27/08/2025
Folks, I need to be honest because I've got an inbox full of people wondering why I'm not getting back to them.
I'm really not well at the moment, partly physically but I'm also going through some horrible family stuff and I've also got some members of the public making things really difficult.
One of our kittens went to a home last month as a foster-to-adopt, potential owner signed our foster-to-adopt agreement which clearly states the cat isn't yours until and unless you complete the adoption. We ask for half the fee upfront (£75) when you take them home, and the other half when you complete the adoption. The fee is higher than our standard £100 adoption fee because it's quite a lot more work to organise a foster-to-adopt.
This person told us £75 would cause hardship so I waived it. They then went and vaccinated the cat without our consent, and demanded reimbursement. Obviously, this doesn't fit with what they'd previously said about hardship, and we also don't cover treatment you decided to get without our agreement.
We tried to come to an agreement with them but they continued to refuse to pay the fee, while demanding free neutering (he's not even old enough yet), microchip and vaccinations. They also haven't actually provided any proof of vaccination, just a photo of the vet's price list.
They're now refusing to give the kitten back, and have reported us to Trading Standards (!!!) and various other places which I'm now having to defend myself to, taking up time that should be spent on our cats. We are also obviously having to deal with the police to try to get our kitten back, while this person sends me giant emails of copied-and-pasted consumer laws she thinks we've broken (she's wrong, he's legally our cat and refusing to return him is theft, but even when it's this clear-cut, repossessing a kitten from someone's house is not exactly straightforward and the police are pretty busy with less ridiculous crimes than kitten theft).
So there's that, my health, a million very very needy cats (including Squiggle the wobbly kitten, two hyperthyroid old lady strays, a cat with no ears due to untreated skin cancer and a sweet former stray with big patches of fur missing due to a severe flea allergy), zero days off ever, family sadness and poor Smol Paul who still can't walk properly and is breaking my heart.
I will reply to messages as soon as I'm able, and I am trying, I just feel like crawling into a hole and staying there sometimes!
Pic of Squiggle in her little flower cave because it cheers me up.