
04/03/2025
I've spent the better part of my working career working on and with horses.
Since February 2011, I have worked with them daily. From February 2011- December 2014 I raised, trained, bred and sold Standardbred race horses. We had around 80 head on average to care for daily, including stallions, broodmares and foals up to yearlings. One summer we had 150. I did not have ANY horse experience before this, and pretty much got thrown to the wolves taking that job- which is exactly what put me on the fast track to really understanding them. I didn't have time to watch and learn how to handle stallions. It was do it right or get seriously injured, so I figured it out very quickly.
Same with the broodmares. We had a few over the years that came in and were absolutely out for blood. They would grab you by the arm, shoulder or neck- whatever they could latch onto- and throw you. Some would've happily stomped us to death. You could never be unaware of how you approached or went into a stall, how you caught them, lead them (there are very specific parameters of what spot you can be in to not get bit, kicked or run over) or handled them if they did get a bit crazy.
We halter broke the foals and that was the best part for me. It was so interesting to see the little things click in their mind when they "got it" and it prompted me to become softer and softer in my cues and asks. How light and subtle could I be to get them to understand? How could I persuade a being the same weight as me or larger of what i was saying? It's amazing how willing they are to interact and do these weird things you ask. In fact, most of them found it fun and WANTED to be next to you and do more things with you.
If you think about it, to be a true horseman, one who really has magic, they have to learn a silent language. One that is mostly body cues and discreet contact. The quieter they are, the more response they get. The better they are, the more willing of a partner the horse is. Isn't that amazing?
From March 2015- June 2022 I embarked on the journey of taking care of hooves. The amount of knowledge I gained by doing that was even more vast than training them. You see, training them myself I got first contact. I got to set the tone. I got to do it the easy way. Working on other people's horses meant working with other people's problems masking the horse itself. I ended up learning a lot more about the people than the horses, but it also forced me to learn how to listen to the even quieter voice from the horse. The one that had been silenced, the one who pushed through pain for years, the one who just couldn't stand because they hurt so bad, the one who lashed out because they were never heard..... I could evaluate a new horse on the spot within 20 minutes and tell you what body issues they had, their personality type, their preferences and so on.
It actually got so overwhelming dealing with all of the issues owners can cause that I quit. It was too much for my heart and body to take. I was being punished physically for things I didn't even do to those horses.... one day I'll publish something recounting all the crazy stuff that happened in barns where I was hired to work.... but that's a very long book.
For now, I'm so thankful to look back and see everything I learned over the span of 14 years and know that is why I had the guts to buy Luna. That is why I understand her and don't fear her. That is why she will excel beyond what many would imagine. That is why I'm confident in her before she even knows anything. That is why she is calm around me. That is why she will trust me.
The thousands of horses I have touched before her have made me softer, wiser and better. She will have everything she needs because the horses before her didn't.