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So often I will see comments on posts where someone was saying they wished they'd known the information given before bec...
07/04/2025

So often I will see comments on posts where someone was saying they wished they'd known the information given before because they felt bad about things that had happened in the past with their dog.

This is such a common feeling - I know very few people who do not have regrets over how life has been lived with their dogs previously. I make no secret of the fact I'm a cross over trainer and, while I didn't use some of the harshest methods in existence, what I did do using old fashioned and outdated methods I regret. I understand that feeling of cognitive dissonance and the emotions that come with realising what I have done wrong by the dogs in my past.

What I have come to realise is that we can only ever do the best we can with what we know at the time. When we know better, then we can do better.

It can be so, so hard when we realise what we've been doing wrong but there is really no point to berating ourselves - the best thing we can do is keep learning about the best ways to work with and live with our dogs so that what we know at the time is absolutely the best information we can have and use to help our dogs lead happy and comfortable lives.

It’s nearly here! Time is running out to register for the upcoming summit, Decoding Aggression & Reactivity Summit - Apr...
07/04/2025

It’s nearly here! Time is running out to register for the upcoming summit, Decoding Aggression & Reactivity Summit - April 2025.

Get access to more than 15 hours of educational information and actionable tips to help your dog stay calm and anxiety free when faced with their triggers.

My friend Ness Jones has brought together more than 15 world-class speakers on aggression & reactivity in our canine companions and how to resolve it.

Yes, this is a paid product but is well worth the $47 US price tag for the more than 15 hours of education information and actionable tips you will receive.

The inaugural Decoding Aggression & Reactivity Summit will be released on April 13 and then you’ll gain access to expert speakers from around the world as well as the free gifts they are providing you!

These speakers have so much wonderful knowledge to share.

Topics include:

Troubleshooting Complex Scenarios
Supporting Reactive Dogs
Aggression and Reactivity in Puppies
Emotional Learning
Managing Up-Close Encounters With Your Reactive Dog
Facilitating Social Contact for Reactive Dogs
and so much more …

Click below to register!

Decoding Your Canine: Discover the secrets to having the pawfect dog. The Masterclass Series covering training, health and well-being.

04/04/2025

How often do you see your dog stop after doing something - perhaps playing, interacting with another dog, or after someone has been making a fuss of them - and shake their whole body? Almost as if they are shaking off water when they are not wet?

The shake off is a sign that the dog has been feeling some level of arousal or stress. In the case of play, this can be a good kind of stress (also known as eustress) while in other situations the dog may not have been comfortable and so feeling a negative kind of stress.

The shake off is sort of an emotional reset - the dog is literally shaking off the stress, getting it out of their system so they can go on with the rest of their day. It is something to be aware of as, if we see it frequently after being given attention by other people for example, it may well mean that the dog would rather avoid that happening again.

Not paying attention to lower levels of stress signals may mean the dog feels they have to escalate to more noticeable signs such as growling. Paying attention to these more subtle signs means that everyone can co-exist in a happier and more relaxed way.

Ears are a great indicator of how our dogs are feeling, and an important area of communication. Understanding how dogs m...
03/04/2025

Ears are a great indicator of how our dogs are feeling, and an important area of communication. Understanding how dogs move their ears when they are feeling different emotions is a central part of being able to read and assess our dogs' body language so we can act accordingly to give them what they need in that moment.

Well, I’m excited! I’ve been asked to speak at the upcoming summit, Decoding Aggression & Reactivity Summit - April 2025...
02/04/2025

Well, I’m excited!

I’ve been asked to speak at the upcoming summit, Decoding Aggression & Reactivity Summit - April 2025.

My friend Ness Jones has brought together 15+ top experts and specialists with literally hours and hours of educational information and actionable tips on supporting your dog to work through their aggression or reactivity.

Yes, this is a paid product but is well worth the $47 US price tag for the more than 15 hours of education information and actionable tips you will receive.

The 2025 Decoding Aggression & Reactivity Summit will be released on April 13 and then you’ll gain lifetime access to expert speakers from around the world so you can go back and revisit the material whenever you wish!

