21/07/2025
I really enjoying saying, "Yes you may." This is one of the many reasons I love being an aunt. To my niece and nephews, I can say "Yes, you may" all the time! "Yes, you may run in the woods and get your hats and gloves full of burrs." "Yes, you may eat a cookie today and tomorrow and probably the next day." "Yes, you may spend thirty minutes deciding what toy to buy with your precious five dollars."
I love saying yes to my dogs too. "Yes, you may play in the river." "Yes, you may chase that rabbit." "Yes, you may take treats from that person." "Yes, you may go visit the neighbor."
It means my dogs have happy, fulfilling, adventurous lives. But it only works because they understand what "no" means. They know how to be polite, how to follow the rules, and how to stop when they're told. And that goes for both my dogs and my niece and nephews!
Is your life with your dog full of "yes you may"? Or is it full of "No, wait, stop, don't do that!"? Just a hint: "Yes" only works when there are also consistent rules and clear "no"s.