23/10/2025
Language is interesting because if your culture or societal structure you grew up in used this word as something to be fearedâŠ.likely youâll have a hard time practicing it.
For me I grew up in a bilingual household and extremely conservative Baptist Christian from the backwoods of north Idaho.
So the word discipline in the home I grew up with was uhhh well, it was something scary and for sure had a negative connotation.
However, discipline took on another meaning in my life when I put myself through college, joined a sorority, was a cheerleader at our university, had internships and a job.
Suddenly discipline was about self motivation, structure and it was the highest form of self love I could have provided myself.
The discipline I provide for myself now is:
- going to the gym 5-6x per week
- cooking all meals at home with whole ingredients 90% of the time
- structuring my time wisely for running my own dog training business and consulting company + personal life as wife and dog mom
For our dogs (and also for children) - discipline is usually management techniques leveraged to help reduce or increase behavior
I view discipline, not as something that is harsh, overbearing, scary or abusive
I view discipline as a framework provided that a dog or human operates inside of to live a safe and happy life.
In order to do that, you donât allow certain behaviors to be rehearsed and you promote the ones you do want.
Like I said, due to culture, upbringing and how you view the world around you, words will have different meanings (or if youâre a di****ad and want to be pedantic or semantic) youll say that discipline means something totally opposite.
And thats ok! Words can have different weight to you.
Just some food for thought today!
What do you think? Is discipline a âbadâ word to you?