Register here: https://www.decodingyourcanine.com/?affiliate=im8xbP

Given the statements that we see so often from those using aversive or 'balanced' training methods, those of us who use ...
02/04/2025

Given the statements that we see so often from those using aversive or 'balanced' training methods, those of us who use a force free approach need to clear up some of the issues with what is said.

As well as the red flags so often seen of 'positive only' or 'purely positive', these statements will usually trot out the old misunderstanding that all we do is toss cheese at a dog when they do something right and ignore everything else. This is absolutely untrue and does not reflect the force free approach at all.

Successful force free training involves SO much more than that.

• It needs a deep understanding of learning theory.
• What the dog's welfare needs are and how to make sure they are met.
• The potential impact of health on behaviour.
• The emotional states that underly behaviours.
• How to manage situations so that the dogs don't carry out the undesired behaviours and perhaps get an internal reward for doing them.
• How to train other behaviours the dog can do in that situation that will be rewarded so that the undesirable behaviour is no longer the best choice for them in that situation.
• When training isn’t the right answer at all.

The factors involved in getting the force free approach and training right are far too many for me to list in this post or on this image, but these are the things that a good force free trainer or behaviour professional is doing every time they are working with a dog and their humans.

It's so much more than just lobbing food at a dog.

Does your dog struggle with aspects of the world around them? Do they overreact to things that bother them, making walks...
01/04/2025

Does your dog struggle with aspects of the world around them? Do they overreact to things that bother them, making walks and going out into the world difficult for you both? Then the Good Guardianship Reactivity Support Hub is designed just for you.

A place to find empathy, help, and support with the realities of living with a complex and sensitive reactive dog, how to help them with their big feelings, and how to cope with our own feelings. All without fear of judgement or being made to feel like a failure.

Membership of the Reactivity Support Hub gives you access to direct support from accomplished reactive dog behaviour specialist and author Jay Gurden, and the support of a group of people who understand just how it feels to live with one of these special but complicated dogs. Together with helpful handouts, discounts on behaviour services and a few freebies, all for £32/month.

Come and join us here:

A place to find empathy, help, and support with the realities of living with a complex and sensitive reactive dog, how to help them with their big

There is a fabulous quote from the Turkish writer Orhan Pamuk – “Dogs do speak, but only to those who know how to listen...
01/04/2025

There is a fabulous quote from the Turkish writer Orhan Pamuk – “Dogs do speak, but only to those who know how to listen." This is so true, and one of the best things we can do as dog people is to learn how to listen to the way our dogs speak, which is by their body language.

One of the most important areas to look at our dogs to judge their inner state is their face. Looking at the combination of their eyes, level of facial tension and their muzzle (including the whiskers) can tell us a huge amount about how they are feeling in that moment.

Here we are going to look at the variety of signs that can be seen in four different emotional states. It is important to remember that some of these signs might be more difficult to see in some breeds of dog. Brachycephalic dogs, especially those with very flat faces, and those with long hair or lots of loose skin around the face can be more tricky to observe some of these signs. With practice, however, we can learn to see how these areas of the face are held and so interpret what the dog is telling us accurately.

Each expression has a caption explaining what signs the dog in that emotional state will show in their faces.

One of the first steps in starting to help dogs who struggle with things in the world around them is to let those stress...
31/03/2025

One of the first steps in starting to help dogs who struggle with things in the world around them is to let those stress levels drop and let the dog (and us) have some time to decompress. Here's a look at why this is so important.

I recently took part in a zoom talk in the Dog Dilemmas Facebook group (if you’re on FB and interested in kind and ethical training and living with dogs come and join us, it’s a lovely positive group and a safe space to ask questions and talk dog!) on the topic of supporting your reactive dog. A...

Give your dog the best gift ever! Follow your heart and deepen your bond with knowledge and understanding.  Join me for ...
28/03/2025

Give your dog the best gift ever! Follow your heart and deepen your bond with knowledge and understanding.
Join me for Love in Action! What Sensitive Dogs Really Need to Feel Safe and Loved.

