22/03/2023
🐶 “Owning a reactive dog is hard. Owning a dog with an anxiety disorder is hard. It can be really emotionally draining and extremely stressful. For those who haven’t experienced it, the struggle can be hard to grasp.
I have put *so much work* into Kody, his training, and our relationship. Unfortunately, a lot of his behavioral issues are simply genetic, and there is only so much improvement that can be made on certain things.
He experienced the first visitors to our house today, and it did not go well. He has done well with people in general when he meets them outside of our home, although he does show fear sometimes and prefers to be ignored until he is comfortable with a new person. However, this experience of having people enter his home was entirely new for him and he struggled. A lot.
As his owner, advocate, trainer, and “mom”, I made sure to have him on leash, have high value treats on hand, and to try to remain calm (which was hard). I also utilized his place cot which helped some. It still ended up to be so overwhelming for him that he needed some of his Rx anti-anxiety medication. It helped a lot, but didn’t fix the issue — it will take time and training, not just medication.
He was curious about our guests, but very conflicted. He was fearful and territorial, anxious and alert. He barked everytime someone would come back after having left the room, and he growled quite a few times. His body language was stiff and I didn’t trust him to let him off leash. Eventually, he did allow some petting and seemed to enjoy it. Then, he fell asleep on me. Still, he would growl if people moved quickly.
Since the visitors are my family, this is quite upsetting, but looking at Kody objectively and not as “my dog” — it isn’t surprising. He doesn’t do well with novelty, and he is fearful of people in general. It’s always there, it’s just how much fear he is feeling at the time. And this was a lot, because he didn’t understand that it was okay for “strangers” to be in our home.
I will continue to work through this. In the meantime I just needed to vent. Thanks for reading, and my heart goes out to all of those who struggle with similar issues. 💗”