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The magic of clicker training and Tellington TTouch® for good manners and behavior issues.

I did not know huskies can really dance!
01/11/2025

I did not know huskies can really dance!

Hahaaaa
01/11/2025

Hahaaaa

Dogs and candy don’t mix.
31/10/2025

Dogs and candy don’t mix.

Every Halloween, veterinarians see a spike in emergency visits from pets who’ve eaten candy or festive treats.

Chocolate, xylitol (a sugar substitute found in many sugar-free candies), and even raisins can be toxic to dogs and cats.

Candy wrappers and decorative packaging can also cause choking or intestinal blockages.

Taking a few extra precautions can prevent a scary trip to the emergency room. Keep your celebrations fun and safe for everyone, including your furry family members!

If you (selectively) let dogs greet on leash, keep those leashes loose and  greetings very short. Not for dogs who may r...
28/10/2025

If you (selectively) let dogs greet on leash, keep those leashes loose and greetings very short. Not for dogs who may react negatively!

SECONDS COUNT
This post is not advocating that dogs meet every other dog, but rather about how to go about it in a safer way, if and when it does happen.

The 3 second rule for dogs meeting each other is used as a guideline to help foster positive introductions, prevent either dog from feeling overwhelmed or trapped and prevent any potential reactivity and stress.

A short 3 second introduction is enough time to provide important information to both dogs.

Enough time and information for dogs to decide – “are you a threat?”, “do I like you?”, “do I want to learn more about you?”, “do I really dislike you?”, “do I want you to go away?” etc. Both dogs may not feel the same way – one may not be happy to engage while the other may want to.

All interactions should ideally happen like this, not just initially. Just like us, dogs can have off days – things like pain, trigger stacking, lack of sleep or a host of other reasons can influence a dog’s emotional state and whether a dog wants to interact or not.

There are countless times I have witnessed meetings or introductions between dogs that have gone on just a few seconds too long and have not ended well.

This can have long lasting effects on future behaviour when meeting other dogs.

Understanding body language is critically important. If we are going to share our lives with another species, protect them, advocate for them and help them feel safe, then we need to understand and respect their language.

The examples in this post of red and green flags are just a few general ones to look out for – there are many more and these will differ depending on the individual dog, context and circumstances.

Here are some resources that provide more detailed information about body language –

The Veterinary Behaviour Centre
https://bit.ly/4hwC8k1

On Talking Terms With Dogs - Calming Signals, 2nd Edition by Turid Rugaas
https://bit.ly/4oftWqW

Make sure those first 3 seconds count – they can make all the difference.

Where’s your dog, on the spectrum?
24/10/2025

Where’s your dog, on the spectrum?

DON’T FORCE ME TO BE SOCIAL!

It may be really disappointing or frustrating when our dogs are not the social beings we expected them to be.

Many people assume dogs should just naturally get along with other dogs, after all they’re the same species.

Some believe the “unsociable” dog has a behaviour problem that needs to be “fixed”.

Early, appropriately timed and proper socialisation is really important, but sometimes despite all of this, some dogs are just not that sociable or socially selective to varying degrees.

Sometimes this can be improved, especially if the cause is from a negative experience, but genetics, breed tendencies, individual personalities, health and age all contribute to tolerance and sociability, which also change throughout a dog’s lifetime.

If we, as a human species, don’t get along with everyone we meet, how can we expect our dogs to?

Do we label or try to fix every person that has an argument; doesn’t make friends with everyone they meet, dislikes some people, or just prefers not to be social as having a problem that needs to be fixed?

Why is it so easy to accept that every individual person is different than to accept that every individual dog is different?

When we have done what we can to improve our dogs’ social skills, we need to accept and acknowledge our dogs for the individuals they are, allow and respect their choice of whether to be sociable or not and never force interactions that dogs are not comfortable with.

Figuring out the Why is essential. They're expressing an emotion or a need. We can teach another behavior to get that ne...
21/10/2025

Figuring out the Why is essential. They're expressing an emotion or a need. We can teach another behavior to get that need met.

"If you're having issues with your dog barking, it really helps to know why they're barking." That's because dogs can bark for many reasons. If they are barking from fear, for example, you'll want to do something about that to help your dog feel safe. But if they're barking because they want something, we call that demand barking. In the latest episode of The Pawsitive Post in Conversation, and I chat about demand barking and what to do about it (if you want to do something). Listen wherever you get your podcasts, watch on Youtube, or read a transcript on my blog. Link in bio or:

Youtube: https://youtu.be/NzBpTlNLeWk
Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2183505/episodes/17992672
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/demand-barking-in-dogs-and-what-to-do-about-it/id1685998335?i=1000731793456
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3j2eNhlV4JHfp53O9gM63J
Blog post with video, audio, and transcript: https://www.companionanimalpsychology.com/2025/10/demand-barking-in-dogs-and-what-to-do.html

Want a more reliable and happy response when you call your dogl?
21/10/2025

Want a more reliable and happy response when you call your dogl?

Do you wish your dog would always come when called? If your current cue isn’t working very well, it will actually be easier to introduce a new cue and train it properly than to try to fix the one that’s not working. 4 common mistakes explain why you should change your current cue: it has acci

Training the UnChase way works! You can do it on your own via the app and this challenge. If you need help, get in touch...
19/10/2025

Training the UnChase way works!
You can do it on your own via the app and this challenge. If you need help, get in touch!

Just when you thought they were starting to mature! There’s a reason why teens seem to forget all their training. I have...
14/10/2025

Just when you thought they were starting to mature! There’s a reason why teens seem to forget all their training. I have a program for that.

BRAIN UNDER CONSTRUCTION
The challenges of the teenage dog.

There’s a saying that most parents of teenagers can relate to - "Parents of teenagers understand why some animals eat their young!"

The changes that happen in the brain of a teenage dog are not that different to a human teenager.

The brain undergoes a period of "pruning" and "re-wiring". This process can cause some parts not to work, work sporadically or work too much.

To describe it in the simplest of terms -the prefrontal cortex of a teenage brain is at the “back of the queue” in this process. It’s still “under construction” and still developing. This area of the brain is responsible for making “logical” decisions, controlling impulses, learning, remembering, problem solving and social interaction.

Because the prefrontal cortex is being reconstructed, the brain relies more on a part called the amygdala to make choices and react.
The amygdala is involved in the “big feelings” we may see - emotional responses like fight or flight, anxiety, excitement, reactivity, impulse control and instinctive behaviour.

Being aware of the physical changes the teenage brain is going through in the process of maturing, helps us to be more understanding and accepting.

Statistics show that many dogs are surrendered or re homed during the teenage stage as their owners no longer “like” the way their dog behaves, can’t handle them or just give up on them.

Please don’t give up on your teenage dog. We need to manage our expectations and frustrations during this phase.

Understand and acknowledge what is happening in their brain. Help them through this stage with patience, consistency, love and acceptance.

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The science of clicker training plus the magic of Tellington TTouch® helps dogs become more calm, cooperative, connected, and self-controlled. I teach life skills and improve or resolve more serious behavior issues.