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Sometimes these things are hard to do. Creating an appropriate space can be hard to do, if you don't already have one. M...
05/04/2025

Sometimes these things are hard to do. Creating an appropriate space can be hard to do, if you don't already have one. Making sure everyone is clean and feet are picked out can be hard to do, if you have small children or chronic health issues or a demanding job. Teaching your horse to at least tolerate having their feet worked on can be hard to do, if you don't have an appropriate working area, you have small children, or chronic health issues, or a demanding job, or you don't know how to help a horse be comfortable with the process.

We still have to try. For everyone's sake. Including yours as an owner/handler.

The things mentioned in this post are absolutely reasonable, and there is always some small way we can make it easier. There are people who help horses learn how to be comfortable - I am one, and there are many others. It's an investment, no doubt, and will cost money and time. You know what else costs money and time? Finding (yet?) another farrier, or vet bills that could have been prevented with good farriery. You will invest either way, but doing so with a trainer (or babysitter, or someone to help create a suitable work area, etc.) gives you so much more in return than leaving the issue unresolved.

Greetings Valued Clients!

You can relax, I'm not announcing rate increases. I do, however, need to share some important information, so this text is going to everyone on my books, across the board, and will be pinned on my business FB page. Because there have been some recurring themes in recent months, today I am offering a friendly- but clear- reminder of some of the expectations everyone agreed to before becoming clients. We all only know what we know, until we know more- or are reminded of what we knew. Good fences make good neighbors and all that. Here we go:

1. HORSES NEED TO BE CAUGHT, CLEAN, DRY, and HOOVES PICKED BEFORE THE APPOINTMENT. This means ALL the horses on the list need to be caught, or some form of that. I am most concerned with legs being clean, not body, though that is appreciated. Please DO NOT HOSE LEGS unless you know with 100% certainty they will be dry before the appt. When in doubt, I would rather work with dry and dirty legs than wet and clean. Their wet legs means I have wet pants. ALL DAY, wet pants. It is also dangerous because it makes everything slippery. It is also horrible for the tools, especially rasps. Did you know that rasps cost anywhere from $25-$45 EACH? Nippers are about $300. Water, dirt, mud, and hoof topicals render them useless near immediately (rasps). As an owner, you pick your horse's feet atleast now and then. Now imagine picking...60 feet a day, feet packed like concrete, for example. Doing just that one act can mean so much to your farrier, their body and time. I liken this request to having a cleaning person. It is their job to clean, not pick up, tidy, etc. It is my job to help the horse's feet & thereby overall health and soundness- not catch, clean or train the horse. This request is about us both respecting each other's time, my safety, my skill set and that I am running a professional business. If you've been my client long enough to receive this, you've been one long enough to know I'm not a jerk and I know that life happens and there are exceptions. To clarify, that is not what I'm talking about here.

2. THE WORK AREA SHOULD BE CLEAN, FLAT, SHADED, DRY, OPEN AND FREE OF TRIPPING HAZARDS, ANIMALS AND CHILDREN. Preferably with air flow. This is a health and safety issue/request. I need to be able to escape if something goes wrong. No, I do not want to fry in the direct sun. No, I do not want the horses to be standing in water or dirt. (Please refer back to number 1.)

3. HORSES NEED TO STAND QUIETLY WHILE I WORK. This means willingly pick up the foot when asked, and hold it (and themself) up, while standing still, until I give it back. This does NOT mean: refusing to pick up the foot, yanking it away, pawing, laying on me, sitting back, rearing/standing up on the stand, and it definitely does not mean taking a swing/kicking at me or actively trying to hurt me in ANY way. Again- if you're receiving this, you've been my client long enough to know that my first go-to with any behavior is to assume that it is pain related. I am patient, kind, creative, give alot of breaks, and offer SureFoot pads or Cloud boots to help. I am not talking about lame horses or horses with physical limitations. I am going to be point blank here- I am nearing zero tolerance for behavior issues, especially horses that try to hurt me and nothing is done about it. There will be minimal chances to correct and improve the situation before I decline to offer my services any longer. I LOVE this work and want to be abe to do it for a long time. My safety and well-being is of utmost importance, I shouldn't even have to say this.

