28/06/2023
Today is the 54th anniversary of the stonewall uprising, happy Pride 🏳️🌈🔥 Every once in a while, I like to remind folks that this business is run by a very q***r person.
My q***rness touches every corner of my life and I like to spend this month reflecting. My particular experience of being q***r in this country has instilled in me a sense of devotion to my community, a feeling of kinship with misunderstood animals and a desire to resist imperialist values. I don’t think I can sum up the intrinsic connection between my q***r identity/experience and my work in an Instagram post and it feels pretty ironic to attempt to do so.
I will say, the same internal voice that urges me to focus on mutual aid instead of wealth-building also questions my desire to get dogs to walk at a fast pace just to look impressive. The same voice that encourages me to present as a visible q***r person even when I’m nervous in public also suggests that I focus on the health and wellness and joy of the animals in my care and take them on long hikes in the woods. The same voice that wants to defend myself and my friends from exploitation and fetishization and hate also reminds me that we as humans are not entitled to the earth or any of its inhabitants and that we don’t own the land we live on or even the animals in our homes.
This past year I’ve felt extremely supported by my community as I faced sickness, surgery and an ongoing brain injury. I’m grateful for my found family in providence, I’m so grateful for my clients and for the opportunity to actually live as myself even when I’m at work. It’s a massive and hard won privilege.
Becoming a dog trainer has been a challenging and surprisingly beautiful process for me. I learn so much about consent, boundaries, fear, power and security in my work with dogs. Every day I face the myths I’ve internalized about the animals we coexist with, the environment and my role in this ecosystem and I’m thrilled to be learning (and unlearning) so much all the time.
Thank you for inviting me into your lives and your homes and thank you for riding out the changes I make to my business as I grow and change.
So much love and gratitude 🙏🏻