06/11/2025
Tell me one thing you love about your dog
Ever brought home a new dog and felt like you were failing?
That mix of excitement and "oh no, what have I done?" is a real and common feeling, especially when the reality of being responsible for another living being hits home and training is not going as smoothly as you thought it would.
The training tips that worked for your last dog or the perfect 15-second clips on social media just aren't cutting it.
You may be blindsided by unexpected behaviors like reactivity on your walks, excessive barking, resource guarding or separation anxiety, or the unrelenting time commitment may be leading to burnout.
This can put a strain on your relationships and leave you feeling overwhelmed and even regretful—a feeling known as puppy blues.
The truth is, your dog is an individual with their own needs, and there's no shame in feeling this way.
YOU ARE NOT FAILING.
Here's How to Move Forward:
🐾 Adjust Your Expectations: You've probably realized that "one-size-fits-all" tips won't work. Real, lasting training takes time. Your dog's timeline is their own, not a social media highlight reel.
🐾 Focus on the "Why": Rather than just trying to stop an unwanted behavior, seek to understand its root cause. These are often signs of stress or a lack of clear communication.
🐾 Create a Rhythm: Combat time burnout by building a consistent daily routine. Schedule training, walks, and dedicated quiet time to help both you and your dog thrive.
🐾 Communicate with Your Team: Talk to your partner, roommate, or family to establish clear boundaries and rules for the dog. Everyone needs to be on the same page to reduce confusion.
🐾 Seek Support: You don't have to do this alone. Reach out to a professional trainer or find a community that understands your struggles. A little guidance can build your confidence and make a world of difference.
Remember, the fact that you care enough to feel this overwhelmed means you're already a great dog guardian. You're both learning together.
Did this post hit home for you? Drop a ❤️ below if you've felt this way.
And don't forget to share at least one thing you love about your dog!