04/10/2019
When the puppy is born, he is sightless and deaf. His motor skills are undeveloped, so he can only really scootch around the whelping pen a little bit, and he can’t even p*e or p**p without help.
But his education starts right away, mostly through his olfactory system and his sense of touch. He instinctively seeks the warmth of his mother and littermates, and learns to cry when he has been displaced from “the pile.” His nose tells him where the food is, but Mom helps by nudging him onto the ni**le because he can’t see to find it.
As he grows and “comes to his senses,” he is learning massive amounts of information from his environment: warmth is safety, so stay close; there may not be enough ni**les for all, so fight for your spot; human hands, faces, and voices are nothing to fear. If he gets too far and cries, Mom will come get him. If his brothers and sisters bite too hard in play, he can yelp and bite back and make them retreat.
Associations form early for puppies, and things that he does that result in pleasure for him are things he will continue to do. He gets very accomplished at finding his food and sleeping spots. The puppy who bullies his littermates gets good at it. The puppy who submits to them gets good at it. The puppy who learns early on that leaping over his siblings to greet the humans gets him picked up gets good at doing that.
Once he makes the association, he begins to practice the behaviors even more. And the more he practices, the stronger those behaviors become.
Now he is living in a home with humans, and what will he learn there? Typically, pups learn that grabbing stuff and running from humans can be fun, that being noisy in the crate or confinement gets him removed from it, that anything that hits the floor belongs to him, that human hands and pant legs and shoelaces are great to gnaw on, that shoes and other human belongings that he happens across are fun to chew, that running up and down the fence barking at the dog on the other side is very enjoyable, that pulling the human on the leash is how he goes on a walk.
The more he is allowed to follow through with these behaviors, the stronger they become.
Why? Practice!
Behaviors that end in good things for puppies are behaviors that puppies will continue to choose—right into adulthood. The puppy and dog have no moral sensibility and do not care how much that pair of shoes cost or how much you loved that sofa. If they are allowed to practice behaviors, they get quite accomplished at performing them. Dogs do what works, period.
So if you don’t want the dog to chew your stuff, run up and down the fence annoying you and your neighbor and learning some serious barrier frustration, pull you on the leash, grab your pants legs, p*e on the floor, bark and whine while crated, or grab everything and run off with it, don’t allow him to practice those behaviors.
And get off your behind and teach him what you want him to do instead…and DO practice those behaviors, in short spurts, a little bit every day, until they are solid.
You simply cannot end up with an well-trained dog without practice. Training is a process, and it is best to embrace that process rather than trying to evade or avoid it. Leaving the dog to his own devices will ensure that he learns what *he likes to do*, even if you hate it! But teaching the right behaviors and practicing a lot will ensure that you and he are on the same page, and will give him the structure and consistency his brain craves. You will both be happier and enjoy a much deeper relationship.
Now, get out there and practice!