07/06/2024
I took good care of my mother for the last few years. Taking her to Urgent Care for every bladder infection. Taking her to dr. appts, to Walmart, Fareway, funerals every social function she wanted to attend. I tried to get her help for her grief, for her seasonal effective disorder, her sundowners. I PUT HER FIRST BEFORE MYSELF, MY BUSINESS... EVERYTHING. I did it to do the right thing for my mother because I did not know how long she would live. No other siblings showed up. Now they are all sick or dead. They just want my mom out of the way and liquidate the family farm for cash. They don't care what happens to her. There is a nursing home in town to shove her in. She tells me to get rid of my cats or else she will evict me . She isn't even here. She is 12 miles from any cat I own. I take good care of the farm. I take good are of my cats. She said I won't loose my business if I dump my cats. So what should I do? Dump them? Execute them? Get charged with animal abuse and go to prison? Everyone thinks my mom is perfect. She is so sweet and so does well at 97. I was sexually by my brother when I was kid and my mom essentially told me she doesn't care. I held it in for decades. No love, no empathy. She is pure Narcissist Personality Disorder with an aging declining brain and body. And now how should I feel about her? How can you be expected to love a mother who does this to you? I love and care for my cats more then anything I could possibly feel for my mother.