This exceptional panel of speakers shares insights, education, and the most up to date knowledge about supporting sensitive dogs with empathy. It starts on March 31. Mark your calendar now!
Attend Free! Register Now! https://www.marilynmele.com/summit-registration_2025mar-apr-jayg

News... I am currently hard at work prepping a new support hub membership for people with reactive dogs where they can a...
27/03/2025

News... I am currently hard at work prepping a new support hub membership for people with reactive dogs where they can access resources and support from others who have been on this journey, and also direct support from me, together with some other special offer bits and bobs that I'm really excited to get up and running. Sneak preview of the program cover image because I'm a big kid and can't resist sharing! There will be special offers for founder members too, with reduced subs for those who come in with me from the beginning. 🤩

Sometimes I enjoy looking back on my journey so far from my own beginnings of understanding sensitive and complex dogs t...
27/03/2025

Sometimes I enjoy looking back on my journey so far from my own beginnings of understanding sensitive and complex dogs to where I am now helping others to understand and support their own dogs and themselves through this journey. This article is the very first piece of writing I did that focused on that support element (although it has been updated slightly over the years) and still has some incredibly valid and useful information within it (and some handy links as well.

"Don’t let the attitudes of others get you down. Concentrate on you and your dog. Remember that everything you are doing is for the good of your dog, and what others think if you suddenly veer off and ‘ninja’ behind some bushes on seeing another dog approaching, cross the road or about turn and head home on seeing something that you know your dog is scared of really does not matter. The most important thing is that you know your dog can trust you to keep them safe and keep them away from the things that scare them. The more you do that, the more your dog will come to know it and trust you to do so."

A blog about dogs, training and the emotional impact of living with reactive dogs.

Helping dogs who are scared is a steady process. Trying to encourage a dog closer with food may seem to make sense and t...
26/03/2025

Helping dogs who are scared is a steady process. Trying to encourage a dog closer with food may seem to make sense and that it will help the dog understand that we're safe to be around. The problem is that it puts too much pressure on the dog and could backfire when they find themselves too close for comfort.

We can use food to help fearful dogs understand we're no threat to them but it involves careful reading of stress signals and tossing pieces of food towards them so they can reach it without having to come closer than they are comfortable with. As their confidence grows, the food doesn't need to be thrown so far.

Patience and trying for slow and steady progress as much as possible is the best way to work with scared dogs.

If you have ever wished that you understood your dog better…If you’ve ever felt helpless to restore calm to your distres...
24/03/2025

If you have ever wished that you understood your dog better…
If you’ve ever felt helpless to restore calm to your distressed dog…
If your dog’s behavior is affecting your peace of mind…
Then it’s time to put Love Into Action!

Mark your calendar for March 31 - April 4!
We’re celebrating Love In Action! What Sensitive Dogs Really Need to feel Safe and Loved. Leading dog professionals, including yours truly, from across the globe share their priceless wisdom during five days of educational interviews.
Register for FREE!

https://www.marilynmele.com/summit-registration_2025mar-apr-jayg

A recent post of mine caught the attention of someone who took exception with the fact that the image showed one of my d...
24/03/2025

A recent post of mine caught the attention of someone who took exception with the fact that the image showed one of my dogs sniffing (this image is the other of my current dogs). This person also has Border Collies and a history in sheep farming, but rather a different attitude towards the dogs in their care (and assumed that I know nothing about farming and working sheepdogs, but that's a different issue!)

This person proudly told me that their dogs are never allowed to sniff the ground, because sniffing will lead to picking up rubbish and so injury and/or death because of picking up bones etc.

It can totally be important to be aware of the areas in which your dog is sniffing - where I live currently there has been history in the surrounding towns of people putting out things like sausages laced with rat poison to harm dogs - but this does not mean that, with care, your dogs cannot sniff.

Sniffing is the most important natural behaviour for dogs. It is the primary way in which they analyse and interpret their world. In the UK we have the Animal Welfare Act 2006, which has welfare needs enshrined within it, including the freedom to be able to carry out natural behaviours.

Yes, there may be times when you can't let them sniff everything they would like (example being my young dog and the pile of horse dung in the middle of the road) but, when you can, make sure to give them plenty of time to sniff.

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