Dog Trainer Confession Time
My dogs don't know heel. And they more than likely will never know heel.
I know. I know. A terrible trainer sin.
But......the reality is, heel is not important or a skill that will be beneficial to me. Ever.
Training your dog for the skills that make sense for your life is so important. Don't need your dog to know Heel? That's okay. Don't need your dog to know Place? Perfectly acceptable.
There are skills that I think are things that I think every dog should know. But.....here's another secret. None of them are obedience. Yep. You're dog doesn't even have to learn sit. Things like pattern games, Look At That/BAT training, cooperative care training, desensitization, and so much more is so much more important than obedience.
So the next time someone who isn't in your house questions why your dog doesn't do what they think it should. Think abiut it. Does your dog need that skill? Do you want them to have that skill? If the answers aren't yes. Then it isn't a big deal.
Today 4 fireworks went off right after I got the dogs in. Now is not the time for desensitization. Now it is management, survival, and preparing as much as we can. The 4th of Juky can suck for dogs that are stressed. Make sure you are prepared.
Do you have enough stock of appropriate meds for your dog for potentially 7 days?( Because we all know they aren't gonna just be on the 4th)
Have you trialed those meds so that you know your dogs reaction to them?
Do you have enough enrichment or chewies to keep your dog occupied for the time?
Do you have a plan for when there are active fireworks going that make sure your dog is going to feel safe( hidey hole, snuggled up, safe space)?
Do you have their collar on with their IDs just in case? ( though no dog should be out when there is active fireworks going)
Have you ever described your dog as disobedient? How about Stubborn? Bad dog? Naughty? Or a ton if other words that we tend to use wuth dogs with behavior issues?
Is your dog actually those things? Is your dog being intentionally disobedient? Are they actually being stubborn?
Disobedient means the intentional refusal to obey. Meaning that they would only be not doing a cue because 'they don't want to'.
Stubborn means to have a dogged determination to not change one's attitude. Meaning that nothing else could be at play in that situation.
So when your dog barks at the neighbor, or bolts out the door and ignores your recall, are they really being 'stubborn' or 'disobedient ' or are they struggling and overstimulated?
The language that we use for our dogs behavior has a definitive impact on our idea and thoughts on our dogs. Abd those thoughts can change how we see(and help change) our dogs behavior. By looking at their behavior as not 'disobedient' or 'stubborn' but instead 'struggling' or 'overstimulated' or other issues, it allows us to look at our dogs behavior more objectively and be able to help them navigate through those problems more effectively.
I have a challenge for you. Change your language that you use with your dog and their behavior. Just one word. Change that word and see how it can change the thought process. See how it changes what you feel about your dog and their behavior.
And let me know how it goes.
Trainer Talk
Have you ever described your dog as disobedient? How about Stubborn? Bad dog? Naughty? Or a ton if other words that we tend to use wuth dogs with behavior issues?
Is your dog actually those things? Is your dog being intentionally disobedient? Are they actually being stubborn?
Disobedient means the intentional refusal to obey. Meaning that they would only be not doing a cue because 'they don't want to'.
Stubborn means to have a dogged determination to not change one's attitude. Meaning that nothing else could be at play in that situation.
So when your dog barks at the neighbor, or bolts out the door and ignores your recall, are they really being 'stubborn' or 'disobedient ' or are they struggling and overstimulated?
The language that we use for our dogs behavior has a definitive impact on our idea and thoughts on our dogs. Abd those thoughts can change how we see(and help change) our dogs behavior. By looking at their behavior as not 'disobedient' or 'stubborn' but instead 'struggling' or 'overstimulated' or other issues, it allows us to look at our dogs behavior more objectively and be able to help them navigate through those problems more effectively.
I have a challenge for you. Change your language that you use with your dog and their behavior. Just one word. Change that word and see how it can change the thought process. See how it changes what you feel about your dog and their behavior.
And let me know how it goes.
#rewardsbasedtraining #positivereinforcement
Happy Halloween!
I hope everyone has a safe and good Halloween!
A couple of tips.
Your Pup doesn't want to hang out while you pass out candy. Trick or treating can be super stressful for your pups.
Give them a space away from the door that is quiet and calm.
Make sure your kids candy is put away so that they can't get to it.
And tomorrow's walk, make sure you are aware of surroundings. Either don't walk the neighborhood or make sure your pup is muzzled. An emergency vet visit on November 1st is never fun!
With the cooler temps and the rain, it means that Anwyn and I are spending more time outside playing and training.
