14/07/2022
pt 1:
reactive dogs are exhausting.
this is a cute pic showing 10 seconds of my day where I looked stress free.
traveling with a reactive dog is constantly looking over my shoulder for triggers.
it’s stressing out that the Airbnb next to me might bring a dog.
and it’s jealousy of the people walking their dogs in and out of shops on crowded streets.
I started to doubt wether I had it in me today. Can I actually do this? Can I actually help my dog?
I know that Stella has so much more in her, but we hit a wall.
All the things that normally work became white noise today. Redirection wasn’t working, treats, correcting with her flat collar, vocal guidance, nothing could break through.
But I desperately want the life other owners seem to live so easily. I pray that I’ll wake up and Stella is perfect.
I put the research in. I have read so many books, watched so many videos, and followed the advice of many trainers.
I have pleaded to the Lord that he fixes this. Because the truth is I CANNOT do it in my own strength.
So today, when she pulled me down the street and acted as if she’s never worked a day in her life. I was done.
That’s the reality of reactive dog ownership.
It isn’t fair. It sucks. You will never not think about how many dogs are on the patio, or not scope out the coffee shop before strolling up.
But today guys. Today.
Today I turned my frustration into stubbornness.
I marched her back to the Airbnb and ripped a slip lead out of my car.
Just a slip leash.
And it changed our game today.
(Pt.2 in comments)