08/08/2024
Today is 8 Aug, Tai's official 1 year adoption-versary with us. ๐
While he is not around with us physically anymore, I hope his spirit and wisdom live on.
When I first spotted signs of him being unwell, I often questioned myself, have I done enough, did I make the right decision / isit the right decision to schedule him for surgery, should we have done things other ways.
And he told me: "There's is no right decision, only the best decision (that we could make) at that point of time.".
This sentence stuck with me throughout the later part of his illness and helped me to calm myself in some ways. And I believed I am not alone here because most of you would have been through this stage of self-doubt and guilt.
So I hope you can remind yourself, to do the best you can in your capacity at whichever moment, leave the rest to the universe. ๐
Either way, it is a journey and lesson for us to go through.
Happy 8.8 once again.
With love,
May & Tai ๐พ