**See included photo for how a horse should stand when a farrier is working.**

I conduct myself and my business with very high professional standards, and both clients and horses benefit from that. I consider it a gift to have the skill set I do and be able to help many horses that others often haven't. I also understand that sometimes things are just not a good fit. That said, if any of this does not work for you, that's absolutely okay! Just let me know, I'll take you off the books and wish you the best going forward. Zero drama. I am thankful for all of my clients- past, present and future- and the opportunity to take care of your beloved horses. I am kindly, clearly asking you to Jerry Maguire this and "help me... help you." This is directed at everyone, not any one single person. However, if you find your feathers ruffled, or are wondering if it applies to you, honestly, it probably does.

Please let me know if there are any questions, and I'll see you soon! Thank you for your time.
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Red Headed Farrier

03/04/2025

Some good food for thought.

I don't show, and my reasons for that are that I don't particularly enjoy it, and my horses are bitless, so showing options are limited (though that's becoming less of an issue in some disciplines). The other barriers are really difficult, but probably not insurmountable and I would probably grow in several ways if I were to try. I'll just have to own that.

I think the other lesson here is to work with clients/trainers that *are* a good match. Not everyone is, and I've lost clients or had to walk away from some who weren't. That's a very difficult lesson to learn, especially when everything *seems* like it will work in the beginning. There are a number of reasons, but for me most of the time it's either come down to resources and/or communication. I've had clients whose horses didn't have appropriate resources and I was struggling against that, or frankly I didn't have the resources to succeed (and it was a good indicator of what I needed to learn next). Or (and this is a big one) there was not enough communication or feedback, which goes two ways, but if the client is not involved in the horse's training, doesn't respond to communication, and an issue goes unaddressed, it's a pretty sure sign that the client/professional relationship is not going to work.

Lastly, I'll say that guru worship is rampant in society as a whole, and it's particularly insidious in the equine world. Popularity or absolute confidence without questionability is not a guarantee of someone's qualification.

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03/04/2025

👶=🐴. Because resources are finite no matter what species you're working with.

I might quibble a bit about the "how" of some of this (I can help you too, but in different ways), but yeah: ultimately,...
02/04/2025

I might quibble a bit about the "how" of some of this (I can help you too, but in different ways), but yeah: ultimately, if you don't show up, you'll never get there.

🐴✨ Trail Riding: Where Confidence Goes to Die
(and how to do something about that😆)

Trail riding.
That romantic fantasy where you and your horse glide along in spiritual synchronicity—
they’re reading your mind,
you’re breathing deeply,
the scent of eucalyptus filling your lungs and aligning your chakras,
and not a single muscle in your body clenched in terror.

HAHAHA—no.😎

Here’s a common version for many lovely people😱:

Trail riding is a shared panic spiral.
You and your horse, locked in a feedback loop of fear, reacting to shadows, rustling leaves, and plastic bags possessed by demons.

Each of you nervously amplifying the other, like a badly tuned emotional guitar.

It’s not teamwork.
It’s co-dependent doom anticipation.
One of you is wearing a helmet.
The other has hooves and better faster reflexes.
Neither of you is helping.

If this is you—I see you. Once I was you....

Luckily, trail drama is highly treatable.👩‍⚕️

Spoiler: the horse is not necessarily the problem.🫣

I didn’t know how to help my horse—or how much I was making things worse.

I wanted them to be chill and brave... while I rode like a caffeinated meerkat at a fireworks show🎆.

Then somewhere between “I never want to do this again” and “Why is my Apple Watch registering this as a cardiac event💓?” I learned the secret:

👉 Look up. Ride somewhere.

Yes, really. That’s the whole thing.
Stop scanning for threats like a doomsday prepper.
Pick a direction. Ride with intention.
Your horse doesn’t need you to narrate the trail. They need you to act like you’ve got a plan and you’re not afraid of crunchy leaves.

But let’s be clear: this didn’t happen because I lit a candle and whispered affirmations into my saddle pad.

I trained for it.

I worked on myself.
I trained away from the trail, and on it.
On windy days. On weird days.
I built my seat. I built my horse’s understanding.
I stacked experience and skills like bricks—until we had a foundation we could ride out on.

