12/11/2024
"Problem horses"
This is a difficult topic as there are usually many factors contributing to the horses behavior.
I believe problem horses can turn into the most incredible partners.
Great horses.
There are bad apples out there. (Nature vs. Nurture)
There is the occasional horse born mean...
But usually? The horse has been 'failed' by humans.
Pain, unethical 'training', unclear boundaries, inconsistent handling...overworking physical and mental limitations. Not listening to the horse.
The worst part, more often than not, the horses' people are doing their best! There is no ill intent, just inexperience, poor leadership/advice from mentors, or not knowing what they don't know.
I love problem horses, because I love problem solving.
Well, I love horses.
And I love helping horses.
The most rewarding aspect of my job, is when an equine breaks free of the title, 'problem horse.'
Restarting an equine takes a LOT more time, knowledge, understanding, patience and energy than starting a clean slate such as a born free equine or a horse with proper handling from day one.
Often there is trauma involved for both the horse and the rider.
The first step is separating the horse and rider and tackling each of their issues seperately. The goal is to reintroduce them when they have done their homework. Sometimes a horse and rider are not a match. And that's okay too.
When restarting a problem horse, there is a lot of compromise to begin with, a lot of praise for the good, and ignoring the wrong answers. I don't believe in harsh equipment, I go back to basics.
The only time I am physical with the problem horse is if their behavior is dangerous. This includes entering my space uninvited.
I believe in pressure and release. To take this further, I strongly believe in the least amount of pressure possible- and release.
I want a soft, supple horse.
I believe in ask, tell, discipline. With giving the horse enough time between the three to make the right decision.
I believe in giving the horse space and time to process the right answer (lick and chew.)
I believe in verbal ques and verbal praise. I believe we have the best communication with our equine when we use ALL the tools in our tool box.
Verbal ques, coupled with physical ques.
I believe in riding with your seat, before your hands. And I believe any time we pick up our reins, we need* supporting leg.
I believe on ending on a good note.
I believe in consistency.
When I restart an equine, I am their hype woman, their biggest cheerleader and supporter. I am proud of every good decision they make, and I make sure they know that.
I believe in building a relationship with them, off mutual respect. Love and affection will follow respect.
Respect and dominance are not the same. Dominance in leu of respect is likely a factor of why the horse is in this predicament in the first place.
I believe if I help the horse without helping the human, the horse will revert back to its prior behaviors, and each time it does so, restarting and training will take longer and more effort each time.
I believe in helping the horse, and the human.
Or finding that horse, a human that is a match, a partner.
My first 'problem horse' was never mine, he belonged to my trainer but my heart was his.
His name was Skookum and he taught me how to be a handler of difficult horses, how to problem solve, support, and place healthy boundaries. How to be compassionate leader.
Because of him, I have the skills to restart other problem horses, who are now- horses.
Great horses. With great people.
Included are pictures of Childhood me and my borrowed 'problem' horse. Who went on to a wonderful lesson barn and became the favorite lesson horse with a website the children could write to him.
Dear Skookum.
Thank you for your lessons, love and memories.
You're one of the Greats.