27/10/2023
Grief brings with it a myriad of emotions - sadness, anger, guilt, relief, etc - all of which are difficult and confusing, but all of which are also very normal. We have to allow ourselves the ability to grieve...to accept those emotions as they come, and to recognize them for what they are: temporary feelings on our individual journey through the grieving process.
"Why is this so hard?", we sometimes hear owners say. I think they are often surprised by the depth and ferocity of the emotions that this process brings forth. Losing a pet is hard, as it should be. You can't share that kind of love and expect it to be anything but difficult when it goes away. But as difficult as it is, it's not permanent, and while time may not heal the wounds completely, it certainty will soften them.
Until it does, please remember to give yourself some grace. These feelings, in all their intensities and manifestations are normal. While the knowledge of that may not bring you peace, hopefully it provides an important context and a gentle reminder that it's OK to feel the things that you feel.