Because confidence isn’t a vibe.
It’s a skillset with receipts.💪

🐴 Want to actually enjoy trail riding? Try this:

1️⃣ Expose your horse to nonsense.
Tarps, prams, balloon-wielding children.
Let them freak out in a controlled fashion somewhere safe, so they don’t do it at a canter near a cliff.
And yes—it’s as much about training you as it is them.

2️⃣ Ride with someone unbothered.
Find the trail boss whose horse would walk through a Bunnings calmly.
Study them. Channel their energy. Borrow their calm until you’ve built your own.

3️⃣ Start where you won’t die.
Stick to familiar tracks. Know where the monsters live (usually it's that one letterbox).
Then expand like a cautious amoeba.

4️⃣ Lead on the ground.
Yes, groundwork.
Be the bushland tour guide your horse didn’t ask for.
Confidence grows when you both experience the trail without pressure.

5️⃣ Learn what a freeze really means.
When your horse turns into a statue, they’re not plotting your demise.
They’re buffering. Investigating. It’s called the orienting reflex.
Don’t poke the buffering horse. Wait. Then look up and ride somewhere like the kind of human they’d follow into a dark alley.

6️⃣ Train your seat like it’s a seatbelt.
If you can’t sit a spook, fix that.
Balance isn’t about elegance. It’s about not eating gravel. Or at least get a saddle that gives you an advantage against physics!

7️⃣ Be less dramatic than your horse.
It’s not their job to keep you safe.❌
It’s your job to keep them safe.✅
Be the Wi-Fi they can plug into. Be the calm. Be the “we’re good” human.🦸‍♀️

Trail riding isn’t for the faint of heart. Or the unprepared.
And confidence? It’s not magic.

Confidence is like IKEA furniture.
There is a clear way to build it:
Start with instructions. Work on yourself. Build your skills. Prepare your horse.
It’s all there in the metaphorical Allen key of training.

But most people approach trail riding like they approach flat-pack furniture:
No prep. No tools. No plan.
Just blind optimism and a pretty photo in a catalogue.
Then they wonder why it’s wobbly, missing screws,
and held together by hope and the ramifications corner-cutting.

Confidence isn’t a gift.
It’s self-assembly—
built through repetition, strategy, and mildly uncomfortable effort.

Not because you’re broken.
But because you’re a detail-oriented control freak who really hates uncertainty.🤓

And honestly? That’s not a flaw.
It’s a superpower—
once you learn how to aim it properly.🎯

So if you want your horse to be calm,
be the one who stops feeding the panic loop.
Do the work. Ride forward. Ride like you’re in charge of this amazing two-headed organism called you and your horse.

They don’t need you to be fearless.
They need you to be competent.
And ideally…
not freaking out at every snapping twig.

If you're ready to stop white-knuckling trail rides and start riding like you mean it, come hang out with me. I teach this stuff.😉

IMAGE📸: A couple of trail bosses (Fiona & Mary-Anne) and the magnificent Clarence River in the background 😍

Please do hit the share button if this post sparked something for you. But don’t copy and paste it—I wrote this with my own brain cells and more emotional processing power than I usually admit to. Be a sharer, not a pirate. Respect the source code. 🤓

01/04/2025

This video is annotated, so I won’t write a whole bunch. It’s some more of the same from the last video, but I’m adding a new stimulus and duration with moving the plunger, which takes a little bit of time and there’s a “click” at the end which also sends a vibration into her mouth. Previously that was difficult for her, but she doesn’t have a response to it now.

29/03/2025

THE ILLUSION

There should be a moment in every trainer’s journey where we come to realise just how much we’ve been telling the horse what to do. Every step, every movement, every response carefully managed. We’re taught that control equals safety, that precision comes from dictating every detail. But when we step back and start allowing the horse more autonomy, everything can change.

Granted, it’s not easy. Letting go of that control feels unnatural at first. Progress may slow down when you give up 'control'. The horse hesitates, explores, experiments and starts communicating rather than just responding. This is where so many people struggle. It can feel like nothing is happening, like training is stalling, like the horse is ‘testing’ or ‘pushing boundaries’. But what’s really happening is learning. Real learning, the kind where the horse starts to understand, not just comply.

