06/03/2023
Make a fist! 👊
When you're trying to gain the trust of a new cat, instead of reaching out with an open, outstretched hand, offer it your closed fist. You'll get much better results!
Cats view an open, outstretched human hand as a sign of aggression. Our long fingers and visible fingernails are claws to them, especially if the nails are long. As you're reaching out, kitty may perceive that you're trying to swat them with your claws. Despite your good intentions, the cat perceives a threat and will back away.
Instead, make a fist by tucking your nails into your palm and offer the cat a sort of fist bump. You'll see that the cat will be more inclined to come forward to sniff your hand and/or invite you to scratch it. This gesture is significantly less threatening to the kitty.
📷: our friend, Sharon, demonstrates how to gain the trust of a new kitty by offering it a closed hand. Sharon cares for a handful of ferals outside her home that were "thrown out" when the executors of an estate closed up a nearby house. These cats have been outside for a few years and have lost trust in humans. Sharon has been working with the semi-ferals and has successfully prepared two cats to return indoors. The cat shown, Graystone, was recently reunited with former housemate (and Stray Cat Project senior adoptable), Pickles, in the same forever home where they are both very much loved and cherished pets. (Way to go, Sharon!!!! 👏😽)