06/05/2024
I love it when puppy placements start. I love the entire process. And I would like to reflect, so this is a little bit long:
The moments of excitement, of wonder; the moments of worry, the times of sadness and fear; praying every night that everything goes right, then begging God for his mercy when something goes wrong; wrapped up in all the ups and downs, the sheer joy, and the love. All the love in the world for these little, tiny innocent beings, that rely so helplessly on us. All the love for our friends, our support groups, the people who lift us up in times of suffering, the people who stand beside us in joy during times of celebration.
Someone asked me recently, āHow do you know? How do you decide which puppy goes to which person? Why do you make some people wait so long on the waiting list, while others seem to get their puppies sooner?ā
I get asked this often, and the answer is both incredibly complicated, and yet intrinsically simple.
I just do.
I do not āsell puppiesā. I raise family members. And there is a distinct difference. Unlike most breeders, I do not shove my puppies out the door on the dot at some prescribed mythical ābest dateā of 8 or 9 or 10 weeks. My puppies stay as long as they each need to stay to find their right home. And my prospective families stay on my list as long as they each need to find their right puppy.
I spend months with my puppies, not weeks. Most stay through the entire vaccine series, and donāt leave my home until 4-6 months. I provide all of the beginning vet care for them - the first eye exam, a minimum of two vaccines (administered by a vet) and 6 dewormings, microchipping, I start their flea, tick and heartworm preventative myself, and make sure there arenāt going to be any reactions to anything, so that the new owners can simply transfer records and continue care.
I start all of their basic training - they are started on place, stay and wait just as soon as they can get up and walk. They learn stand, sit, heel position, and walking politely on a leash before they are 8-10 weeks. They begin crate training at 6 weeks and are generally completely crate trained by 8-10 weeks. True potty training begins much younger than anyone thinks about - from the time the litter boxes come out at 3 weeks old, we are learning to not potty on anything except what smells like outside. This means that house training just becomes combining the crate training and potty training, so that the puppy is never unsupervised in the house unless itās crated. My puppies are usually completely house trained by 12-16 weeks, supervised. Meaning - they are no longer tethered, but arenāt left loose alone when Iām not home.
By the time my puppies reach 3 months old, I know their ins and outs, how they are to live with, exactly what their personalities are, what they do when they are happy, sad, mad, frustrated, angry, excited; I can tell you every little thing about every single one of them.
I spend an equal amount of time with my prospective puppy owners. You donāt just ābuyā a Gemfire puppy. You get adopted into the family. Some people āclickā easily. Others take more time, and I value them both equally. I donāt always get it right, no breeder ever does, but rarely has it ended poorly.
Iāve learned from the handful of bad placements that Iāve made over the years, and adjusted accordingly. I take the time to learn the people who want my puppies, I sit back and spend a lot of time observing, because itās really easy for someone to tell you what they want you to hear in the middle of an interview when itās all planned out. I build relationships with my prospective owners, because my puppy is going to be with them for the next 10-15 years, and that puppy is my family. I wonāt send a family member to strangers.
Itās amazing, the way everything switches from, āI wonder who your mommy or daddy is going to be?ā, during the first few weeks after puppies hit the ground. Then it seems like time flies by so fast, and as their personalities start to come out, it starts to click. Things like, āThis puppy is such a clown, he would be perfect for X.ā, or, āThis puppy is really a challenge that Y would enjoy!ā
As I close in on my 16th anniversary as a breeder, I find myself humbled. Who knew I would ever make it this far? I have trained and handled HRD dogs in search and rescue, I have personally owner-handled and titled dogs in almost every event that existed prior to COVID, I have placed dogs that went on to FEMA teams, dogs that have competed at the national and world level in multiple events, service dogs that have saved lives or given comfort to their owner/handlers, dogs that have become the foundation for other programs, and beloved companions that have brought joy all around the world.
Thank you all for being along for the ride. It has truly been my joy and privilege. I look forward to what is to come in the next 15 years!