The awesome thing is that with playing and doing things in the rain that she likes, it means that she is more likely to be okay with the rain in the future and not stress about it or potentially not have storm anxiety.
As my friend Zach at Evolved Dog Training mentioned, it's called tRaining. Ha. I love a good pun!
What are you doing with your pups in the rain? How are you tRaining?
With the little bit of rain we had this morning, Dug and Jacques were so happy. This is the perfect time to walk your pups. The rain brings up all of the wildlife, bug, dog, cat, people smells that have dissipated due to heat and dryness.
We are supposed to have some 'cool'( better than 100s) weather this week. What do you have planned with your pups while it lasts?
Trainer Talk
No one's Journey is your own
I have had 4 clients talk to me about struggles that they have had over the last couple of weeks with their dogs. Are these new struggles? No. Are these things that they have been working on? Yes. Are these things that are still important to them? Absolutely.
But what changed from one moment to another time have them doubting their progress and where they have come? Social media.
Whether it was someone commenting on the things that they think a dog 'should' know, shaming them for not being able to do things, or it is simply seeing someone else's progress and goals being achieved, it is still hard.
Social media gives us a whole level to things that we haven't thought. It gives us community spanning state lines, country lines and even across oceans. But it also gives us a very small production of what that person's life is. And what their relationship with their dog looks like.
No one's journey is your journey. No one's progress is your progress. And no one else's goals are your goals.
It is important to remember your journey and progress. Document your progress week to week with your dog. Remember where you started and where you are now. Watch your friends succeed and keep hold of your own success. And block out the haters that wish you harm.
It is your and your dogs journey. No one else's
And if you are just starting that journey, I would love to help.
#dogtraining
#positivereinforcement
#forcefreetraining
#oklahomareinforcers
Stress Hangover
With the holiday past us, it is important to handle today with the best interest of you and your pup in mind.
For dogs like Anwyn and Amarant, since they had to medicated last night and it was really stressful, I won't ask them to do too much. We spent time outside, especially right after the storm blew through. We ate treats and played a bit, but in general, I can tell today is a bit of a calmer day for them.
That is to be expected. The stress of last weekend and yesterday is still in their system. A stress 'hangover' as I call it. Some dogs might be more tired today. Some might be more irritable. A bit snappy. Some might be a bit more clingy than normal. They might be overtired or even potentially more playful than normal for those lucky enough to not have anxiety dogs.
Am and Anwyn are definitely more stressed. They are sleeping more than they normally do. Am is a bit clingy and more needy with his affection and attention. Anwyn is a bit grumpier and doesn't want to be messed with. All of this is completely normal and to be expected.
The important thing for today is to go at your dogs pace and have enrichment and management in place to help when you are nursing whatever kind of hangover you might be nursing. For a puppy, it might be a good idea to feed out of an enrichment toy like a snuffle or puzzle toy. Give chewies and employ management so you can get some rest.
For grumpy dogs that don't want to be messed with, don't mess with them, employ management to keep kids out of faces and even a safe space away from everyone.
For clingy dogs, love and pet and give comfort all they( and you) want. And give them the ability to be closr to you for comfort.
It might take a couple of days to recoup from the weekend. Give them time.
Have a great day!
The moment in your Training journey that your storm anxious dog slept through a wind storm so you had no idea there was so much damage around you! A win is a win!
Trainer Talk
Firework safety and precautions.
As stated in the video, now is the time to call the vet. Now is the time to test out your meds. Now is the time to really prepare for the 4th. And I want to give you some tips to keep everyone safe.
1. Watch your pups going out at dusk. It doesn't take much for a dog to freak out and jump a fence to get away from fireworks.
2. Identification! Make sure your pups identification is on them and up to date!
3. Create a safe space.
Turn on the TV a bit louder than you normally would, close the blinds and turn on the lights. And give them a place to hang out.
4. Your Pup does not want to watch the fireworks. There is no reason to take them to the shows.
5. Lickmats, kongs, and other chewies are your friends during fireworks. Give them something to focus on so they aren't stressed.
And finally, now is not the time to start desensitizing them to the fireworks. Now is for management. Desensitization training should start in August.
I have heard so many time clients say that they 'didn't want to bother me' or 'it could wait until our next session'(when it clearly made things difficult for them.) My job doesn't stop when you are finished. My job continues. My job is always to support you.
Don't wait until the next session. If something is bothering you, speak up. Your well being is as much my priority as your dogs training. I always want you to succeed.