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01/12/2025

Mia keeps “failing” her greeting test. She’s the little brown dog behind the gate, and the moment she sees Ziva (the GSD), she jumps up and goes straight for a mouth-lick—what we jokingly call a “dental cleaning.” 😂

Over two Academy sessions, we tried:

1️⃣ Recall (nope—too excited)
2️⃣ Leash (stopped only while the leash was on)
3️⃣ Sq**rt bottle (interrupted her, but shut down the Dobermans nearby)

So we switched to what’s often the best option for new dogs learning social skills:

Management.

Management prevents dogs from rehearsing unwanted behaviors. The gate slows the interaction (which we love) and gives us space to teach. Mia’s jumping is her coping mechanism (eustress from seeing another dog).

Behind the gate, we can reward the behaviors we do want:
✔️ calmness
✔️ four paws on the floor
✔️ pausing
✔️ looking away

Once Mia clearly understands those choices, then we can fairly correct the behaviors we don’t want. But first, we teach her what success looks like.

Learn more about how to train your dog to have positive greetings or start a socialization business

www.RhondaBilodeau.com

29/11/2025

Part 1 of 3
Most people think a “social dog” means a dog who plays with every dog.

That’s actually not true.

Some of the MOST socially fluent dogs who are REALLY good with other dogs do very little playing.

Dogs who are real good with other dogs and have amazing social skills aren’t always about wrestling or chasing. They’re about communication, tolerance, calm greetings, and reading body language.

My dog prefers to simply co-exist in a group (this trait actually makes for a really easy dog!) and when he feels safe and finds that special someone he WILL play. But like us the energy has to fit.

Mostly, he checks in, sniffs, walks, hangs out… and that’s it.
He’s confident, he’s calm, and he doesn’t need constant interaction.

This is what most social fluency looks like.

Play is optional but good communication is not.

Stay tuned for part 2 of why dogs don’t need to love every dog in order to have amazing communication skills (social fluency).

27/11/2025

Gentle & Dainty dogs love quick hellos… and lots of space.
They’re independent, choosy about who they play with, and they feel safest when greetings are slow, calm, and supported.

When a rude or overly social dog pushes too hard, these dogs lose tolerance fast and that’s when the snapping, growling, or “leave me alone” behavior shows up.

Even a socially fluent gentle dog can become pessimistic about greetings if they’re constantly pushed past their boundaries.
Your dog isn’t “mean.”

They’re asking for advocacy.
Slow the greeting.
Create space.
Move the other dog away when yours is done.

✨ Do you have a Gentle & Dainty dog?

Are you noticing signs of lower tolerance or quick corrections?
I’ve got a new membership coming to help you. Stay tuned!!

26/11/2025

Social fluency is the #1 skill that dogs must learn if they want greetings to go smooth with ALL dogs.

It’s what we teach our dogs in all my socialization programs. It took me years to learn properly and safely.

When I finally learned it, I started putting it into practice and teaching other trainers so they could also build socially fluent dogs and packs.

Our packs flourished.

The dogs felt more confident and had more fun! They were also better for their owners.

There are some common things that are important to note in order to build social fluency in dogs.

👉🏼 They have to feel safe and be able to down regulate.

These are skills dogs must possess before socializing 1:1.

It’s what I’ll be teaching inside my $27/monthly membership coming out soon! Stay tuned! ✌🏼

Hey All,Here’s to hoping you and your dogs are well!Costa Rica has been treating us well. We're super happy with our new...
25/11/2025

Hey All,

Here’s to hoping you and your dogs are well!

Costa Rica has been treating us well. We're super happy with our new life here :) Our dogs have totally acclimated well here (they truly did from day 1) and the dogs have been such a pleasure on the beach and on these roads.

The good news is;

✔️ Sunshine almost every day
✔️ Fresh fruits and vegetables - there’s a feria (farmers market) almost every day here
✔️ Amazing people who are a little crazy like us ;)
✔️ Dance Church is everything I never knew I needed every Sunday (I've never sweated so much in my life)

The bad news is;

🚫 Crocodiles have eaten dogs on these beaches (venomous/poisonous snakes and frogs kill dogs on land) 😳
🚫 It gets so hot in the summer season that I have to get done walking the dogs by 9am
🚫 People think leaving their dogs free to roam for the day is OK 🤪
🚫 I'm afraid to leave my dogs in the car (windows down) because people steal dogs especially purebred dogs

The dog culture here is different but my dogs have been such rockstars! They literally have a super power to diffuse any tension they meet with strange dogs roaming the streets or off-leash unfriendly dogs at the beach because of all the training I've done with them.

I took a break from sharing so much but I've been called to share a bit more of what I'm going through and my offerings. Life's pretty rainbows and butterflies here- really no complaint now that I'm more accustomed to the craziness of Costa Rica weather, driving, culture and the Pura Vida Pace (love-disdain relationship with it LOL).