When we allow the horse to move at their own pace, to process, to engage with the training rather than be dictated to, we build something far more valuable than a set of cues and responses. We build a partnership. The horse starts to take responsibility for their own actions. They show us what they understand, where they need more time, what they are comfortable with, and what they are not.

And yes, in the short term, this can make things feel slower, certainly more uncomfortable for us. But in the long run, progress becomes less effortful. A horse that has been given the space to think and make choices is a horse that truly knows what is being asked.

This doesn’t mean letting go of safety or good training principles. Boundaries must still exist, but they are not purely about control. They are about setting up the environment so the horse can succeed while still having a say in how they engage with the process. That balance is difficult for humans. We like certainty, we like predictability. But if we trust the process and allow the horse to be a thinking, feeling learner, the results are more profound than we could ever achieve through control alone.

It’s a shift in mindset, but one that leads to something much deeper than just performance. It leads to true partnership.

Not everyone, but I know there are some.
22/03/2025

Not everyone, but I know there are some.

A personal video for those who — like me — are in the horse world with a chronic illness, pain, depression, or any other condition that makes working with ho...

It’s that time of year, again.https://www.dhgev.de/en/hoof-articles/laminitis/laminitis-articles/the-best-management-of-...
19/03/2025

It’s that time of year, again.

https://www.dhgev.de/en/hoof-articles/laminitis/laminitis-articles/the-best-management-of-laminitis/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR21lJp0klR5ZmdYNSyuercnvGJ1fFQrOTIPiz6WFQfIQRY7_gwllyZrJpw_aem_b8x4AEOOi79czbHH7U9YdA

No drug based therapeutic regimen that can arrest or block laminitis, exists. It is more the extent and severity of the initial lamellar pathology that influences the outcome for the horse, not the treatment itself. The administration of nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) like phenylbutaz...

18/03/2025

Some thoughts about experimenting with affordances and behavior chains:

🔳 Loosely playing with the idea of going from affordances to behavior chains. Exploring several possible affordances can lead to a the emergence of a behavior chain, which can then be taken into the “real world.”

🔳 The square, pole, and cone are my version of affordances, and it was fun to find a different way to use them than just simply going around.

🔳 Siri was low energy, so I tried shoulder-in around the square instead of just walking or trying to go faster.

🔳 You can reverse engineer a behavior chain (cone, jump, square to get the horse to come around the square, over the jump, and stop at the cone), or look at it non-linearly (those things taught separately then combined, which is how I happened to do it).

🔳 Just try something - make up an exercise on the fly from props (square, jump, cone).

🔳 Try other things - do something else with the same setup (shoulder-in, jump, cone).

🔳 It’s a little bit like Legos - you have the components, and from that you put things together.

🔳 I would never do this one at speed, but it’s an interesting thing to try at “slow.”

🔳 It challenges a few different axes of movement in succession, as well as the horse’s desire to be in the moment and respond to each request rather than assuming what’s next.

15/03/2025

The point is not to make everything calm, it’s to be so synchronous that together you’re agile and adaptable.

Baby B had her feet trimmed today almost like any other horse. After a little hesitation at first, all that was differen...
13/03/2025

Baby B had her feet trimmed today almost like any other horse. After a little hesitation at first, all that was different was that the kind trimmer decided not to push beyond her capacity and didn’t use the rasp. This is the third trim since she arrived in September’24, and the first without sedation. Again, I wish I’d gotten video, but again being present was my priority. So, this image from a few days ago will have to stand in.

There are some very important differences here between horses and children, mostly to do with safety. However much of th...
12/03/2025

There are some very important differences here between horses and children, mostly to do with safety. However much of the rest of it, and the theme overall, is the same.

When Your ND Kid is Having A Meltdown and You Need A Little Pixie Dust....
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When it comes to your kid falling apart and coping with enormous feelings.....

Sometimes you need to SEEM to do nothing.

