02/11/2021
Puppy Socialization is a phrase a lot of new puppy owners hear thrown around quite a bit.
It's also largely misunderstood by most dog owners.
Because of the ambiguity around socialization and what it looks like in practice, many new pet parents can get it wrong.
And what happens when you get it wrong?
More often than not, it means that new puppy owners are accomplishing the exact opposite of what proper socialization is meant to accomplish.
And that can create a lot of really big behavior problems down the road
So let's take a minute to look at what socializing your puppy SHOULDN'T look like.
1. My dog must meet and greet everyone we come into contact with.
This is not doing you or your dog any favors. And is setting you both up for trouble down the line.
Some puppies will absolutely love this. These are the puppies that grow up to be dogs that pull you toward every strange person and dog within sight. Which, needless to say, is not on anyone's list of goals.
Some puppies will hate it. And if you don't have a keen eye for canine body language and how our puppies tell us they're uncomfortable, you'll likely wind up with an adolescent or adult dog that is displaying reactive or aggressive behavior on walks. Once again, not on anybody's list of goals.
2. You think socialization means going to the dog park and interacting with a many different dogs as possible.
This type of environment and interaction can do quickly and easily go sideways and end up being a very traumatic experience for your puppy. Which will almost certainly turn your puppy into an anxious, fearful, reactive mess.
Not to mention, many pet homes will never have the need for their dog to do well interacting with other strange dogs. So it isn't a vital or necessary area of socialization for most situations.
3. You see a startle or fear response from your dog and think "uh oh! Let's get closer so you see it's no big deal"
When socializing your puppy, PLEASE listen and react accordingly when your puppy tells you they are scared or uncomfortable. No- your puppy does not need to interact or get closer to the scary thing or person. Show your puppy that you are going to step in and relieve that stress by giving them the choice not to interact. Then work with a certified trainer or behaviorist to create happy, comfortable feelings around the scary thing.
4. Waiting until your puppy is fully vaccinated before you do any work with socialization.
Most puppies aren't fully vaccinated until around 16 weeks. When it comes to socialization, waiting this late makes things much more difficult for you and your puppy. There are plenty of safe ways to socialize puppy before this age. Like in-home socialization, taking your puppy places in the car, going through a drive-thru, sitting in your own front yard and watching the world go by, going to areas where you can carry or put your puppy in a cart or carrier.
5. Over-doing it.
I've seen many new pet parents take puppy to every social gathering possible or spending hours some place with no real goal in mind or being implemented. For most puppies, adolescents, and adult dogs, this is entirely too much for too long of a time period.
For many dogs this will cause absolute mental and emotional overload. And that does nothing for our puppies' social and behavioral development.
When socializing, keep it short and sweet. And allow for down time for their nervous system to recover between big events. If you're having people over (because it is that time of year), allow puppy to be a part of it some but make sure you're implementing breaks. Yes-even if your puppy is "loving it". Puppies are seldom able to regulate themselves when there is a lot going on around them. Make sure they have a safe quiet space and some calming, quiet enrichment activities to focus on.
Proper socialization should build confident, resilient, happy dogs. That's a huge cornerstone of our puppy and adolescent program. If you want to learn more, reach out. Link in comments🦴