But back to the dogs...
Once a dog aggressively ran full speed at Ziva from a far distance and knocked her down looking for a fight and she just shook it off and went back to her sniffing.

I’ve known for a long time and recently it’s been on the forefront of my mind just how important it is to teach our dogs social fluency.

What’s social fluency you may ask?

It’s the ability to read another dogs body language, interpret it correctly and respond in a way that is calm and doesn’t escalate tension. A dog with social fluency helps another dog feel safe and comfortable. They’re able to get through any social interaction safely and diffuse any tension if it may arise.

It’s everything I’ll be teaching inside my $27/month membership (I know wild right!?) You can get all my top secret knowledge on creating a bomb proof dog for so little - plus you’ll get access to me! Ask me any question you’d like!

If you’ve been following me all these years and you’re curious to know how I socialize so many dogs off-leash or how my dogs have always been such good little helpers…. This membership is where you’ll be able to access that wisdom I’ve been building for the last 17 years!

One things for sure- Most dogs don’t need more obedience ❌ … they need social fluency.

Social fluency is what creates amazing dog to dog greetings. More on this soon :)

Sending so much love from the jungle,

Rhonda, Ziva & Milo

Photo: Mateo and I, drying out our dog gear or it'll get moldy, big spider (normal unfortunately), fresh coco's daily for coconut milk, Ziva disturbing the Pura Vida peace ;)

24/11/2025

Most dogs don’t need more obedience ❌ … they need social fluency. Social fluency is what creates amazing dog to dog greetings but in order to have good social fluency you need a dog in an operant state of mind.

This means a dog must feel:

✅ calm

✅ & safe

So start here!

It’s the important pre training you didn’t know you needed- developing in your dog skills to read other dogs well and communicate appropriately to avoid conflict.

So if your dog struggles with greetings, it’s not because they lack obedience. It’s because they struggle with over arousal or feeling safe.

Relaxation and confidence is more important than “sit-stay” when it comes to greetings.

Follow to build better social greetings in your dog 🙌🏼

HIGHLY RECOMMEND ✨ Essex, VT Folks! AMY of Squad Dogs who's starting her own Day School (like dog daycare but includes d...
31/08/2023

HIGHLY RECOMMEND ✨ Essex, VT Folks! AMY of Squad Dogs who's starting her own Day School (like dog daycare but includes dog training!)

‼️NEW PROGRAM ALERT‼️
Coming in October

Do you want a safe place for your dog to socialize with other dogs? Would you like additional help to improve your dog's manners, and life skills? Day School is just what you and your dog need in your life!

Day School offers a much more structured environment than a traditional daycare. It's a combination of socialization and training, all in one!

Each day starts with pick up of your dog, and other day school friends. Day school sessions are 3 hours, and consists of a mix of
socialization/play time, relaxation (how to just be chill around other dogs), and training time. Then each dog is returned home, and ready to
relax the rest of the day!

Some of the real life skills your dog will work on while at school...
🔸Relaxation in the car with other dogs
🔸Threshold boundaries - not rushing through doorways
🔸Confidence building
🔸Creating positive experiences away from home
🔸How to control their energy around other dogs - how to relax
around other dogs.
🔸How to properly read other dog's signals, and socialize with dogs
of all different personalities
🔸Basic obedience

Sign up now for an Eval session, so your dog is ready to enroll as soon as school starts in October!

Go to squaddogsvt.com for more info, and to fill out a Day School inquiry!

On this episode of the Divine Feminine Dog Trainer podcast I interview Catherine Edwards of  Catherine Edwards Life and ...
28/08/2023

On this episode of the Divine Feminine Dog Trainer podcast I interview Catherine Edwards of Catherine Edwards Life and CatherineEdwardsAcademy.com. Catherine is a Biologist & Holistic Wellness Practitioner for Humans & Animals, consults with herbal remedies and is an animal communicator amongst many other things.

As a Holistic Animal Health Practitioner that focuses on environmental enhancement, Catherine shares with us the best and easiest ways to detox your dogs. So easy anyone can do it.
In this episode Catherine talks about common pollutants and glyphosate harming your dog, how 1 in 1.6 dogs has cancer and why, how to help leaky gut, the reason why your dog is allergic to chicken or beef, how animals can self medicate through Zoopharmacognosy and how toxins affect us spiritual and emotionally.

You can learn more about Catherine through her links below.
linktr.ee/CatherineEdwardsLife

Listen to the podcast here https://www.divinefemininedogtrainer.com/podcast-15-catherine-edwards

Rainy day feels - welcome to green / rainy season in Costa Rica. We had a good run of sun ☀️
23/08/2023

Rainy day feels - welcome to green / rainy season in Costa Rica. We had a good run of sun ☀️

07/08/2023

If life is about balance, then in dog training, how much time do you spend on accepting, loving and holding a container of peace and non judgement towards your dog? Or are you always trying to fix, correct or change your dog?

