01/09/2025
K9 BUBBLE TRAINING
Wag Wisdom Daily Brief — Let’s See: The Ritual of Looking Together
(Five minutes of science, soul & strategies from my heart to yours—motivation you can’t resist, for pup parents and pet pros alike)
In Wag Wisdom, dog trainer and behavior expert Lorrie J. Harris invites you into a new kind of dog training—one that listens before it leads, breathes before it speaks, and notices the space between behaviors as sacred.
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❗️ Problem Theme
“Why does my dog freeze, stiffen, or even lunge when they see something in the distance?”
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🔥 Opening Paragraph
You’re mid-walk when it happens. Your dog’s body goes taut, breath shallow, eyes locked on a shape ahead. A stroller, a dog, a shadow. The world contracts to one point. Instinct says tug the leash, break the spell. But what if the answer isn’t pulling away or pushing through—what if it’s pausing together? That pause has a name: Let’s See. Let’s dig in.
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🧠 Science & Brain — The Bubble of Safety
Dogs, like us, carry an invisible shield called peripersonal space. Neuroscience shows this safety bubble expands when threatened and contracts when safe, guided by circuits in the premotor cortex and amygdala (https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0010945221001933).
What it means: When your dog stiffens, they aren’t “being dramatic.” Their brain is defending that bubble.
Training Tip: Say “Let’s See” in a calm, steady voice. This phrase becomes a ritual marker, allowing your dog to investigate without fear.
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🐾 Training & Behavior — Let Curiosity Lead
Ethological research calls it flight distance—the invisible line where approach flips into retreat (https://digital.library.unt.edu/ark%3A/67531/metadc5120/). Crossing it without choice sparks reactivity.
What “Let’s See” does: It turns that moment into shared curiosity. Instead of dragging away or forcing closer, you let your dog look. When they sigh, blink, or soften, you reward not the staring, but the return to balance.
Training Tip: Keep the 3Ds in mind—Distance, Duration, Distraction. If your dog locks on too long, adjust one of the three until the bubble holds steady.
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🌞 Mindset & Well-Being — Permission to Pause
Your nervous system might scream, “Fix this now!” But here’s the reframe: stepping back or waiting is not weakness. It’s fluency. It tells your dog, I will not rush you through what feels dangerous. That promise builds more confidence than any correction ever could.
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🌀 Psychology & Self-Discovery — The Archetype of the Watcher
In myth, the Watcher stands at the edge of the forest, scanning shadows before the hero steps in. Your dog carries this archetype—sensing, pausing, assessing. Where in your life do you rush past what deserves looking at? Ritual: next time your dog halts, whisper “Let’s see” for both of you. Let the world widen again.
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🌟 Energy & Connection — Breath Beside the Look
Before your dog can soften, you must. Heart-brain research shows your calm rhythm can entrain theirs, syncing nervous systems across species (https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2020.00617/full).
Practice: When you say “Let’s See,” exhale fully. Don’t yank the leash. Kneel, if needed. Your body says: We are safe to look. We are safe to wait.
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🎉 Parting Tail-Thump
“When you let me look, you teach me trust. When you breathe beside me, you teach me brave.”
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💌 Your Closing Whisper
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With heart,
Lorrie J. Harris
Founder, Coaching Canine Companions 🐾
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