Again, no signs of pain or a desire to stop. Just a slowing down.
Which means, it’s time for me to set some new boundaries. Like Remi not coming with me to Farm Camp when the temps will be over 90. And cutting our walks and hikes down: we don’t need to do 10 miles, we can do 1 mile and sniff 10 times as much stuff along the way.
I’m not saying Remi’s ready to retire. He isn’t. But what I am saying is that it’s time for me to start conceptualizing what that might look like.
And sometimes that means he won’t come with me to camp. And sometimes that means content will get pushed out because he doesn’t have the energy to train on the day I want to record. And all of that is perfectly okay.
I’m a dog trainer, but I’m a dog mom first. And that means putting what Remi needs above what me or my business needs sometimes. And I wouldn’t have it any other way 🥰