18/01/2023
This is long, but a great read! A MUST read!!! Copied and pasted.
Can we talk about puppies and dogs for a minute?
I have a person who has been calling me for a few years now. She wants a dog, but her husband does not. Of course I wouldn’t place a puppy in that home, but the calls keep coming.
Finally, this person wanted a rescue and put an application in to the rescue. The rescue was reluctant to place a puppy or dog with the couple, because the yard was not fully fenced. But promises were made to walk the dog and the rescue finally relented. The person called me,
“I’m getting a 10 month old lab. I’m so excited. It has been surrendered twice already, so I know it will be work, but I’m willing to work with this dog.”
My counsel (if you call it that) was “Do not get this puppy unless you are committed to it. Humans have already let this dog down too many times. Think this through really well. Make sure you are both committed to the dog and that you will not bring it back at the first sign of problems. Please, please do not take this dog home with you, unless you were willing to work through any problems you might have.” And I continued to tell them the things that puppies do, and that are bigger problems because they are 10 months old and have been abandoned more than once. Of course, the response was I need something to love. I want something to love, this dog will be something I can love and I will work through things with this dog. And once more I begged her, do not do this, unless you are committed to do this for a lifetime, this puppy has been let down by humans too many times.
Well, as you can guess the puppy peed on the carpeting, which was brand new. Since the couple was in their 60s, a 10 month old lab was difficult to control. A 10 month old lab that had been surrendered more than once had obviously not had any training, or had insufficient training. And after a weekend, the dog was surrendered once more to the facility.
I post this today because this broke my heart. Puppies are a commitment, I have taken a 10 month old, untrained puppy into my home, and she became an AKC Champion. I know how hard it is. But honestly any puppy is difficult.
I would just ask each person, thinking of bringing a puppy or dog into their home to know all of the pitfalls, and not to expect all of the victories right away. Puppies bite, chew, play hard, do not know the difference between your couch and a chew toy unless you teach them the difference.
The worst stages I have found with my puppies are from eight weeks to six months, and then again from 10 months to about 18 months. During the first, if a good foundation is laid - puppy classes, socialization, vet visits, grooming - a puppy will bring joy and be successful going through the “teenage” years of 10 months to 18 months.
But, today I’m writing this to remind those considering a puppy that the commitment should be carefully examined prior to bringing a puppy home. And if your breeder has not cautioned you and prepared you for what bringing a puppy home is like, feel free to give me a call because that puppy has no one to depend on but you and that puppy deserves the best that you can give it.