24/04/2025
I don’t know if this will make sense or not. I apologize if it doesn't, but I don’t want to rewrite it. Just please remember, it’s the little things.
For his 7th birthday he held a pet food drive.
For his 8th birthday he was homeless.
His Mom called, asked if we could help with dog food. They were new to the community and needed dog food. But cat food would be ok too.
Did she have a dog or a cat?
Neither.
Her son just got into school. A school with a lot of poverty. Several kids who were homeless. Kids that slept in cars or shelters or on friend’s couches. It's more common than you might realize.
Then she said one more thing.
She said if it was dry food, it should be 5 lbs or less. And if wet food, no more than 4 cans.
And that’s when it all made sense.
Because the 4 cans or 5 lbs food drive she talked about, that was for The Pongo Fund.
She just didn’t know it. And she didn’t need to know it.
The school her son just entered was in a poverty zone. Almost all of the kids were on free lunches and other programs. They came from good solid families, but families who struggled big time.
The woman who called had been fully employed. They had a home. Then their apartment building was sold and the new rent was more than they could afford. Everything was on the up and up. But they were going to be homeless in a few weeks so they moved to Portland to stay with a relative.
One of the first things her son talked about after his first day at school, was the food drive. It was for both people food and pet food. She said he had not said much at all the past few weeks, but suddenly he was really excited about something.
Even though they had no pets he understood how important pet food was, as it was just the year before that he asked everyone coming to his birthday party to bring pet food instead of presents.
When some of the kids said they didn’t understand, he told them that the pet food were the presents. This little guy, wise beyond his years.
Mom said things were tight and she wasn’t kidding. She said they did not have any extra money for pet food. Not for a small bag. Not even for a single can. She asked if we could help.
Yes we could.
Right about now you might be wondering about the 4 cans or 5 lbs. It was because we saw how in some of the grade schools we did pet food drives in, the schools where pretty much no one had any extra money, there were some kids that brought a lot and others that brought a little. And sometimes, some kids brought nothing at all.
It was no one’s fault. Just how life worked.
Especially for cans of tuna, chili or mac and cheese.
One of the teachers shared with me how awkward it was when someone arrived with huge amounts of food. And then another little kiddo came clutching a single can of tuna. Regardless, she celebrated every donation.
But she said the hardest moments were when the kids asked if they could keep the cans of tuna or chili or mac and cheese. They were that hungry.
The Mom who called was just learning about this new school. She did not know they had a food bank onsite. The food drive was for the food bank. A little food bank that got all of their pet food from The Pongo Fund. Thousands of pounds of pet food. And they had pet food because many of the families had pets. Oftentimes, those animals were the only friends the kids had to play with after school.
Money was tight, if there was money at all. Dinners were not always enough. And when they fell asleep, everyone in the family might have a growling tummy.
The little food bank was busy. The food drive brought both food and joy.
At the end of the drive all the food came back to The Pongo Fund. We repackaged it and sent it back to the school. But we did it in much larger numbers than what we had received. Because one of our Pongo Friends went to that school many years ago. Her family often went without dinner. The stomachs that growled, she was the one who told me about it.
It was her stomach.
And now here she was years later, doing all she could to make sure there were less stomachs that growled, for both two-legged and four. So with her help, we made sure a lot more food went back to that little food pantry. It was a good feeling.
The Mom who called, the one who loved her son so much that she wanted to make sure he had food for the food drive, she was a special Mom. Just as everything was falling apart, she made sure that her son still had something to celebrate.
The Pongo Friend, the woman who went to bed hungry many years ago, she picked up all of the food and delivered it back to the school. Even though she was living a very different life now, let’s just say, in her heart, she was still very much the little girl who was hungry.
And one more thing, and this is a reminder of how much we love our teachers.
A lot of families faced the same situation as the Mom who called The Pongo Fund. That’s why the teacher had a secret stash of extra dog and cat food on the ready, to make sure that every little kiddo had something to add. Food that was provided by The Pongo Fund for The Pongo Fund. Nobody really cared where the food came from. They just cared about being included.
If you’ve read this far, it may not seem like much.
But for a lot of kids, it was the Sun and the Moon and the Stars.
As Robert Brault said, “Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.”
Thank you for reading.
Being a Helper.
And this is why we Pongo.
Sit. Stay. Eat. Live.
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