Let me clarify--

You need to ensure that your child is physically SAFE and then just hold space for them,

saying nothing
or saying very little,

just modeling calm for them

and being present/available to them.
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It's easier said than done,

particularly if you have a bigger kid, approaching adolescence or adulthood.

Kids at that age, will often bait you.

Why?

Because they are frustrated, and you represent a lot of what they are frustrated with!
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You APPEAR to have all the agency they long for, and on top of it,

you make everything look EASY, because you are more practiced at Executive Functioning.

And Executive Functioning is everything!
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Because you have MORE E.F., than they do.....

You rarely forget your shoes when you are leaving the house.

You KNOW to resist audibly calling your boss "an idiot" during staff meeting.

You can choose what flavor ice cream you want, without freezing in the aisle for a 10 minute pros and cons session.

You know to look outside at the weather before choosing to wear pants or shorts.

You are able to tune out sirens in order to focus on the information a doctor is relaying to you, over the phone.

You are able to Pivot from washing dishes to answering the knock at the door, without a visible transition meltdown.

You remember to gas up the car before it runs out, on the highway.

You are able to do mental math, KNOW something is outside your budget, and set the idea aside, so you will be able to make rent

You're even able to "tune out" Aunt Heather's constant criticisms about your haircut, and not let it bring your mood down....

And ALL those things are Executive Functioning skills!
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But to your big kids, these don't seem like skills.

They don't seem like things you had to practice and work at.

They just seem to be a part of you...a natural talent....something they didn't inherit....

Maybe even some magical secret you are withholding from them.

And it can be EXHAUSTING feeling like the only one who wasn't given the "Pixie Dust" (Executive Functioning),

and feeling like the people who HAVE the Executive Functioning are waving it in their faces and saying,

"Maybe if you just wished for it hard enough, you too, could do the unthinkable."
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Just picturing it--

I'm getting a mental image of Peter Pan, telling the Darling children to try flying by trying really hard to "have happy thoughts,"

but without having equipped them with the all-important Pixie Dust....

so the Darling children are trying over and over,

and face planting again and again

Doomed to fail...they don't have Executive Functioning (Pixie Dust).

Now, imagine being one of those kids, watching Peter flit here and there, chasing his shadow,

while you lay bruised and bloody on the floor.

Would YOU be happy with Peter?

Or would you feel resentful, envious, confused, and a bit repelled?

I would definitely feel resentful.

So, the fact that my big kids spend a significant part of each week, resenting ME, isn't really a surprise.

But there are some things I can do, to smooth things out. Things that look to an outsider, like I am doing a whole lot of NOTHING.
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1) I can empathize with my child and validate their feelings.

(You seem angry right now. That's a normal feeling. You are allowed to be angry)
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2) I can make sure they stay safe

(Grandpa Kevin, your raised voice isn't what Simone needs right now to feel safe. You can wait for us, over there.)

(Please go around us. My daughter needs to lay down on the floor for a moment. We don't need any help. Thanks for understanding.)
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3) I can stay quiet and let them vent out anger, disappointment, fear, and frustration without taking it personally or inflicting punishments.

It's just a part of how their unfiltered subconscious is processing, because their Executive Functioning isn't strong enough to filter things, yet.

(My kid might need a target for their anger, and I seem like a safe target. One who is strong enough to take a few hits without crumbling or costing them big. It's a compliment. They see me as invulnerable.)
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4) I can continue to help them feel safe with acts of love.

(Offering a cold drink, squeezing a shoulder, covering them with a blanket, handing them something they dropped, sitting side by side with them, etc.)
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5) When they are calmed down and happy enough to be back to acting like their typical self, I can be HONEST with them about how hard it was, growing up.

I can share stories of my struggles, with them...not one upping them...just being relatable.

I can tell them how my working memory HAD to improve because I was driving the Auto Club crazy when I kept locking my keys in my car multiple times a day,

and because Grandma was refusing to buy me another graphing calculator after I lost 2.

I can tell them about the time I drove to work on Christmas because I forgot the office was closed,

and about how impossible it felt to follow Uncle Terry's direction to "ignore" my little sister when she kept calling me "booger-head."

I can explain how hard it felt to concentrate in school,

and how a planner didn't help me remember to turn in papers on time, so I often got points deducted.

