11/12/2025
Do you ever feel like your dog has two speeds, 0 or 100, and there is no in between? In order to get them to relax in any way you have to exercise them until they are dead tired?
This is because your dog has not been taught how to just relax! You would be surprised, most dogs (ESPECIALLY puppies) do not come with the knowledge of how to relax- they have to be shown how!
The mantra “a tired dog is a dog dog” is really not the phrase we live our lives by, we’re way more in the camp of: “a calm dog is the best dog” as a calm dog rarely exhibits problem behaviors!
Instead of exercising our dogs until they literally pass out
- WHICH causes them to need more and more exercise every time to reach that point, you’re basically training an extreme Olympic athlete— we should be fulfilling their exercising needs and then encouraging relaxation throughout the rest of their time!
Just like putting a toddler down for a nap, if you haven’t worked on this much before, it’s going to take them some time to actually relax once you start encouraging that.
The number 1 key is to be patient and ONLY give them
*calm* attention when they do relax (Giving them slow massaging pets or soothingly saying “good” when they lay down versus an excited voice and fast petting)
Here are some of our favorite ways to encourage your pup to relax: crate time, place command, leash tethering (tether your pup to you or something else and just stay still) making sure they don’t have access to any toys during the times they’re learning to relax! And waiting until they’re completely chill to give them any form of attention.
The best way to encourage this is giving your dog calm attention whenever they CHOSE to relax on their own!
*bonus tip: If your pup has been fed, given water, pottied, exercised extensively and they’re STILL overly excited and won’t relax— this is a good indication that your pup is overtired (much like a toddler) and you need to put them down for a nap, the crate is a great place for this. Wait a little while and you’ll be surprised that they WILL end up sleeping if you don’t let them out when they’re whining!