06/02/2024
Post #2 for 2/5/24 (for those who enjoy reading stories 😊)
Thanks to Alyssa Julian & Susan Julian, Dixie & I have been visiting The Villas of Hollybrook approximately twice a month for 2 years.
Anyone who has had experience with dementia relatives, friends, patients, etc will relate to this story. It brings back memories of my maternal grandmother, Annie, who lived with that condition for years.
In the common area of the Memory Care unit are pillars with flower boxes encircling them at sitting height. They are filled with colorful artificial flowers. This is the perfect height for Dixie to sniff all that she can! She sniffs everything.
On this first visit, Dixie was sniffing around the plants as I was chatting with a resident. I noticed she was getting her nose down into the plant. She nosed around a bit & came out with a chunk of a blueberry muffin! Oh, she was a happy girl!
I’m sure that muffin was stale & had been stashed there sometime ago, but Dixie didn’t care; it was like finding a small hidden treasure! This area is not the dining room, so this little food tidbit had been carried & buried there for safekeeping!
Now, every time we are near the plants, she has to diligently sniff as many as she can; she is driven & her memory is very much intact! Usually, I can watch her & keep her from dipping her nose too far in.
Today, we were visiting with a lovely couple who was telling us their “couple” history, which was a delightful story, btw.
I was a bit distracted perhaps & when I glanced at Dixie, she had her nose in the flowers. I was telling the couple the story about the blueberry muffin from 2 years ago when Dixie hit the JACKPOT & popped up with a chunk of a PopTart! Oh, my, she hit paydirt again!
Dementia patients tend to fiddle with things. They might fold/unfold the same thing repeatedly or button/unbutton, zip/unzip, etc. Annie liked to rip the hems out of the clothes she was wearing & play with the frayed edges.
Storing or hiding items is common. Leftover food might be found in napkins, tissues, pockets, purses or drawers. In this case, someone tucked these gems away planning to return later for a snack!
Dixie is happily batting cleanup for the sweet food-hoarding elderly. She will search those flowers every single time, that is for sure!