I can be HONEST and then tell them the best part: IT GETS BETTER.

Age and practice result DO improve things, and it WON'T always be this hard.
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That is SUCH an important message for our teens and tweens, who are prone to depression, overwhelmed by stress, and confused about where they will fit in.

They need to hear that it WILL get better, and EASIER, with time.
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And in the meantime, I give you permission to SEEM to do nothing, by simply acting enough to

*keep them safe

*let them say "rude," unfiltered things without punishment

*stay with them, quietly and calmly

*and let their basal, primal brains finish processing big feelings,
so their higher order, thinking brains can get down to business
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And let me tell you one last thing.

YOU are ALSO like one of the Darling Children, too...laying bruised and bloody on the floor.

Only YOUR Peter Pan, keeps telling you that if you "discipline" (punish) your child enough, you too, will fly

and everything will be shiny and happy and wonderful.

Only something is still missing.... YOUR version of Magic Pixie Dust...the secret ingredient has been forgotten.

You'll never fly without it.

And YOUR Magic Pixie Dust is modeling physical and emotional regulation for your frequently dysregulated child--

pretending to be calm even if you don't feel it,

staying silent if you don't have anything nice or supportive to say,

showing them unconditional love, that you will stay by their side, even when they are tear stained or wailing,

being the foundation they need to build themselves up.
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THAT is REAL discipline.

Not casual punishments, doled out to cause suffering.

We don't learn better from teachers who make us suffer and threaten us.

We don't learn quicker when we are scared.

Discipline is training your brain to do something in a controlled way.

Discipline is EXECUTIVE FUNCTIONING.

So if you want to fly with your kids, you are going to have to use YOUR regulation skills to enhance THEIR Executive Functioning.

And the more you do it, the easier it will become, because IT GETS BETTER....

and eventually it will seem like you BOTH have ALWAYS had a little pouch of Pixie Dust in your pocket.

It won't feel shockingly rare, at all.
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Are you feeling low on Pixie Dust?

I bet you have more reserves than you realize.

Tell me 3 things that come easier to you now, than they did when you were a teenager.

I bet those things require Executive Functioning.
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For instance:

1) I get lost less often, because I can remember the next few turns I need to make, even with the radio on

2) I make simple decisions much faster, so it doesn't take 30 min to choose which movie I want to watch

3) I haven't accidentally washed a cell phone with my clothes, in years.
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*Photo because some things are ALWAYS in fashion. Like Developing Self Regulation Skills and Growing Executive Functioning.

Really excellent, high-level description - best I've seen for people who aren't farriers/trimmers for a living. This can...
08/03/2025

Really excellent, high-level description - best I've seen for people who aren't farriers/trimmers for a living. This can cause all sorts of seemingly "behavioral" problems under saddle, and even on the ground.

👧=🐴People on the internet are not looking at YOUR horse, you are.
08/03/2025

👧=🐴

People on the internet are not looking at YOUR horse, you are.

"So much writing, drawing, and tracing! All of it completely and totally steered by what he was imagining and creating! ...
06/03/2025

"So much writing, drawing, and tracing! All of it completely and totally steered by what he was imagining and creating! Some of it facilitated by me because of how much the perception of having to do an academic task makes him feel immediately threatened—because of his history in this area. But we continue to break it down, fraction by fraction, so that he succeeds in what he *does* attempt, and builds personal meaning out of all of it."

As always with her posts (if you don't follow her, you might like to do so), this translates to horses. Not a 1:1 translation, but the above paragraph is about as close at it gets.

Most people want their horses to *want* to do the things they want their horses to do, but some horses have a threatening history with those things. In such cases, it can sometimes be helpful (ranging from eye-opening to revolutionary) to set up the environment to allow the horse to explore possibilities. Sometimes, at least in my work, this is done with extrinsic reinforcement (food), and sometimes it's set up to explore intrinsic reinforcement, where the horse explores things, movement, and/or places because they're curious or it feels good. The latter is my infinite preference if at all possible. It's a huge challenge, and so individual to each horse. But why not allow some space for the horse to participate because they get something out of it, too?

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