The energy of wanting, desiring or having to change a dog (or anyone else for that matter) doesn’t feel good for the one on the receiving end of that energy. Sure, we can want a better life for our dog, hope they are able to feel happier, safer, more fulfilled, but what about also putting some of that energy into loving who they are in this moment- flaws and all?

What if you loved yourself, flaws and all, in this moment too? What would life feel like for you? What would life look like for you if you loved yourself perfectly imperfect?

We are born perfect in the eyes of our Creator. Nothing can ever break us. There is no healing that needs to happen only remembering our own perfection, wholeness and divinity. Maybe even remembering that these challenges that happen to us are actually happening for us so that we may learn that we were always whole, never broken, always loved, never abandoned.

I truly believe reiki to be an incredible place for many dog professionals to start learning about energy healing. I love what I’ve learned so far of Kathleen’s Letting Animals Lead the Way to Healing Method.

When we can start being Reiki rather than just giving reiki to our animals, we can start understanding our animals more deeply and having a really magical relationship with our animals.

You can learn more about Kathleen Animal Reiki Source and her reiki method here https://animalreikisource.com Kathleen's offering our listeners a 3 day animal reiki challenge to introduce you to reiki and what Kathleen does.

Listen to the podcast here https://www.divinefemininedogtrainer.com/14-kathleen-prasad

🚨New Podcast out! 🚨 Kathleen Prasad has been pioneering the field of Animal Reiki for over 22 years. She believes dogs a...
03/08/2023

🚨New Podcast out! 🚨 Kathleen Prasad has been pioneering the field of Animal Reiki for over 22 years. She believes dogs are the ones that have the PhD in healing their own bodies and how adding in reiki can allow the dog to choose and lead their own way to healing. All animals are healers and teachers so why not they lead their own way to healing.

Listen here: https://www.divinefemininedogtrainer.com/14-kathleen-prasad

I love this podcast because it helps listeners understand what the difference is between reiki for humans vs reiki for animals. I love when Kathleen talks about what it means to be Reiki and different ways to offer reiki to your animals. Pus, how offering too much reiki for animals can feel demanding and overwhelming for them. Rather we can learn to see the perfection in the animal and not judging them for what's wrong with them while offering the love, light, peace through reiki. It's so important to accept our animals where they are on their own healing process.

Reiki is a great place to explore alternative healing modalities for dog trainers and to expand upon your animal communication skills. There's a great chat on how reiki can enhance a dog trainer or animal communicator's skill set in the podcast you won't want to miss.

Kathleen has taught thousands of animal lovers this sacred healing art, written multiple books on the subject, authored the Code of Ethics for the profession and has created the world’s first and only nonprofit called Shelter Animal Reiki Association (SARA) dedicated to bringing the peaceful power of the Let Animals Lead® method to rescued animals and their caregivers around the world. Kathleen is a California girl, wife and mother to a teenager, dog and a horse.

Kathleen believes we need more people devoting themselves to helping animals heal. Kathleen explains what it means to let animals lead the way to healing and how her association SARA (Shelter Animal Reiki Association S.A.R.A.) helps as many animals at the shelter enjoy her Let Animals Lead method.
Learn the 6 pillars of the let animals lead method and while you're at it Kathleen's offering our listeners a 3 day animal reiki challenge to introduce you to reiki and what Kathleen does. You can find it here.

https://animalreikisource.com/product/animal-reiki-challenge/

This is your sign that relationships can heal and things can become so much better when you work on healing your own wou...
27/07/2023

This is your sign that relationships can heal and things can become so much better when you work on healing your own wounds. I’m so proud of my sister and myself for never giving up on us so we can have the relationship we always wanted. We’ve worked hard on loving ourselves so we could come together to love one another fully. Here’s to more traveling together now that we don’t trigger each other (so much!).

What a special 2 weeks with my sister while I was in VT training students for the Year Long Dog Trainer’s Course. She’s truly the best and I’m so amazed by her gifts and her ability to truly see others. Love you so much !

If you haven’t done a reiki intuitive session with her - you must! She’s so incredibly talented!!

https://rachelribisreiki.com

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Vermont Dog Pack was started in 2007 by Vermonter, Rhonda Bilodeau. Rhonda is a certified trainer. Her program is based off the Training Between the Ears System by Mark McCabe. TBTE has similarities to Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) in that it helps dogs think & feel differently about their triggers . This NLP style of training helps to;


  • rewire your dog’s brains

  • change how your dog views the word and their beliefs about the world
  • This is how Rhonda trains reliable dogs- focusing on a dog’s opinion about the world not just their behavior. Rhonda developed a strong interest in NLP because of TBTE & because how much anxiety both dog and owner were passing between each other.